She's no longer EVER in the mood for sex!
Q. I’ve been with my girlfriend for a couple of years and in the last few months she has NEVER been in the mood to have sex. We were arguing about it last week and she blurted out that she always felt like it with her last boyfriend. What a harsh thing to say: what am I supposed to think!?
A. Frankly, I think it really sucks that she said that to your face. But if you really want to work things out with this girl, read between the lines – she’s reaching out to you, albeit inappropriately. This girl isn’t telling you what her real problem is. Talk to her about the types of things that put her in the mood for sex with her last boyfriend. Was she under less stress then? Is there something that you could be doing differently? The ultimate goal here is to improve both of your sexual experiences – try to interpret what she says and encourage her to be open and honest. It might take a while to works things out so to motivate yourself, keep your eyes on the ultimate goal: a better relationship and more/better sex!