advanced cunnilingus tips

Cunnilingus - Advanced

Take a few minutes to read Cunnilingus Basics and then come back here to fine-tune your approach with some special earth-moving, hip-shaking, mind-blowing techniques that will have her panting your name and praising your game! Try all of these in one session and she might not come back down from the heavens until the morning:

The Lick

Leaving your tongue soft and jaw relaxed, try licking her from vaginal entrance up to her clit and following the outer edges of her vagina along both sides. Repeating this technique going up and down and vice versa can be a great opener.

Labial Hold

While holding the two parts together with your lips, run your tongue between the inner and outer labia one side at a time.

Tongue Intercourse

The majority of a woman’s nerve endings in her vagina are around the opening and within the first couple of inches inside. Target them with your tongue by inserting it into her vaginal opening. Techniques are pretty limited due to the length of your tongue, but try moving your tongue in and out, as well as in circles around the inside of her opening.

The Flick

Spread her outer vaginal lips with your fingers. With your tongue pointed, gently flick your tongue around her clitoris. Feel free to roam, but keep coming back to her clitoris, as it is the most sensitive. This drives some women wild, and others find it to too intense. When stimulating her clit make sure to start out gently if you aren’t sure how she likes it. When you try this, pay attention to whether those moans are ecstasy or pain.

The following techniques should not be introduced until your partner is really hot (i.e., very wet). These are more intense techniques, and may be too intense for some women, even when nearing orgasm.

The Clitoris Suck

Expose her clitoris by spreading her lips and lightly pull back her hood. With her clitoris exposed, give it a quick little suck; pulling it into your mouth briefly and letting it go. This is a lot like licking a bit of cake batter off of your pinky. This feels incredible, and is a fine thing to do if you feel like tormenting her – but don’t overdo it! We recommend not using your teeth nor using heavy suction when starting out.

The Clitoris Hold

Take her exposed clit into your mouth and gently suck on it, simultaneously flicking your tongue over and around it. This can be done very lightly or very aggressively, and combined with fingering, will usually rapidly produce an intense orgasm.

The Tongue Tube

Roll your tongue into a tube (if you cannot do this, forget about it because it is genetic and you can't learn it). This technique works best in an inverted or 69 position. Roll your tongue into a tube around her clitoris. Slide it back-and-forth; in effect, your tongue is doing something similar to a woman's vagina around a man's penis. This is likely to bring any woman over the edge to an explosive orgasm.


Try using your tongue to spell the alphabet on her genitals. This works surprisingly well as your tongue is always moving in different directions. Learn her favorite letters and the orders that work the best!

Other Tips

A good lover’s hands never stop moving, so keep exploring, insert a finger, or massage her thighs while you perform.

You can also try using a wide variety of flavored gels, oils, and lubricants. Some of these products heat up when rubbed or blown to add extra stimulation.

Having a mint in your mouth while you are performing cunnilingus can also improve your results. The mint, as long as it is not too weak or strong, can create a very intense tingling sensation to enhance your performance.

Try some - or why not all - of the above techniques and neither of you will regret it. Techniques like this are sure to help her achieve that (sometimes) elusive Orgasm!

yes, please!

I love eating out my wife's pussy. I will do it any time, day or not, no matter how "clean" she is...or isn't. As a matter of fact, I PREFER it to be "unclean" and smelly. My wife has a lot of long, thick pubic hair that gets matted and tangled after a long, hot day, and I love having to clear it out of the way to reach her pussy, all the while being overwhelmed by her sweaty, musty stink. While I enjoy full licks from her perineum all the way up to and across her clitoris, she prefers "the flick," so I usually use that technique.

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Nature Gifted Things

I like to do it But Before that Both we must take together Pears Shop Bath

Pussy taste great

I love the taste of pussy. I love when my partner sits on my face as I eat her out. The taste and scent of wet pussy, especially with hair, mixed with her urine is enough to drive me wild. All of my past partners loved to be eaten. My wife loves oral so much that she prefers me to eat her out over fucking, Which is really great for me. After she cums all over me she likes to make out. I am guessing she loves her taste and scent off of me. She doesn't like me playing with her ass. Her ass scent and taste is a major turn on for me.
After she gets really excited from being eaten she allows me to slip my nose in her asshole while eating her soaking wet pussy. On rare occasions she gets so hot I am able to tongue fuck her asshole, but not often enough. I just wish she would let me eat her ass out. I am open to suggestions on how I can allow me eat her ass.

