Does Size Matter?
It is perfectly normal to feel some nervousness or uncertainty when you first become intimate with someone. Poor body image, weak self-confidence or sexual inexperience can all contribute to this negative effect. Penis size, or a lack thereof, can create so much confusion and insecurity, even to the point of obsessiveness. It is useful to have SOME size, but more than a few inches doesn't make the difference between a good lover, or bad. In any case, you don't have to let it weaken your performance; you can pleasure the heck out of someone regardless of size.
We’re no longer living in the proverbial caveman days where a big penis dictates a man's virility, sexuality and masculinity; if it's connected to a vulgar, inexperienced oaf then he doesn't stand a chance. Although a big package might make your life a little easier, you won’t have much of a grace period if you have inexcusable sexual habits. Being a master in the bedroom is not just about deep penetration. It's about having confidence, openness and impressive bedroom skills - with emphasis on skills...
Some women truly don't even like a big penis – it can be uncomfortable or downright painful! Also, of much more importance to a woman is penis girth (measurement around the penis) rather than length; the nerve-endings within a woman's vagina end within a couple of inches, so the sensation of 'feeling full' is generally more about the width than anything else.
Work on your skills and up-sell them! Your penis won't be as big as one of her dildos, so don't bother competing! Why not become the master of cunnilingus and make sure to hone your fingering skills? Or how about turning into a walking sex encyclopedia? You'll impress her with your knowledge and dazzle her with your talent.
Maybe consider a massage course; it can make your partner feel so aroused and will help you appreciate the importance of touch and sensuality.
Feel confident about yourself – if she doesn't think that you're comfortable with your penis, she definitely won't be. The way that you feel about yourself is very apparent to women because they always want to read between the lines. Don't direct so much apprehension to places you're uncomfortable with; a man with a very obvious complex is a big turnoff. She might not have even noticed had you not obsessed about it.
Respect your sexual partner, whether they’re long term or not. This will translate to her feeling more comfortable and more receptive. The openness that she feels will actually improve her sexual experience with you (score for you) but she’ll be much more interested in reciprocating the same respect with inexhaustible invigorated effort. Score for you again.
Utilizing certain Sex Positions can make your penis seem like a giant's. Try integrating sexual positions that focus on G-spot Stimulation; they make use of the right angles and shallower penetration. Avoid the showy poses that even the most endowed fellow couldn’t handle. Also consider seeking out specialty condoms that are tailor-made for a smaller penis – when you need to call upon them in your time of need, you won’t be worrying about how they fit.
Tighten up some other areas of concern in your life so that you have fewer things to worry about, let alone what other people might think of your penis. Even just the action of self-improvement will change your self-perception. There are things you could do to procure bedroom approval: exercising to improve body image; having better grooming techniques like trimming or shaving your pubic area; good hygiene (smelling good & having fresh breath); and, preparing your sex space for maximum impact (even if that is only just tidying it up).
No matter what size you are (Average Penis Size - or otherwise), one thing is for sure. The biggest thing that your partner will notice is how much you respect and satisfy them in bed... honest!
Size matter!!!!
this article was written by a man wasn´t it? The size matter, come on ask a girl, if you have a 4 inches or less penis she´ll never ask. Damm it!!! but is not my case, a frien told me that.
my boyfriend has a 8.6 in
my boyfriend has a 8.6 in 5.2 in in girth and trust me it hurts but i would say it starts to feel good after awhile i definately love feeling it inside me and when he cums in me i feel it go right up into belly. its a special feeling :)
Seriously, as long as she
Seriously, as long as she can feel you inside her then size won't stop you giving great sex. You always have to work with what you've got - whether thats 3 inches or 9 inches - both extreemes have their drawbacks and advantages. If you're smaller and need to practise positions that will hit her at a fantastic angle or if your problem is easing a huge dick into her with lots of lube so it doesnt hurt her, vaginal penetration is only one part of your sex life anyway. If you are worried, read up on your cunnilingus, so you'll give her such amazing orgasms she won't care anyway :P
Doesnt matter
Penis size, will always be a one of mans insecurities TRUST ME i was like that when i was younger, but after datin for a while you realize that it doesnt matter at all, and im not gonna be cliche and say its how you use it... Think of it this way if the girl your with or want to get with has been with SOOOO many guys that she knows the metric system on penis's chances are you probably shouldn't date them cause that's...kinda bad, what you want is the girls who you know like the back of your hands and know exactly what they need to reach bliss.... Other than that 7 inch 9inch whatever inch means jack. Every girl i have been with never complained and thats NOT cause i have a huge penis its because i knew after awhile of dating each of them what they liked. And if a girl makes fun of you thats just sayin something bad about themselves cause she is basically sayin ive seen tons and been with so many men with monsterous cocks. Point is everyone likes something different, and if david can beat golieth or however you spell his name with a slingshot hahaha you get the point
my buddie
ok well im 19 yrs old and my "buddie" is 7 inches in lenght and 5 inches around, tell me please would u say datz normal or should i have somethin to worry bout?
please, and thank you
It depends on the person,
It depends on the person, you can't say that one size is better than another.
