Does Size Matter?
It is perfectly normal to feel some nervousness or uncertainty when you first become intimate with someone. Poor body image, weak self-confidence or sexual inexperience can all contribute to this negative effect. Penis size, or a lack thereof, can create so much confusion and insecurity, even to the point of obsessiveness. It is useful to have SOME size, but more than a few inches doesn't make the difference between a good lover, or bad. In any case, you don't have to let it weaken your performance; you can pleasure the heck out of someone regardless of size.
We’re no longer living in the proverbial caveman days where a big penis dictates a man's virility, sexuality and masculinity; if it's connected to a vulgar, inexperienced oaf then he doesn't stand a chance. Although a big package might make your life a little easier, you won’t have much of a grace period if you have inexcusable sexual habits. Being a master in the bedroom is not just about deep penetration. It's about having confidence, openness and impressive bedroom skills - with emphasis on skills...
Some women truly don't even like a big penis – it can be uncomfortable or downright painful! Also, of much more importance to a woman is penis girth (measurement around the penis) rather than length; the nerve-endings within a woman's vagina end within a couple of inches, so the sensation of 'feeling full' is generally more about the width than anything else.
Work on your skills and up-sell them! Your penis won't be as big as one of her dildos, so don't bother competing! Why not become the master of cunnilingus and make sure to hone your fingering skills? Or how about turning into a walking sex encyclopedia? You'll impress her with your knowledge and dazzle her with your talent.
Maybe consider a massage course; it can make your partner feel so aroused and will help you appreciate the importance of touch and sensuality.
Feel confident about yourself – if she doesn't think that you're comfortable with your penis, she definitely won't be. The way that you feel about yourself is very apparent to women because they always want to read between the lines. Don't direct so much apprehension to places you're uncomfortable with; a man with a very obvious complex is a big turnoff. She might not have even noticed had you not obsessed about it.
Respect your sexual partner, whether they’re long term or not. This will translate to her feeling more comfortable and more receptive. The openness that she feels will actually improve her sexual experience with you (score for you) but she’ll be much more interested in reciprocating the same respect with inexhaustible invigorated effort. Score for you again.
Utilizing certain Sex Positions can make your penis seem like a giant's. Try integrating sexual positions that focus on G-spot Stimulation; they make use of the right angles and shallower penetration. Avoid the showy poses that even the most endowed fellow couldn’t handle. Also consider seeking out specialty condoms that are tailor-made for a smaller penis – when you need to call upon them in your time of need, you won’t be worrying about how they fit.
Tighten up some other areas of concern in your life so that you have fewer things to worry about, let alone what other people might think of your penis. Even just the action of self-improvement will change your self-perception. There are things you could do to procure bedroom approval: exercising to improve body image; having better grooming techniques like trimming or shaving your pubic area; good hygiene (smelling good & having fresh breath); and, preparing your sex space for maximum impact (even if that is only just tidying it up).
No matter what size you are (Average Penis Size - or otherwise), one thing is for sure. The biggest thing that your partner will notice is how much you respect and satisfy them in bed... honest!
help!
ok i just turned fourteen and im 7.2in i think thats not big enough....considering i have a girl who's 18 and her ex was 8 or so they say they didt really measure and it has been a while scince she had sex about 6 7 or 8 months she does masterbate but she does these exsercises that keeps her from getting loose.....anyway how i dont think that im big enough to please her like i want too.... is my size a good size?....and does it matter that she is only 5'1 tall? u know like the porportion idk im 6'2 tall so yah.......im really confused plz help!! could u give me any ideas or advice on how to plz her? its my first time and im really really really nervous that i wont be what she expects!
i thinh
Well in my opinion even though I'm a virgin I thank size dosent matter its how u use u it
not braging
me im not braging but i have a 9.2 inch penis and all the girls complain the sex wasnt any good because there was no pleasure just pain its so bad i wont have sex with my gf (who is a virgin) as i no it will really hurt her so i feel envious of you average sized guys and one last thing my friend has a 4inch and all the girls prefere him over me
sex i guess
well like im 16 and wat not adn i have like an 8.5 but ive never had sex b4 and im afraid that ill be no good at :(
the smaller the penis, the
the smaller the penis, the closer the head is to the g-spot....just thought i'd point that out.
Penis size
You know it is amazing, these 15/16 year old kids love to brag and lie about their size. What is the big deal? I am 20 years old and have probably an average size I don't know because I DON'T CARE! I have a girlfriend that has had bigger lovers than me but I always satisfy her. you know why? Because I use more than just my penis, I use everything I have at my disposal. and most of the time the bigger you are the more you will hurt a woman. so just get over yourself and realize one thing, there is always someone better than you and there is always room for improvement. god grow up.
