Love, love, love anal. I think I was the one to bring it up first, and as many have said, the first couple of times it did hurt a bit. I've noticed my guy has to control the urge to start pumping away right when he puts it in, even now. Just give yourself a couple of minutes to adjust to it, physically and mentally, being all tensed up doesn't help. You'll be all tightened up, making the muscles tighten too, and that's no good! Even now after we've been doing it for about half a year, the idea of it being so controversial still turns me on.
