Well Greendale, I'm 27 too and still a virgin, so you are not alone
I think I haven't met the special one yet and actually when I look back at my past relationships I realise more and more that I've made the right decision. Once, I was dumped by one of my ex-boyfriends just because I didn't sleep with him and I got devastated then but now I'm glad he did that. I'm glad he opened my eyes. I think I will wait until I get married, because then I will know that the person I'm going to marry is the one. Call me old-fashioned but that's just how I feel. I don't have a boyfriend right now and I don't want to have one until I find someone I really love and who loves me back. My first and the longest relationship ended because I couldn't love him as much as he loved me. So, that's my biggest fear. I want to find love - who doesn't? lol- but also love and lust for someone who is really worth it. Sex and love cannot be separated but love comes first. People come and ask me "how come you don't have a boyfriend?" and I'm trying not to get irritated. It's not difficult to find a bf really but the thing is to find real happiness if it's possible. Am I too pessimistic? lol. Hope not.