Indeed, size doesn't matter
Indeed, size doesn't matter at all. And believe me, I am girl and my boyfriend isn't one of those who are always talked about in girls circles. Like you said in your reply, it is only about the things you do while having sex. Just like you, my boyfriend uses all his available 'tools' to satisfy me and believe me that he is very good at it.
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Damn
My dick is not to big or long,but I always make dem girl out there cry, I'm tellin u...and they freakin love the taste,they always callin me for more!!
Are U kidding Me
U know the old saying "Wow you have a big shoe you must have a big Penis...No it just Means i Have Big Feet!" I'm A 50 Year old Black male with big feet and a bald head I've read every comment posted before me and most males (mainly the younger males) are worried are they "BIG ENOUGH"... Compared to what A banana... a Pickle... or the guy in the next shower stall now i understand that at such a young age you are all concerned about your peers... male and female and u want to measure up i can only tell u from what i have experience it doesn't matter what they think most young women who are willing to bed with you HAVE none at all and the ones who do u don't really need to be with them at all..i was told by my mother long ago when i had this "i want to date young ladies that were taller then me" thing going on (I'm only 5'5" now) u can only imagine then how short i was... she told me something so profound at the time that i didn't understand...she said to me son "everything fits when u lay down" now i thought my mother was on drugs cause it didn't make any sense at all until my 1st time then... wham it made sense all of a sudden my confidence shot up big time i didn't have to worry about size...young men just find the confidence that is needed and you will never have to worry about am i this or am i that...now there are some women out there that want there men to be 8,9,10"+ there this Male Porn Star goes by the name of "Rubber Dong" the biggest I've seen might be able to suck his own if he wanted to and the amount of his semen has to be seen.... almost as much as a horse personally i think horses run from him when they see him coming...seems to be a lot of pain before pleasure it's not about trying to knock the walls out or lasting 2 or 3 hours to try to please your partner 98% of women dry out long before that not sure if any of you have heard "Love Lines" with Dr Drew it's a great show a lot can be learn from that show google it find it on your Radio listen.... get good..no Great with your oral skills and your sex skills will follow..Trust me i could go on and on with this subject i also have 6 Grown children 4 boys and 2 girls and only one left in the house and I've had this same talk with them all
size
I have a 5in and I'll b damned if all my partners praise my skills and always want more. A few of my partners who had bigger always complain but with me I'm all in their head and know wat I'm doin.
I'm good with wat I have
I'm good with wat I have which is 5inches and I leave a good taste in all of my lovers and even the gurls who've had bigger than mine have always complimented me on how I take the time 2 actually get in their head. Lol not 2 mention I leave I good taste in both they lipz lol
i am 14 and and my d * * k
i am 14 and and my d * * k is about 5 and a half
is that good?
how tall are u? im 14 and im
how tall are u? im 14 and im 7.2 but u definatly will get bigger alot bigger. it depends in what stage u r in. like me....well idk im ok with what i am i just wish i was bigger like maybe 8 at least.... anyway u dont have to worry u will get bigger trust me
dont worry
It isn't "good" but its not bad either. Don't worry though, your hardly finished growing. I was about 5 inches when I was 14 and I have grown to 8.5 since then (17 years old now) and Im not sure if I have stopped yet, (having added the .5 in the past 2 months) =D. Dont worry dude, it doesnt matter that much any way. To be quite honest I kinda wish i was a little bit smaller, it hurts my gf sometimes when we get really into it. She liked it best when I was 8, but shes not complaining =P
Size just makes it easier to make her orgasm, it doesnt cause miracles.
wait wait im 7.2...does that
wait wait im 7.2...does that mean i'll be too big? im 14
Penis Size
For me.......the thought of a large penis always frightened me.......6.5 is PERFECT....with a nice girth...not too thin...not too thick....and definitely it's not just having a wonderfully perfect, nicely shaped cock........it's knowing how to use it. I get so wet when the rhythm is pumping and my husband is sucking my breasts...WOW---- We tried swinging once.....and the other man had an 8.5
which he was convinced would go inside me....NOPE--
nothing doing, coupled with the fact that I was
scared to death of that huge piece of meat--- for
several times.....no penetration--then a month or so later.....with several cocktails and some ASTROGLIDE,
and the patience of my husband guiding me....and
getting me so stimulated I oooozed with warmth and
wet.....we got Astroglide up inside me, and all over
that HUGE COCK...and inch by inch slid it into me--
I screamed with delight and creamed all over...
