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Okay, killaj, without sounding too harsh I hope, this girl was not your girlfriend. *She was a girl you had dated (for a week). *Building up to girlfriend (or boyfriend) takes time. *Sounds to me like you are a little anxious. *Slow down. *Get to know different girls. *When you meet one you really like and she really likes you, then you can start thinking about boyfriend/girlfriend. *But if you continue to think of a girl you've been out with for a week as a girlfriend, chances are you will scare a lot of them off. *"I don't want a boyfriend right now" could simply be a reaction to the pressure that you seem to want a girlfriend RIGHT NOW.
Hey, girlfriends will come in time, but right now try being their friend. *Just their friend. *If you get to hang out with the girls, you will learn what you like and what to look for. *And you might also learn what they are looking for- and try to be that. *
Relationships will develop in time, but no one says you can't have fun while you are looking. *Take care.
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