Hubby loves it. But he only gets it on the most special of occasions or if I really need something. Makes a great bribe if it works. Which is my problem. It is so hard for me to get into it. I have had so many more horrible and painful times then good. I now would like to enjoy it but it still doesn't always work out. The moment I know its going to happen I freeze up and wait for the pain.
He has now thought that I should get to just learn to like it. So he has used his finger and just recently bought a very small butt plug which he has used a couple of times and I don't mind it.
He is very good at remembering and there have been a few times that I have truly loved it. Sooooooo its the ongoing goal to achieve enjoyment for us both. I always feel bad when it hurts and I can't continue. Poor guy. *
