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Ok even though you did give some details, you didn't say whether or not you keep the same routine. When you are together do you do different things together? Or do you keep it as dinner and a movie so to speak? Even in my relationship (married 2 years and have a child) if we keep the same routine then we both tend to wander what it would be like with someone else. I'm not exactly sure but I would say to an extent this is normal. I mean if you have a partner or not you will still have fantasies. If your partner isn't truly secure with themselves (like me) this tends to hurt, sometimes very badly. I'm not sure of all the aspects of your relationship but some spice never hurt any relationship. Be creative, think of new ways to do the older things, and always try new things. This will keep the excitement alive for both of you and these tendencies will fade away. They have worked wonders for us.
I hope this helps. I'm not an expert by no means.
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