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Old 04-27-2004, 04:45 PM
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IMO-- "i dont want a boyfriend right now" means exactly what it looks like. its the same as like "i dont want to be friends with you" or "i do NOT want to have sex with you". she just does not want to.

yall are young, and yall only dated for 1 week.
my boyfriend & i have been together for 3 1/2 years, & he has never ONCE said "i dont want a girlfriend". although he wont find anyone better then me. lol jk

but 1 piece of advice--if she does NOT want to date you--your best bet is to NOT pressure her into going BACK out with you again..thats a total turn off...

about 2 yrs ago, i had the unfortunate opportunity to meet this guy--he was so ugly, talked weird, was not my type--and i knew my BF wouldnt approve (long story lol), anyways, i went out to dinner w/the guy 1 time, he spent like 5 hrs at my apartment then he went on his merry way. WELL, it took me OVER a year to get that little sh*t off my back. he was harassing me, stalking me, you name it--he did it--from bringing his little "friends" to my apartment, to calling me @ all times of the night. i told him i wasnt into him--and he DIDNT get the point..and it turned me off--of dating OTHER guys for a while...

so please, do me a favor--and dont be like that little sh*t that got too attached to me..if she isnt interrested in dating--leave it at that..

toodles
mel
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