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This is fabulous sex!

Ever since my wife locked me in chastity cage, we tried cunnilingus. We never expected this would turn out to be so intense fun. Now my wife prefers this sex over penetrative sex. So she does not unlock my dick, leaves me frustrated & she has all the pleasure!!


That sounds like a lot of fun, eating out your wife and then not getting any. The other day I sucked my wife's nipples while she masturbated until she came really hard. Then she gave me an amazing handjob up until I was about to come, and when I told her I was there, she immediately stopped and let go, and didn't let me come. It felt so good to get all worked up and not come, even with the blue balls I have had for three days! I hope she does the same thing next time I eat out her stinky pussy!


Yesterday my wife did not give me a handjob, but she did let me lick her smelly pussy! I especially enjoyed licking up the sticky, gooey discharge that had collected in her thick pubic hair -- it was delicious!

Dis sum great shit i do dis

Dis sum great shit i do dis all the time she loves it she tells me that it feels great all the time she loves when i suck her pussy lips then kiss them then take my tongue and lick her from the bottom of her pussy to her clit damn my dick is gettin hard rite now

Problems with oral sex!

I am 16 and im really into oral for both guys and girls. I think it is so important to please your guy or girl orally. Im a bisexual and I have yet to experience it with a girl, but I cant wait because its something that turns me on a lot just from watching porn, id just love to give another girl that kind of pleasure. I've had gf's in the past but we never got to go that far cause they were all bisexual whores. But now im back to wanting oral from guys, but everytime I end up having horrible experiences cause they dont do it right and consider changing. I mean and the worst part is is that guys flock to me to do it because I apparently taste amazing, which I knew from tasting my own pussy juices on my own fingers and others, taste like cocunut vanilla. But anyways, I love the attention but I hate telling people their bad at it, like if everyones really addicted to my pussy should I just suck it up or tell them? And now I mean I have like 10 guys on my case and now im trying to choose one. Is it wrong to choose someone for all the sexual pleasure? I mean i like them all but my choice is now riding on sex which I feel horrible about:/

i recommend just getting with

i recommend just getting with girls, i have and we do 69's all the time. it is just the best


I agree with you completely about the oral part hmmm heads up girls taste A-mazing

I say enjoy it we only have

I say enjoy it we only have one life 2 live u will eventually slow down and just pick

this is great and whenever

this is great and whenever me and my boyfriend have sex we always do this. i always suck his cock and then he stuffs me so hard he has to cover my mouth so my roomates wont hear. i cum so much but when he does the clit work i start to spray and moan and yell "fuck!" and i sometimes pee and i cant tell whether hes pissed off with me cuz he sometimes gets it in his mouth. any help?

its not pee

try a bullet vibrator so he can step back

tell mhat i need to do...

when my husband goes down on me it is amazing! i always cum so hard..i suck his dick atleast once a day, how can i get him to go down on me more without sounding like im not getting satisfaction from the actual intercourse? bc i am its just nothing beats the feeling of his tongue on my clit...

Just tell him. If he's a

Just tell him. If he's a pussy hound like me then he would be down on you for as long as you want. Lol

Try 69...try sucking his cock

Try 69...try sucking his cock on ur side and inch ur pussy close to him. He may play it. U then can roll on top of him still suckin on him and rub ur pussy over his month.

how to get him down more

Just ask!! I would be down on you as often as possible. There is nothing better than the sights, sounds, feel and smell of a very satisified woman getting off from me going down!!

