[oberon]

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Quote[/b] (Brandye @ May 07 2004,14:33)]There once was a Madam named Xaviera Hollander who was arrested, had a splashy trial and worte a book about managing the "business."

The name of the book was "The Happy Hooker" and it was also a movie starring Lynn Redgrave.

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] (Brandye @ May 07 2004,14:33)] I also had very good advice, posted her somewhere, from an aunt on how to prevent gagging.

Here's all the quotes from you on BJ's and gagging that I could find. (plus one from me... )

I hope they help:

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] (Brandye @ Sep. 23 2002,13:28)]You say you want to take him down your throat and then suck. Well, the part of the penis that is sensitive to the sucking is the head. If it is down your throat, the sucking is irrelevant because the head will be stimulated rubbing in your throat. I have heard of "Hum jobs" but have never deepthroated myself so do not know much about that.<p>It seems to me that the added dimension of sucking and using your tongue (neither of which you can do with your vagina) should be pretty great alternatives.<p>I know people still want to do the deep throat thing. I have never gotten around to learning.

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] (Brandye @ Nov. 12 2003,14:27)]The first time I got a mouthful, I made a fool of myself - hacking gagging and generally being a mess. You are correct in identifying the gag reflex as the problem Most women think it is the taste or the consistency. We can get accustomed to that.

Try this technique. Keep a finger at the base of his scrotum. This is the place that contracts first when he ejaculates. A thumb on the bottom of the penis can also feel the ejaculate moving through the uretra. When you feel it coming (and it happens quick) press the back of your tongue against your hard palate. This prevents that first big, hard spurt from striking the soft palate (back of the throat) which responds with a gag.

My aunt told me about this when I was first getting active and I have found it to be quite successful. I still do not like the taste but the rest is so much fun, and gives men so much pleasure, that I can live with that.

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] (oberon @ Dec. 03 2003,20:19)]Glad someone mentioned swallowing movements, that's the best trick. *The head over the edge of the bed is good too; it seems to provide a better angle or something. *Here's another: remember to keep breathing deeply through your nose. *That suffocating feeling kicks in my gag reflex. *And unless you are really comfortable with it, make him keep his hands off the back of your head. *No one enjoys feeling like they are being forced.

It also helps to REALLY want to do it. *That way you aren't tense about performing well, you just do it. *The truth is most guys enjoy whatever you do down there, so deepthroating is just a plus. *

As far as practicing, I actually saw a device on a British tv show. *It was a dildo with a cord attached to an egg-shaped vibrator. *There was a target at the base of the dildo and when you successfully deepthroated it(your nose touched the target) the vibrator went off and gave you a little reward.lol