I'm guessing you are are girl who is going to have sex with a friend? (If not, i'm sorry, it's not written haha)
It depends on you, some girls can take more than others. Just go slowly, one step at a time. Afterwards, it will only get better. Don't make him go too fast when you start, gradualy increase in speed as you go. Or else it will hurt. And make sure you're wet enough.
yep, width not length ;)
yep, width not length ;)
help!
ok i just turned fourteen and im 7.2in i think thats not big enough....considering i have a girl who's 18 and her ex was 8 or so they say they didt really measure and it has been a while scince she had sex about 6 7 or 8 months she does masterbate but she does these exsercises that keeps her from getting loose.....anyway how i dont think that im big enough to please her like i want too.... is my size a good size?....and does it matter that she is only 5'1 tall? u know like the porportion idk im 6'2 tall so yah.......im really confused plz help!! could u give me any ideas or advice on how to plz her? its my first time and im really really really nervous that i wont be what she expects!
7 inches is pretty much a
7 inches is pretty much a perfect size. But this depends on the girl, because some are made smaller, and some bigger. Like you said, she is 5'1. She's a small girl. (But that doesn't mean that she can only take smaller penises). Even though her ex was suposedly 8 inches, DOES NOT mean that she had great sex with him.
Since you're 14 and that it's your first time, it's normal that you don't know everything about sex. She's the one that should be helping you out. Of course you're going to be nervous, but a lot of people are on their first time. Don't try too hard, you have to concentrate on what you are doing, on your pleasure, and on hers.
ps: after having sex, a girl's vagina comes back to it's normal size.
size matters...sometimes
honestly bro, dont feel confused about it, im 6'0 even and im 9 1/2. ok maybe that doesnt help. but seriously tho, size isnt as important as width, you can long all u want but if ur shit is like a pencil, then its pointless, when you have sex, try placing her legs on ur shoulders and rotating ur hips in a circle as u stroke her. start wit small, tight circles than gradually make them bigger, alternating works great too. hope this helps u man, be easy be breezy be blessed.
i thinh
Well in my opinion even though I'm a virgin I thank size dosent matter its how u use u it
ha
ha, austin powers quote?
not braging
me im not braging but i have a 9.2 inch penis and all the girls complain the sex wasnt any good because there was no pleasure just pain its so bad i wont have sex with my gf (who is a virgin) as i no it will really hurt her so i feel envious of you average sized guys and one last thing my friend has a 4inch and all the girls prefere him over me
If they all complain, maybe
If they all complain, maybe you're doing it wrong. Some girls can take in more than others can. But 9 inches will deffenetely hurt if you try to stick everything in! That is one of the downsides of having a big penis, you can't fit everything in.
Maybe when you have sex, you're too rough. Guys like to go rough sometimes. You can't go at any pace that you like, you have to think of the girl aswell. Maybe even stop if it gets too intense for her.
And since your girlfriend is a virgin, it might hurt even more for her, so just be careful.
sex i guess
well like im 16 and wat not adn i have like an 8.5 but ive never had sex b4 and im afraid that ill be no good at :(
the smaller the penis, the
the smaller the penis, the closer the head is to the g-spot....just thought i'd point that out.
Yeah cause the G-spot is
Yeah cause the G-spot is around 1 inch inside the vagina on the top of the wall.. But that doesn't mean that the smaller the penis, the better the G-spot sensation will be.
Penis size
You know it is amazing, these 15/16 year old kids love to brag and lie about their size. What is the big deal? I am 20 years old and have probably an average size I don't know because I DON'T CARE! I have a girlfriend that has had bigger lovers than me but I always satisfy her. you know why? Because I use more than just my penis, I use everything I have at my disposal. and most of the time the bigger you are the more you will hurt a woman. so just get over yourself and realize one thing, there is always someone better than you and there is always room for improvement. god grow up.
Indeed, size doesn't matter
Indeed, size doesn't matter at all. And believe me, I am girl and my boyfriend isn't one of those who are always talked about in girls circles. Like you said in your reply, it is only about the things you do while having sex. Just like you, my boyfriend uses all his available 'tools' to satisfy me and believe me that he is very good at it.
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Damn
My dick is not to big or long,but I always make dem girl out there cry, I'm tellin u...and they freakin love the taste,they always callin me for more!!
