In a man's world, nothing beats a good blow job, and an excellent one is pretty much a heaven sent gift from the Gods. We're here to give you the inside scoop on how to turn a good blow job, into an unforgettable one. From man to you, read on to find out all about fellatio, and how to give him the best blow he has ever had!
Although having your penis played with is almost always better than not, there is no ingredient hotter than, what we many of us men refer to as, 'the hunger.' If you aren't familiar with this term, picture yourself not being able to go another instant without being able to wrap your lips around his sword, so that you can lick, suck and tug his juices out of him. Although there are many techniques that can make the experience good, or even great, passion is the only one that can take the experience to the stars.
Right now, you may be thinking something along the lines of - "lets see you be ‘hungry' after 30 or more minutes of sword swallowing." What you need to keep in mind is most men, when they take the matter into their own hands, can get the job done in a couple of minutes - if it even takes that long. Although one could argue that it's the years of practice offering the competitive advantage, I believe the more important factor is that our friend ‘Palmela' can't wait another moment to reach down inside our pants.
2. The more, the merrier.
When it comes to fellatio, there is no such thing as too much of a good thing! Let's face it, "too much fellatio…" are words you won't hear coming from too many men, if any! We're willing to bet that you can take him any night you desire without a hint of complaint. Do it as a warm up, a cool down, or as the main event. Do it in the morning, noon, night, or while he's watching the game. Do it every day, or twice a day –we can guarantee that you won't be hearing any complaints from him - and there's a good chance he'll be returning the favour!
3. Switch it Up.
If you find yourself stuck in a rut while performing fellatio on your man, don't get discouraged and/or give yourself lockjaw trying to get him to cum; instead, try changing your technique or position. If you find yourself in need of a break, make sure not to the pose the "are you close" question... It will leave him feeling like his most prized body part is a chore and a hassle for you. Instead, tell him how much you love his ‘hard throbbing cock' while stroking it to let your jaw get a breather. Most importantly, try to enjoy yourself and let him know it, and most likely he will too!
Who doesn't love an unexpected treat, especially one down south! Catch him off guard on his lunch break, at the door when he comes home from work, in the middle of the night while he's sleeping, or slip into the shower with him and take advantage of his already wet naked body. Surprise BJs are awesome by any man's standards, so do it often and use our website to do it well!
5. Swallowing is hot
Okay, so while swallowing is generally the preferred choice when it comes to what to do with his cum post-orgasm, it isn't necessarily the MOST important aspect of the act. What most men DO want is that you let them cum in your mouth. Think about it, having to pull pre-orgasm requires a man to throw a wrench in that heavenly moment in order to pull out and settle for something second rate, rather than being able to continue with the rhythm and sensation of the climax, releasing himself physically and mentally to enjoy complete and total orgasmic satisfaction. If you swallow after the fact, all the more appreciated, as many a man feels that it signifies you taking them in and enjoying them to their absolute fullest.
6. Don't forget the meatus!
The meatus is the urinary opening on the glans penis, or the head of the penis. This area is loaded with sensitive nerve endings, guaranteed to bring pleasure to any man when extra special attention is paid to this delicate area during fellatio. Try running your tongue on and a little inside the ridge of the meatus to bring him surefire pleasure. You don't need to linger too long, but do remember to come back to this little hotspot every so often, to make his toes curl and bring him closer to orgasm
7. Anal play
The perineum (the area between the balls and the anus) and the anus itself are two highly sensitive and pleasure-potential body parts not to be missed! Run your tongue or wet fingers along his perineum towards the anus. Tease the back door by running your wet fingers or tongue in circular motions around it (or send a finger or two through if he likes it). From here you have the perfect opportunity to stimulate his prostate while performing fellatio. If you can coordinate it, stimulating the prostate while going down on him can produce a stronger, more intense, and incredibly satisfying orgasm. Remember, with any kind of anal play, cleanliness is important. If you're a first timer with anal play or perhaps just want a refresher, check out our articles on Analingus and Anal Fingering for top tips on how to make it hot.
Looking for more ideas? Our website is loaded with resources to make your efforts with fellatio a surefire success. Start with Fellatio - Basics, followed by Fellatio – Advanced, and finishing off with Fellatio – Deep Throat, all at your fingertips under our online Sex Encyclopedia. If you're looking to add some new material to your repertoire, be sure to check out Fellatio Sex Positions in our all-inclusive Sex Positions Guide for variety and variation to keep you busy (and him on cloud 9!) for months, if not years!