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See I think you can have friends with benefits, its just that both of you have to realize that there are going to be feelings, and that most likely in the end someone going to get hurt. I mean its not the most emotionally healthy thing to do. When your intimate with someone, one person is always going to have more feelings than the other, so if if it is just an fb, someone is gonna get hurt. I have had the same fb, since I was 16 and some how its managed to workout, even in between both of our screwed up relationships with other people, so 7 years. I say its possible. We have had our issues and our problems. I feel kind of bad sometimes because I am usually the one that hurts her, but we talk about and she has told me how she feels and that ball is in her court, if she wants to stop, all she has to do is say something. So yeah, I agree with them though. The only way to deal with issues is to talk about it. Never hurts to ask.
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