Hmmm... a couple questions...?
a) How do you determine which accent color will best compliment your primary color or pattern when decorating a livingroom...?
b) Do all gay men just receive a defacto gym membership and start working-out immediately...?
All kidding aside, I've known plenty of gay, lesbian and bisexual people in my life and they've all been VERY open with me and willing (if not eager) to answer all kinds of questions. To me, there's nothing needed to explain at this point. Heck... I DO live in Massachusetts where gay marriage is now legal.