1st Time Pain and Bleeding
read all these posts if you haven't already
as you'll see every girl is different some have trouble their first time...some no pain or bleeding at all.
if she's been masturbating and you've fingered her w/ at least 2 fingere her hymen may already be gone.
also, if she uses tampons it could be gone.
i masturbated and used tampons so my first time was just a little discomfort at first then i was fine... no bleeding at all.
apparently you can see the hymen from the outside. check online for some pics.