Couples-do you use strap ons?

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We just started to play with this and its been a lot of fun, she really gets off on it. For me I'm just getting used to it physically and psychologicaly I think it's the greatest act of sexual trust I've engaged in.

Apparently they do. I have recently hit an all time personal high in my sales of these to women for them and thier partners.

Not currently but I'd be willing to try. This is especially so since my boyfriend is bi.

I really wish my DH would let me. I have been trying for 3 years to get him to allow me to touch his anus, it's taken time but he's let me massage the area but nothing in the hole if you KWIM. Hopefully one day. I think he has a personal emotional issue b/c he's such a homophobic that I think it will take him longer than I'd like.

have wanted to try it ,but afraid it might make me a gay

My wife and I have used a variety of anal toys, but by far I enjoy her using the strap on on me. I'm very secure in my sexuality. Any guy that denies himself the pleasure is really missing out. You aren't gay if you enjoy anal sex, you're gay if you're attracted to men.

My girlfriend wants to, but I haven't. She has used a dildo on me and it felt wonderful.

I am not gay, I do not find a single part of the male body attractive.

[QUOTE=Yariome;222601]My girlfriend wants to, but I haven't. She has used a dildo on me and it felt wonderful.

I am not gay, I do not find a single part of the male body attractive.[/QUOTE]

That's the point. Do not deprive yourself the joy because of silly, and unfounded, fears. Having a "role reversal" night is fun. I personally love it.

My wife often uses one on me. Being bisexual I love to receive anal sex. A dildo will do when I can't have the real thing.

It is remarkable how homophobic the males responding to this are. What I find even more amazing is the fact that 43% of males said yes to being pegged. How about that!

Wowsers!

I use a strapon on my boyfriend quite often. He is a CrossDresser and loves me in charge when he is dressed up as a woman.

We'll be trying out our first actual planned out strap-on session. What things should I know? Any women or men out there, How do you go about thrusting!? In addition, I don't want him to feel degraded, as it took a long time for him to open up about wanting this kind of activity. Does anyone have any experiences to share?

Yeah first thing first, don't try to make him suck on it unless he wants to. My gf got too into the mood and tried to be dominate in that sense, wasn't very appealing. Also, be VERY slow, it does still hurt, even if he is a guy, hell even letting him lean into it doggie is the best way i've learned to get it in at my pace.

As for thrusting, I don't like it that fast I like to feel it massage my prostate back and forth so a good steady pace.

I myself like a nice full stroke, meaning full insertion. But you have to let your guy get used to it first, before inserting all the way in. Hmmm may have to have the Misses use it on me tonight. :-)

My DH is very against any anal for him, (hopefully he'll change his mind with gentle and delicious persuassion). I would like to strap-on and "Bend him Over". We started with our first anal play after over 30 years of loving and trusting each other, less than 2 years ago. He ENJOYS doing me with the real thing and I LIKe IT TOO. I show him toys that WE can use, he's warming up to some ideas and even coming up with some creative ideas of his own. OOH ooh Baby!

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My DH is very against any anal for him, right now, (hopefully he'll change his mind with gentle and delicious persuassion). I've tried to share info on "prostate milking". I would like to strap-on and "Bend him Over".;) We started with our first anal play after over 30 years of loving and trusting each other, less than 2 years ago. He ENJOYS doing me with the real thing and I LIKe IT TOO! I show him toys that WE can use, he's warming up to some ideas and even coming up with some creative ideas of his own. OOH ooh Baby! ;)

OOPS! :o I'm new to this. I see I posted the same twice. Duh! :rolleyes: Sorry about that.

yes we use one and we both enjoy it

My wife bought one for my birthday and now she is shopping for a harness for a double ended dildo.

my wife talked me into letting her do me anal and i enjoyed every inch of it it bad to admit i can only give her 7.5 inches of hard cock and she gives me 9 inches she text me everyday with pictures of it saying come home i ask her how she felt knowing hers is bigger than mine she said she fine with it and someday would love to slide in a 12 inch one and make it all dissappear god i love my little freak of a wife

makes u feel good

have u talked him into getting on top and ridding yours like u do his if not talk him into it its awesome pluse my wife says it is exciting to watch

be honest please

do women really enjoy preforming anal on men or do they just say that and what is your opinion on man going back down on wife after he dummped his load

my wife tried it on me loved it i even bought here one that feels real liked it so much now we have a white one and black one and i love the way she works it awesome i want to make video and put on net

How about this: Put all of your words into one post.

I like the feeling of not being in control

Got a great strap on fuck last night. She put on the harness with a 1.25 inch by 7 inch silicone dildo. She rubbed lube on the dildo and talked dirty about her dick. It is so erotic to see her wearing the strap on. I lay on my back with my legs drawn up. She approached and slowly inserted the lubed 7 inch dildo in me.It felt so good.as I took all 7 inches. She lubed my dick and gave me a handjob as she fucked me. She loves to watch it go in and out of me. I wasn't long until I covered her with cum. What a fuck!!

It must hurt at first ,so how long is it before you enjoy it ,must take a few weeks

Have only once. She had used a small vibrator on my ass twice before while giving me a blowjob but never a strap on, then one night we were hot and heavy. She told me to hold on and walked out of the room. When she returned she was wearing a pink strap on. Honestly my first thought was how hot she looked. Long story short I let her go at it and ended up with the best orgasm of my life.

And I am completely straight.

I wish my wife would use a strap on on me. Better yet though, I'd love for her to use a double-headed dildo, one end in her pussy and the other in my ass.