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Your first paragraph is of course true... there are many people with a jealousy problem and there are ways to help.
My earlier comments were based on the fact that no where in this thread do I see, "This really bothers him and he wants to stop being this way."
A wise old friend of mine used to say:
The first step to solving a problem is to figure out who "owns" it.
The person who owns it is always the person who is bothered by it.
If he wants you to help him be more secure with you, great. Blaming his ex-gf and other friends isn't going to accomplish anything. Until he owns the problem, he doesn't have one.
But you do.
Think about it, please.
Wally
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