Hand-job Techniques
Penis massage, often referred to as 'hand-jobs', can be a great way to pleasure your male partner, or even bring him all the way to Orgasm. They can be used by themselves, or while performing Fellatio on your partner. Many can also be adapted to perform as Masturbation.
If you REALLY want to thrill him (and he is open to it), you can mix it up with some Anal Fingering and Prostate Gland Stimulation!
Although not necessary, it is better to perform hand-jobs using a lubricant.
The following is a listing of techniques to try:
Pressure
With one hand, pull the shaft's skin toward the base and wrap the fingers of this hand around the base to act as a cock ring. Using the other hand, rhythmically pick various points along the shaft of the penis and squeeze opposite sides of the penile shaft at these points, releasing pressure either immediately or after only a brief period of time.
Fire
Rub the penis between both palms, as if rubbing two sticks together to create fire. Be sure to use plenty of oil.
Glans Head Massage
Hold the penis in one hand with the head sticking up. Using the well-oiled palm of your other hand, slowly and sensitively massage the glans head. Reverse directions every once in a while.
Healing Stroke
With the penis resting on the man's stomach, take one hand and cup the testicles. Then glide the heel of the palm of the other hand up and down the underside of the penis.
Twist and Shout
Pull the skin of the penis toward the base with one hand. With the other hand, corkscrew the penis. This can be done with the thumb and first finger or with your entire grip.
Anvil Stroke
Start with one hand lightly grasping the top of the penis. Then stroke the penis from the top, all the way to the bottom. When you hit the bottom, release the penis. Meanwhile, bring your other hand to the top of the penis and repeat.
Bookends
Place both of your hands side by side against his shaft like a pair of bookends. Now push hard against his penis. Then lift your hands up and down.
Doorknob
Turn the head of his penis like you're trying to open an oily doorknob. Now try turning the other way. Repeat. This stroke is sometimes improved by using the other hand to stretch the skin of the penis toward the base.
Double Whammy
Bring your well lubricated hands down on his shaft. Some penises are so big they require both hands; if your partner's doesn't, then use the other hand to caress and lightly flutter his testicles, or tighten around the base of his shaft. If both hands fit along the length of the shaft then move them together, up and down, in the typical pumping motion. Pretend you're holding a baseball bat and are about to score a grand slam. You can also vary the directions of your hands: one up, one down at the same time.
Milking
Start with one hand lightly grasping the bottom of the penis. Then stroke the penis from the bottom all the way to the top. When you hit the top, release the penis. Meanwhile, bring your other hand to the bottom of the penis and repeat.
Perpetual Penetration
Start with one hand lightly grasping the top of the penis. Then stroke the penis from the top all the way to the bottom, letting his penis "penetrate" into your fist on each stroke. Before the head of his penis pops out of your hand, bring the other hand up for the next penetration. This way it seems to him like he is penetrating deeper and deeper into an infinite vagina. Make sure you keep the penetration continuous.
Ring
Make a ring with your thumb and forefinger and pump up and down with it. When you get to the top close the ring. Then make him squeeze his way in as you slide back down to the bottom.
Shaft
Stroke only his shaft, ignoring his glans head. You will notice his glans head swelling and turning red. When it's bright red, use Doorknob, Glans Head Massage, or Perpetual Penetration.
Shuttle Penis
Take the penis in both hands, fingers lightly touching the sides of the shaft. Now flick the penis back and forth between your two hands by holding onto the loose skin of the shaft. Do this stroke for a while to allow tension to build.
Spot Pinch
Lightly and slowly run a finger up the underside of his penis. Ask him to tell you where the most sensitive spot is. Pinch, squeeze, nibble and tease that spot.
I dont mind having my face covered in my gf's juices, it is a serious turn on. but you are right in that not everyone enjoys it and it can be degrading if you arent into it.
Any sexual activity seems to have undertones of dominance and submission. The most minor form of this would be deciding who is on top or in control. Cumming on someone's face would be another example and I would agree that it could easily be degrading. But what's degrading to one person might be exiting for another. If you're a guy and want to try this with your partner, then you need to really talk about it first. Try and understand why your partner would let you do this. If it's just because you want it, then you need to be considerate about how often you do it and what you might do for your partner in return. My wife does some things for me which I know she doesn't get anything out of other than seeing me satisfied. Likewise, I try to do equally selfless things for her and as long as there's a balance and good communication then most things are OK.
