What is your opinion on adults still being virgins over the age of 20? I've heard from some people who think it is pathetic, I've heard from women they love adult men who are still virgins (because the experienced women do love training men whose never had sex before), etc. Please be honest on your opinion.
Let me explain below:
I've never had a serious long-term girlfriend. I've been out with women "as close friends", nothing serious so that shows I have lots of confidence around women. I am not afraid of asking women out and I am not afraid of talking to women. I love women very much. I am a very open minded person who loves talking to people to just about anything. I mean anything. I'm very confidence around people.
You see, I am 27 year old, and I've never had sex. Yep, that is true that I've never had sexual intercourse. I've had many people tell me, "When are you going to get a girlfriend?", "When are you ever going to get laid?", "I lost my virginity at 15 or 16, why are you still a virgin now?", etc. I get those questions all the time. My response, "Sex isn't everything, enjoy life while you can." They usually say nothing after that.
I'm not an ugly looking guy, people say that I'm attractive and good looking/cute women called me. I've had women request sexual favors from me, but I refuse to have sex with them, since I was only friends with them for a short period of time and I was never a "one night stand" kind of a guy.
Why is there people in such a rush to have sex? Most adults lose their virginity in their teens but is there a law where it says every adult needs to lose their virginity at a young age? No. People can lose their virginity whenever they want to. Doesn't matter what age. Sex isn't everything in life. As I repeatidily stated above, "enjoy life while you can". I am a virgin at my own decision. People make their own decisions in life and that all there is to it.
If I wanted, I can go out there and grab a woman to bring to "get laid" but as I said, I've never been that "one night stand" kind of guy.
Sure, I love women a lot, too much, I love porn. I love buying girly magazines and I look at porn on the internet. I masterbate (aka Jerking off) a couple of times a day. So whenever I have sex for the first time, I'll know what to do and I'll figure it out. I'll just do the same thing the male porn stars do in the porn videos. As I said, I'm not scared and I have a lot of confidence around women.
This one time, me and a few guy friends of mine went to a strip club. Okay, I admit, I have a little sexual experience but I still didn't lose my virginity, since the only way to lose your virginity is to have intercourse. I went to a strip club (once) because my buddies talked me into going with them so I decided "what the hell, sure, I'll go and see what it's like". So I went to the strip club, got many lap dances with many different women. A few of the women actually allowed me to feel all over her body and she even allowed me to play with her boobs and squeeze them for a few minutes. Again, I wasn't scared and wasn't nervous one bit. That still wasn't losing my virginity, all I did with the female strippers was feel their private parts and do a little french kissing and making out. So you begin to think, "You're a hypocrite, you said you weren't a 'one night stand' kind of guy and you got lap dances at a strip club'". So I said, "I know, the only reason I got lap dances from strippers was that I wanted to get a little preview and a little sexual experience to see what 'sex' is all about".
The sex with the strippers was great, I really enjoyed it, the women had amazing bodies and they were beautiful, it's obvious that women exercise and work out to get that perfect body.... but I don't ever plan on going to a strip club again. A few days after the strip club, I began to feel a little depressed and guilty that I spent all that money on women I barely know. Again, I just did that to get a little sexual experience with "actual women" and to see what it's all about.
I'm the type of guy that wants a serious relationship with a woman, and I want more than just sex with her. I want to have sex with someone who I know extremely well and someone who I truly love. If I find a woman who I truly love and if she'll respect me like a real human being, then I'll accept the sex if she'll accept it.
I've went out with women in the past who I wouldn't call girlfriends. I've had many "short" relationships that turned out bad. Many women used me for money and their own entertainment, in other words, women used me to tease me and test me. Those are the type of women I stay away from. There are evil women out there, that's why I stopped dating women for a while because I'm tired of playing sick games with them. The thing is, I do not want to lose my virginity to some stupid woman I barely know. I want to lose my viriginity to someone special and to someone who I truly love. Now I am ready to start dating women again. I haven't found a new woman to go out with yet, but I am looking and working hard on it. I will lose my virginity when I think I am ready, do not care what anyone says.
Hopefully I'll keep a steady girlfriend next time around. That's my goal this year. But I'm working real hard on trying to "lose my viriginity" soon but only when the time is right. I'm tired of being alone, that's why I'm out there searching for a new love.
Another thing I forgot to say, is that it's good to not have sex, so you won't go risking diseases or accidentily getting women pregnant when they don't want it. Some people feel safe to not have sex, that's why a lot of older adults are still virgins too, that could be another reason.
Any thoughts on this matter? Sorry for making this post so long, I had a lot to say get everything off my chest.