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interesting post, however I think you see something wrong: you wrote: "If you want to be gay then thats your decision wether i like it or not i must respect it. So anything i say here, please dont take the wrong way. I mean no disrespect at all."
you assume that sexuality is a choice, so basically all what a gay man would have to do is to change his mind to be in love again with a woman, but this very wrong! attraction is NO choice.
What you basically say is that you could fall in love with anybody and that you simple chose to do that, but you don't! I assume you have also experieneced that you met a great woman, she had the looks you liked and the charactertistics (most of the things you would like a woman to have) but....you didn't love her altough if you looked at her "features" she would have been somebody you could desire. what do I want to say with that? I want to show that you can't chose whom you love and to whom are you are attracted to. The same thing goes for gay and lesbian people. they don't choose to be attracted to people of the same gender, they just are, like you are left handed or right handed.
that's the reason why this "un-natural" argument is not valid in me eyes, because it claims that "gays make the wrong decision" and it has nothing to do with a decision at all.
IF you were right with that, then straight people could just decide to be gay. can you do that? I guess not.
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