Hey Richard, are you in college ? If so, I suggest joining some of the student organizations on campus ... ie. a movie club, music club, service fraternity, social fraternity (I'm a Sigma Nu), etc. This will do two things for you: one, you will not be feeling sorry for yourself and compounding the problem by always being alone, and two, you'll get to know people, and some of those people will be girls, and some of those girls will be single.
The most important thing is to expand your comfort zone... here's how I look at it. You don't necessarily completely stray away from your comfort zone, nor do you completely reside in it at all times : you expand your comfort zone to include new settings and situations.
Join some clubs, meet some people, hang out, and most important of all: Take it easy and relax! Don't get discouraged... I'm 22 right now, and the relationship I'm in right now is my first and it's great.
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