GOODNESS...ASTROGLIDE....what an incredible product.
I was sore for several days...........and still had the mental block about that huge cock...but, for
one solid hour, I was being fucked by a monster cock.
I prefer the 6.0 - 6.5 nice erect perfect cocks.
just read!
u na easy na gal that is the real thing hahaha lol
its all how u work it not
its all how u work it not the size thats wat it seems like to me. if you dont know how to work it then u aint got nothing going for u so i hope u know how to give oral sex.
ive been truly blessed to
ive been truly blessed to have a fiance that is 8-9 inches...so ive never had to deal with this problem(hes the only man ive had sex with)but i have dealt with the pain when he hitts my vaginalwall which hurts alot.....and sumtimes leaves me with cramps afterwards....but as someone said....we talked it out ,found the rythym and now he tries not to penetrate too deep:)
lots of my friends have told me however that they have found just as much if not more pleasure with average sized men....although they said it felt different it was still great
so to all the men who worry about it
dont
:)
personally i think that what
personally i think that what ur saying is bs ... its true that some girls love big p*****s but not all ... I talked to great girl over a long period of time and I personally trust what their saying ... and they told me that they prefer smaller in size ... and they told me something else that it all matters how U use it cuz if u know that ... ur like god in women terms ...
Size
I thought size mattered. I had men who were average or bigger and they never gave me an orgasim. But my boyfriend has a little or should I say smaller one and he makes me cum more than the big ones.
Penis Size
Yes, I am the same way. I have had bigger and its all nice but my fiance has a smaller one and I can orgasm when he's on top whereas I never could before with anybody else... Its so nice... Feels so good... I love my man and his small penis..
how big is he? i just need
how big is he? i just need some one to freaking talk to im really confused and im tired of all this commenting could u help me? i would apreictiat it im only 14.... i have alot to learn plz help
how come
ever since i strted ive gotten bigger went from lifestyles to magnum XL why is this?
i dont know
but if u figure it out let me know we can make millions
Meh
I don't care about penis size, it's the person that matters. I wish men would realize that and stop fretting about their size.
Like my friend says.. "it's not the size of the penis that matters.. it's how large the vagina is.." :D
sex position guide
quite helpful. it gives a better understanding of what position is being explained
It doesn't have to be XL or XXL
I prefer men with average to above average length. I prefer the average to thicker than average girth. I was with a man who had a small penis, but he was the best oral lover I'd had. He was also very heavy. I know that if he was of average to a few extra pounds, his penis would have been bigger. How do I know this? Because I have a friend who said that when he lost weight, the fat in his belly decreased, showing a longer shaft.
I have had a longer penis hit the depth of my vagina and it was painful. However, with practice with him we were able to avoid that feeling.
I would like to think that I don't judge a man by his penis size...but I have. I was with a man whose penis was short and thin. (Not the same guy as above.) I think that in time, we could have found a rhythm that would have worked for both of us, but I gave up too soon.
One responder said she'd choose a good lover with a huge penis over a good lover with an average penis. WRONG! For me atleast. Who's attached to the penis makes a big difference.
What I do know is that if you're not sexually compatible with the person you're dating, do not pass GO, do not collect $200, it's time to move on or create compatibility. The relationship won't last if the sexual chemistry doesn't jive...
Furthermore, love the skin you're in. It's the only body you've got...
Thanks for reading. :p
all I know is it is the
all I know is it is the worker, not the tool. I am only 6.5 inches long and 1.5 wide or for the ones who measure roundness 4 3/8 circumfrence. Not much by any standard but every woman I have been with has told me I was a fantastic lover. It is because I am happy with what I have and I am confident I can please. I do everything in my power to please her and in the end it pleases me. I have also built up my kegals so when I cum it is an earth shattering, multi-orgasmic explosion. As I lay GENTLY on my lady after orgasm and shudder with smaller orgasims they love it. I have had high school girlfriends, now married with kids, beg me to take them to bed again. Be a dynamic lover, make HER happy first and quit worrying.
size
Size doesnt matter as long as they can work the dam thing. I have been with guys as big as 10 inches and it not be enjoyable. I have been with men as small as 4 inches and it end up being great. Right now I am with someone that is pretty average, maybe 6 inches. There are times when I wish he was bigger but it's not necessary. As long as I have a good time he will always be #1 to me. :)