Cunnilingus II - Advanced
Take a few minutes to read Cunnilingus Basics and then come back here to fine-tune your approach with some special earth-moving, hip-shaking, mind-blowing techniques that will have her panting your name and praising your game! Try all of these in one session and she might not come back down from the heavens until the morning:
The Lick
Leaving your tongue soft and jaw relaxed, try licking her from vaginal entrance up to her clit and following the outer edges of her vagina along both sides. Repeating this technique going up and down and vice versa can be a great opener.
Labial Hold
While holding the two parts together with your lips, run your tongue between the inner and outer labia one side at a time.
Tongue Intercourse
The majority of a woman’s nerve endings in her vagina are around the opening and within the first couple of inches inside. Target them with your tongue by inserting it into her vaginal opening. Techniques are pretty limited due to the length of your tongue, but try moving your tongue in and out, as well as in circles around the inside of her opening.
The Flick
Spread her outer vaginal lips with your fingers. With your tongue pointed, gently flick your tongue around her clitoris. Feel free to roam, but keep coming back to her clitoris, as it is the most sensitive. This drives some women wild, and others find it to too intense. When stimulating her clit make sure to start out gently if you aren’t sure how she likes it. When you try this, pay attention to whether those moans are ecstasy or pain.
The following techniques should not be introduced until your partner is really hot (i.e., very wet). These are more intense techniques, and may be too intense for some women, even when nearing orgasm.
The Clitoris Suck
Expose her clitoris by spreading her lips and lightly pull back her hood. With her clitoris exposed, give it a quick little suck; pulling it into your mouth briefly and letting it go. This is a lot like licking a bit of cake batter off of your pinky. This feels incredible, and is a fine thing to do if you feel like tormenting her – but don’t overdo it! We recommend not using your teeth nor using heavy suction when starting out.
The Clitoris Hold
Take her exposed clit into your mouth and gently suck on it, simultaneously flicking your tongue over and around it. This can be done very lightly or very aggressively, and combined with fingering, will usually rapidly produce an intense orgasm.
The Tongue Tube
Roll your tongue into a tube (if you cannot do this, forget about it because it is genetic and you can't learn it). This technique works best in an inverted or 69 position. Roll your tongue into a tube around her clitoris. Slide it back-and-forth; in effect, your tongue is doing something similar to a woman's vagina around a man's penis. This is likely to bring any woman over the edge to an explosive orgasm.
ABC’s
Try using your tongue to spell the alphabet on her genitals. This works surprisingly well as your tongue is always moving in different directions. Learn her favorite letters and the orders that work the best!
Other Tips
A good lover’s hands never stop moving, so keep exploring, insert a finger, or massage her thighs while you perform.
You can also try using a wide variety of flavored gels, oils, and lubricants. Some of these products heat up when rubbed or blown to add extra stimulation.
Having a mint in your mouth while you are performing cunnilingus can also improve your results. The mint, as long as it is not too weak or strong, can create a very intense tingling sensation to enhance your performance.
Try some - or why not all - of the above techniques and neither of you will regret it. Techniques like this are sure to help her achieve that (sometimes) elusive Orgasm!
Bad back n neck ...
I have degenerative disc n joint disease in my spine,including my neck n he has hip replacement on both sides (I'm 39yrs old n he is 41yrs old)... any advice on positions for oral(both 4 him 2 me and me 2 him) n intercourse that would take some pressure off of those areas so we can both enjoy countless hours of love making in all forms ??? Thanks
ok my gf goes dow on me all
ok my gf goes dow on me all the time but i want to give head to her too and want to now the best position ant help?
Just relax and do it the
Just relax and do it the best position is to just have her spread her legs and put your head down there. Its your first time don't go too crazy just get to understand what her likes and dislikes are and bam orgasm.
I need help. My gf let me go
I need help. My gf let me go down on her once in a year. She says she don't like it but yet she orgasimed when I did it. And it was an intense one. How do I get her to let Jedi it again. And I told her she dosntsmell bad so that shouldn't be the problem. And she can't give me head cuz she gags... I
How do we get around that? Cuz she wants to do thAt to me but can't. She almost liked all over her bedtryinf a couple times
Speak of going down on her
Speak of going down on her passionately, not respectfully. She probably figures your offer is out of charity. My boyfriend would offer and I'd say no. He was sweet about it but I sensed no sexual passion, just an obligatory nuance. I didn't want his charity. And I'd feel on the spot and say no. And if/when I'd let him, I'd always feel rushed. Then while dating another guy, he said he wanted to do it for me. I said no. He said yes. I said no. Then he said "I have to! Let me at it!" and just starting licking away. It was just what I needed- uncontrolled man lust. Sometimes he'd stop penetration for it. As long as you know her well, and you already do other sexual acts, and you're in a private place, and as long as she wasn't orally raped as a child, just force it on her. She wants you to desire it and not be polite. Next time the two of you are conversing intimately, casually mention how much you enjoyed eating her out.
And as for her gagging. On her part; practice practice practice. On your part; patience patience patience. Be encouraging by telling her she does a great job and what she does better each time. She's just tense because she's not used to it. Eventually she'll be comfortable and learn to get turned on by doing it to you and she'll gag less and less. It'll get easier for her every time she does it and every time you make her feel like she's good at it.
now what
i have all the basics down i can make my ex cum when i eat her out and i can use my tongue and my hands at the same time but i still want to get to that next level and get better how would i go about doing this???