I don't know what to say to

I don't know what to say to help other than be jealous. I would love to taste her pussy every day. I usually give her more oral sex than I recieve, but that is just fine with me. You may just need to tell him you would like to try an experiment and that is to have oral every day.

this is what happend to my

this is what happend to my gf ther was no better felling for her than my tongue slipin in and out of her pussy and me licking her clit and then when we had sex she wasnt geting that much plesure so she told me and we sat down and talked about how to get around it we came to the desition to try diffrent positions and now she love sex

hope this hellps


I love going down on a

I love going down on a woman.....I love the sweet taste of pussy. I just wish I could get her to give bjs as much as I love licking pussy...

try the 69

try the 69

tell mhat i need to do...

just let him know, every man should love to do anything to please their partners, i love to lick my wife's pussy and she loves it and lets me know so i do it all the time. she returns the favor and sucks my dick all the time we have a very good marriage because of the great sex life we have and the urge to always please each other.

i love to feel my boyfriend

i love to feel my boyfriend going down on me! he does a very nice job... and i just enjoy the way he pleases me :D


my girlfriend loves having me eat her out. she has multiple orgasms everytime. she claims i have a talented tongue. i dont know why any guy wouldnt wanna please his woman this way too.


I love to get eaten out by my boy friend but e doesn't seem to give me enough of it, he really pleases me n bed n cn make me orgasim in 2mins n squirt n 5. any suggestions on getting him down there more often???.

Tonguing around

On idea you could do is shower right before you want to recieve your cunnilingus. most men have a fear of it tasting bad. get flavor sprays or even use dessert toppings


Its not a problem of the taste.I wash it before we even do it, he prefers to put his penis inside


i think the problem is that he doesnt recieve pleasure from it and therefore doesnt think its worthwhile.try 69 or something so that you both get off.

how can you not get pleasure

how can you not get pleasure from giving a woman an orgasm. i would be down there everyday



im single at the moment but

im single at the moment but my exes wer never into this and i wanted to do it so damn much!!!


No offense but ur ex's must have been insane b.c getting ur pussy eatten is one of the best feelings ever. Especially if the guy is very talented with his fingers and tongue. I would have never stopped you and idk many girls who would


My wife cums really hard when I go down on her after using Listerine vanilla mouthwash. It turned her on enough that I put a small capful on her her clit and let it run into her open lips.

Also, menthol candies turn her on.

Lastly, Farango chocolates, and bananas eaten out of her turn us both on.

that doesnt burn her any if

that doesnt burn her any if not i would love 2 try that


Hey, The other night i went down on my girlfriend. She seemed to enjoy it because she was moaning, But after quite a while of going at it she thrust up a bit and put her hands on my head as if urging me not to stop ( kind of pushing me into her more ) then she stopped moaning and moving. I thought the reason for her to stop moaning would be because she came. But i couldn't feel any liquids in my mouth and there was no 'powerful' moan so i don't really know whether she orgasmed. Can somebody please tell me if i did anything wrong?
( It was both of our first times if its any help )


@ skin...don't worry, she orgasmed. My fiancee does that too. When women orgasm they don't always cum and a lot of women after having an orgasm don't want you to eat them out any more at that time because its very sensative after. But never be afraid to talk about it with your gf, talk about whether she liked it or if she would like to try something else. I don't know how old you are, but keep it safe man.

One day..,

Oral Sex is the Best :P

Im a girl...I would love to

Im a girl...I would love to try eating a girl out ive never done it before or kissd a girl...I watch porn alot and it just turns me on so much it crazy... <3

It's the best I'm a girl and

It's the best I'm a girl and I've tried it wit utha girls plus wat u give is wat u receive soooo try it who's stopping u

La petite mort

If you want your girlfriend to orgasm so strongly that she passes out try this. Make bedroom really warm. Let gf first have a long hot bath. Have gf lie face down on bed with towel underneath. Make sure lighting is turned down or candles. Have scented massage oil. Start massaging her feet, yes feet. If you are knowledgeable you will find all these pressure points on her feet that will put her in a completely different zone. Next massage her calves and backs of thighs. Then massage her buttocks. Spend a lot of time on her buttocks. Find those pressure points. She will begin to really relax and open up her legs. You will see her juices begin to flow out of her vagina and her labia engorge. Massage around her anus and the perineum. Massage her outer labia but keep clear of her inner labia and clitoris. By now she will be so aroused like you won't believe. Have her turn over and massage her inner thighs. Massage her vulva but don't touch her inner lips or clit. Now bring your tongue to her cunt. The effect will be electric. Lick her inner lips and then start on her clit. Pay attention to her reactions and lick accordingly. While licking insert your thumb into her vagina and start massaging her g-spot. Begin to up the tempo of your thumb and tongue until you have found her rhythm. If your gf is anything like mine she will then have the most mind blowing orgasm that will actually cause her to pass out for a while.

