[Nurse Naddy]

It's true....when you get over the nerves of "finding the right hole" it's not hard at all.

First of all, there are 3 holes, but the urethra (which is easily seen at the tip of most mens penises) are very small and often hard to find on a woman, you don't need to worry about getting that whole mixed up. So, you are down to the anus and the vagina. If you start from the mons pubis (where all of her pubic hair is just above the labia and clitoris) and work your way down you'll be okay.

When you are ready, try sliding on finger between her labia. There is no reason why you have to jump right into fingering. Play around with her for a bit, explore, find out what she's like down there and what other areas excite her. She'll be very wet before you know it (which is great for lubrication). Then when you are both ready slide you finger down along the clit and just keep following down pushing slightly inward and your finger with glide easily into her whole.

Do go nice and slow because if she is a virgin it can be uncomfortable and talk to her about what she is feeling. Ask her what she likes, tell her its okay with you for her to show you and tell you. Open communication seems awkward sometimes during sexual moments, but once you get used to it, it makes the experience so much better for both parties!

Have fun!