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My husband likes it too. I had a hard time getting over my fear of anal. At times I would agree just to please my husband. I really wasn't into it.
A couple of years ago, my husband and I started same room swapping with two couples. Things quickly went from making out with other people to full on sex. With the men's encouragement I even began to have experiences with the other wives and found that I really enjoyed lesbian sex. Two years later my husband and I are still fully committed to each other, but still enjoy frequent swinging.
It was during one of these swing sessions that I came to appreciate and love anal sex. I was making it with one of the other men (pretty hot and heavy). My husband came over and asked if he could go into the backdoor at the same time. I agreed. He used plenty of lube and I got my first "D.P.". I was so turned on having two guys inside of me. I have loved anal since that day. I attribute my new found love of anal to two things:
1. For me personally, the feeling of being filled by two men and the vaginal stimulation that goes with the anal penetration is exquisite. Even when my husband and I have anal alone, I use a dildo or vibrator to get vaginal stimulation. Before, I did not pay attention to that area and anal was not nearly as fun.
2. I opened up my inner slut. Swinging helped me embrace my inner slut where before I had tried to repress it and be a proper wife. Anal is taboo by its very nature. Opening up to a wild new sex life and accepting how much I enjoyed sleeping with other people really helped me accept other new things like anal. Of course swinging is not for anyone. But I believe it helps to really get into whatever makes you hot. Swinging, role-play, slutty-dressing, whatever.
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