My boyfriend does all of

My boyfriend does all of this, and the best part is when he has his tongue inside and he buries his nose into my clit and shakes his head. It's heavenly ;D

Here's a neat little trick i

Here's a neat little trick i read in a book somewhere. When a guy goes down on a girl, have a candle burning and have a an oscillating fan going at the same time. Keep an eye on the movements of the flickering flame, and try and mimc the movements with your tongue. I've never had this done myself coz i don't have an oscillating fan lolz. So let me know how this goes? so when i EVENTUALLY get a boyfriend i can give it a go myself if it's any good lol.

clit sucking

im definately the advanced chick.. after my dude has gotten my clit swollen from lickeing it,i like him to suck it firmly,and lick it at the same time. the combo from that and watching his cheeks move in and out while he sucks away on my clit,makes me cum hard everytime.


Aaaaallllllsoooo, my biggest rule o' thumb is to tease, tease, tease. After you get her pre warmed for cunnilingus sloooooowly work your way towards her vag. then right as you are about to get there, move away from it with only your breath gently blowing against it, do this until she is basically begging for you to start, and even then tease some more. Give it a touch, then move away again. Be playful and creative. Slowly work your way into her first orgasm, then seed up the process after each orgasm or until she is begging for penetration. By then she will be putty in your hands. My technique is flawless, but reading her body movement and moans will tell you how fast and slow you need to go. The important thing is to have fun with it.


I LOVE being eaten out. My current boyfriend is the only man who's ever been able to make me cum, and he gives amazing oral. He INSPIRED me to get a tongue ring, nuff said. I can't stop him from going down on me either, he craves it. And, well. Now I do too!

i also want guys to go down

i also want guys to go down on me.... but i don't even know how to even get to that stage...


Do you take a shower/clean yourself before sex? Are you trimming and/or shaving? If you're really "native" (I am), you have to make sure your hygiene and grooming are done... for MOST guys. (Some like it bushy, but I think most men like it at least trimmed.)

Outside of those parameters, heavy making-out sessions should bring you to the introduction to oral on you. Has he fingered you yet? If so and he does it and seems to enjoy it, why not ask him why he doesn't want to go down on you? I've NEVER, EVER met a guy who did not want and like a BJ. Remind him that you like doing that to him, so is there any reason why he is hesitant to do that to you? His answer will help you both decide if you can proceed or if you're okay with not having it done. I'm not sure I could live without it! I know that sounds silly, but it's THAT pleasurable.

Unfortunately, sometimes it's just the partner you have. And if you're doing your best to be presentable, you can assume you've got a partner who (1) has never done it, or (2) Has done it and has decided it's just not his thing. I believe with time and patience, you both can get over these.

If he's really shy, guide him - start with guiding his fingers down there and showing him how to move to pleasure you. Eventually, you can talk to him and guide him down there. My experience has been that, once he's had his fingers down there and is watching me, I'm finally then comfortable with him performing oral on me. I really don't want to have him do oral until he does that. But that's just me. I think I'm a big communicator during sex and seeing him watch me is important.

I wish you the best of luck that it happens soon for you!

Just tell me what to do and I will do it

If we ever meet up then I can do that to you no problem only of you want to

advice please

I am 19 and this is my first time on this site. I am not a virgin but i am having some difficulties. Have had sex several times and i am usually more worried about the guy finishing so i tell them to do what they need to do to get off but so i have never orgasm with a guy.... when he leaves i have to masturbate so i can function.... is there something wrong with me??
Also i like to be tied up and stuff but im to embaressed to ask guys to do that... i need some advice please

tied up

I used to be exactly like u!! I was scared to death to express the fact that i liked to be tied up (among other things) but i learned that if i didnt communicate i wouldnt get it so my man and i started talking about it one nite and come to find out he loves the exact same stuff and now we are both the biggest bondage freaks on the planet! so definately express what u like. trust me its worth it.