A mirror! I would love to be
A mirror! I would love to be able to watch my boyfriend's tongue slide through all the folds of my vulva. Just a hand mirror big enough to see your face and her vagina. I asked several times but he seemed inconvenienced by it. Too bad, it would've been phenomenal.
And if you're not moaning while you do it, MOAN! The sound makes me forget everything else in the room, and the vibrations from his moaning mouth touching my clitoris feel electronic! And there's something so transcendental about hearing the breath of your lover.
And if you want the kind of sex that leaves you feeling spiritually high and godlike, look up tantric sex.
Try giving her something small, like your finger, to suck on while you go down on her. It can get pretty lonely up there and sucking on your finger could remind her that you are turned on by her face and her vagina which will make her feel great.
suggestion
If your a boy and trying to get your girl to let you go down on her you could try a distraction. For example, I didn't want my boyfriend going down on me and he wanted to since I was always going down on him but one day he distracted me with a flavored condom (don't judge me haha) and he started kissing down my legs and pulled my thong to the side and just did it. It felt great and he's getting better every time :)
it works
my gf was terrified of my head being down there and she was so afraid and one day I just put my head down there and started licking and she couldnt stop me xD so guys just try it when they are unawares but if they still dun lik it back off, rape is baaaaad lol
by distractiopn i thought
by distractiopn i thought you meant like a "look at that" kind of distraction and i got this hillarious immage in my head
oh geez lol
Lol geez you think we are that dumb? Lol but distracting does work, my ex did it and ever since I love guys who do it!
hahah me 2
hahah me 2
XD your not the only one.
XD your not the only one. Might be something interesting to try.
hahhahaa
Hahaha, now you've got me thinking that, hahaa :P
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hey my boyfriend and i have been trying oral sex and i pleasure the heck out of him but for some reason we've tried all the techniques and he still doesn't seem to pleasure me at all i don't think it's because he's not doing it right i just don't think i get stimulated with this type of sex, and is that possible?? or is there something wrong?? help!!
have u told him to check out
have u told him to check out this site and read some of it???
i was exploring cunnilingus myself for my gf. all i want to do is please her...
Oral Situation!!
Ok so My g/f wants oral sex but when i try to go down in 5 minutes or so she pushes my head back.... i em confuse because idk if she doesn't like it or because i em doing it right and she doesn't want to have an orgasm in front of me??
Talk
Ask her why she keeps pushing your head back, find out if you are hurting her. Tell her that you want to please her and would like a little instruction if you are doing it wrong, she should respect that!
kind of a problem
my g/f and I have been having sex for months now, but when it comes to going down on her she does something that puzzles me. I go down on her and she seems to be enjoying it for about 5 minutes then suddenly she pushes my head away from her and then engages in pleasuring herself, then we have sex. Is it cause she doesn't want to orgasm with me down there or is it cause I can't help her achieve and orgasm? its quite confusing. any suggestions on this?
it's intense
it probably is because it becomes to intense to her. respect her wants but if she is into BDSM at all, you might want to tie up her hands so she can't push you away. if you keep going, trust me she'll end up screaming =]
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im 16 right and im dne everythin apart from this ... and i want to have it done to me lol, its not like ive never been asked but i didnt know wht to say , but after readin this i want it reall bad and got really turned on but im abit shy about asking my guy to do it for me lol
any suggestions?
i'd say be strait forward
i'd say be strait forward and say, hey would you mind going down on me?" or if you want you could slip it into dirty talk, if you have a steady boyfriend then you could just bring it up, maybe show him this web page if possible. but no matter how you say it make sure you don't beat around the bush or he might not understand what you want
other things to try
Also try ice cubes. Have your partner put a ice cube in their mouth and licking and sucking on you clit. But start licking with out, get her nice and hot before the ice cube. My ex had a metal tongue ring and when he sucked on ice it made the ring SOOO cold and when he went down on me it felt great, something different. Gave a good sensation. And guys or girls, please don't forget the boobs and nipples. When going down on a girl reach up some of the time and give the nipples some attention!!! I know I love it!!
oral sex
my g/f constantly askes if she smells alright down there. she will even interupt me during giving her oral sex which is a big turn off.
then tell her she does
then tell her she does before she even asks.
I agree, if I was ever
I agree, if I was ever self-conscious about stuff like that a guy telling me he loves how I taste and voicing that he is enjoying what he's doing would definitely reassure me =p
Ummm...
I've always been skeptical about this. I always thought that it would smell horrible and everything down there. Then my boyfriend told me that he wanted to try it, and that he was nervous about me givning him head, so we compromised. I was extremly nervous when my boyfriend was about to do it, and then he did and it's now a crucial part of our sex life. Honestly, what I was thinking in my head was "Oh God, Oh God, Oh God, Oh God...OH MY GOD!!!!" Definately worth a try. ;)
uh hey virgingirl here
uh hey virgingirl here question: how 2 u taste sweet down there? any foods or methods anyone knows do tell cuz i want 2 smell nd taste my best when i have sex. THANKS VG
I was told if you drink
I was told if you drink fruit juices you will smell/taste better...Not sure that it is true, but I would be a little weird about eating vegetables some of them make you smell worse =/ ugghh.
eat fruits and vegatables,
eat fruits and vegatables, also as long as you clean yourself you should be fine. if you still wan tto taste sweet down there try flavored lube, but make sure absolutley no sugar gets anywhere around there. just eat healthy and keep it clean and you will be fine