Are U kidding Me
U know the old saying "Wow you have a big shoe you must have a big Penis...No it just Means i Have Big Feet!" I'm A 50 Year old Black male with big feet and a bald head I've read every comment posted before me and most males (mainly the younger males) are worried are they "BIG ENOUGH"... Compared to what A banana... a Pickle... or the guy in the next shower stall now i understand that at such a young age you are all concerned about your peers... male and female and u want to measure up i can only tell u from what i have experience it doesn't matter what they think most young women who are willing to bed with you HAVE none at all and the ones who do u don't really need to be with them at all..i was told by my mother long ago when i had this "i want to date young ladies that were taller then me" thing going on (I'm only 5'5" now) u can only imagine then how short i was... she told me something so profound at the time that i didn't understand...she said to me son "everything fits when u lay down" now i thought my mother was on drugs cause it didn't make any sense at all until my 1st time then... wham it made sense all of a sudden my confidence shot up big time i didn't have to worry about size...young men just find the confidence that is needed and you will never have to worry about am i this or am i that...now there are some women out there that want there men to be 8,9,10"+ there this Male Porn Star goes by the name of "Rubber Dong" the biggest I've seen might be able to suck his own if he wanted to and the amount of his semen has to be seen.... almost as much as a horse personally i think horses run from him when they see him coming...seems to be a lot of pain before pleasure it's not about trying to knock the walls out or lasting 2 or 3 hours to try to please your partner 98% of women dry out long before that not sure if any of you have heard "Love Lines" with Dr Drew it's a great show a lot can be learn from that show google it find it on your Radio listen.... get good..no Great with your oral skills and your sex skills will follow..Trust me i could go on and on with this subject i also have 6 Grown children 4 boys and 2 girls and only one left in the house and I've had this same talk with them all
size
I have a 5in and I'll b damned if all my partners praise my skills and always want more. A few of my partners who had bigger always complain but with me I'm all in their head and know wat I'm doin.
I'm good with wat I have
I'm good with wat I have which is 5inches and I leave a good taste in all of my lovers and even the gurls who've had bigger than mine have always complimented me on how I take the time 2 actually get in their head. Lol not 2 mention I leave I good taste in both they lipz lol
Penis Size
For me.......the thought of a large penis always frightened me.......6.5 is PERFECT....with a nice girth...not too thin...not too thick....and definitely it's not just having a wonderfully perfect, nicely shaped cock........it's knowing how to use it. I get so wet when the rhythm is pumping and my husband is sucking my breasts...WOW---- We tried swinging once.....and the other man had an 8.5
which he was convinced would go inside me....NOPE--
nothing doing, coupled with the fact that I was
scared to death of that huge piece of meat--- for
several times.....no penetration--then a month or so later.....with several cocktails and some ASTROGLIDE,
and the patience of my husband guiding me....and
getting me so stimulated I oooozed with warmth and
wet.....we got Astroglide up inside me, and all over
that HUGE COCK...and inch by inch slid it into me--
I screamed with delight and creamed all over...
GOODNESS...ASTROGLIDE....what an incredible product.
I was sore for several days...........and still had the mental block about that huge cock...but, for
one solid hour, I was being fucked by a monster cock.
I prefer the 6.0 - 6.5 nice erect perfect cocks.
just read!
u na easy na gal that is the real thing hahaha lol
its all how u work it not
its all how u work it not the size thats wat it seems like to me. if you dont know how to work it then u aint got nothing going for u so i hope u know how to give oral sex.
ive been truly blessed to
ive been truly blessed to have a fiance that is 8-9 inches...so ive never had to deal with this problem(hes the only man ive had sex with)but i have dealt with the pain when he hitts my vaginalwall which hurts alot.....and sumtimes leaves me with cramps afterwards....but as someone said....we talked it out ,found the rythym and now he tries not to penetrate too deep:)
lots of my friends have told me however that they have found just as much if not more pleasure with average sized men....although they said it felt different it was still great
so to all the men who worry about it
dont
:)
personally i think that what
personally i think that what ur saying is bs ... its true that some girls love big p*****s but not all ... I talked to great girl over a long period of time and I personally trust what their saying ... and they told me that they prefer smaller in size ... and they told me something else that it all matters how U use it cuz if u know that ... ur like god in women terms ...
Size
I thought size mattered. I had men who were average or bigger and they never gave me an orgasim. But my boyfriend has a little or should I say smaller one and he makes me cum more than the big ones.
Penis Size
Yes, I am the same way. I have had bigger and its all nice but my fiance has a smaller one and I can orgasm when he's on top whereas I never could before with anybody else... Its so nice... Feels so good... I love my man and his small penis..