Thanks so much for that. Ive been in abusive relationships at times and the guy was big on degrading he would continue choking and name calling abuse through out the sexual act i did only to make him happy anyway and cause he yelled at me. Dang i was dumb. hope if your reading this you learn to not stick through that. We all deserve better no matter how low we feel or how depressed we get.
The Perpetual Penetration mixed with the shaft what gets me to cum
i nver gave a guy a hand job to me i didnt know what to do when we started to touch each others private parts. so to me i didnt have a clue what to pleased him but i think. when i gave him a hand job i looked at him he looked like he like it
huh...what happened?
um i heard pizza works too but ive never tried it. when i was twelve though i ust to stick my d**k into conditionar bottles that realy felt good but now im 7 1/2 in long and 15 so i cant do that nelonger lol
Im 15 and began masturbation in 7th grade haha i also like jacking off with my pillow
i would like to ask if the cum of guys are dirty? or it is safe to swallow? im scared when my husband want me to swallow till he couldnt see on my mouth... i was very hesitant.
It's safe to swallow. The bigger question is whether or not you want to. As with most things in life, it's good to try it once and see what you think. But if you decide that it's not for you then your husband should be willing to accept that. If he pressures you then you need to understand why he wants you to swallow it. There are a few common reasons which include:
- He wants to be dominate and have you take what he gives you. A good sign of this is if he grabs the back of your head and forces you forward sometimes.
- Sees it as normal because that's what he's seen on TV or heard from friends.
- Insulted that you won't swallow something that represents him. Men who are more emotional about sex may have a tendency to be this way.
In any case, you need to talk to him about it and come to a point of understanding. Ask him if he would like to swallow it. He'll probably react negatively to that and then it won't be hard to understand why you don't like it either. Ultimately, it's a generous act to give someone oral of any kind and you shouldn't feel guilty if you choose to omit some component.
It is OK and healthy, my wife has been swallowing mine for 28 years and she is just fine, I love it that she swallows, I always kiss her after oral to show my love
oh i would definitely consider it safe, i'm pretty healthy...if our vaginas can swallow it, im sure our stomachs wont be too harmed
I'm also known as the "Cleaning Lady". :P After wiping away everything off his penis, I give him a blowjob. He loves it when I give him a blowjob right after he has cummed. I don't think his cum tastes that good, (he smokes a lot) so I prefer to clean it away first. But I love to please him and know that he loves what I do.
and also im afraid about what to do if he like cums everywherer
If he cums everywhere, then just enjoy it. Isn't the reason you are going to give him a handjob is to make him cum? When he does cum, then watch and enjoy and see how it squirts out. If he does shoots all over, then just put your hand over it and let it cum in you hand. This will make clean-up easy. Just grab a towel or tissue and wipe it off. Don't worry about how to do this. I'm sure you just handling his penis will be a nice thing for him and you will learn quick. Don't be afraid to use some force either, a firm hand can feel real nice once you are getting serious with trying to get him to cum.
So basicallyi feel awful because every time my boyfriend fingers me i never return the favor of atleast giving him a handjob. i always think about doing it but i feel like it would be awkward and i feel like i would mess up. Idk what to do cause he is going to get bored without me doing anything back. and we both eventually want to have sex but we gotta get the rest of the steps down first but im too nervous. HElp
you've got nothing to worry about, just do what you feel and he will like it, were just happy to have girls giving us handjobs :D
My hubby loved when I used some of the ideas on here. Will use always. Great way to fore play with him
eewww!! So many fucked up comments on this page!! ick.
my boyfriend is circumcised and i thought i should give some pointers for girls whose boyfriends are circumcised. so...here it is.
OK before him i had no idea about circumcised dicks. But i learned alot.
With these guys there is less skin protecting the penis, so they will need a little more lube than other guys to fully enjoy it!
Plus, even when they're soft there is no skin covering the head. the head inevitably gets a little desensitized that way, so circumcised guys are not as sensitive on the glands head. Which means you can go a little firmer, firm enough until you get a good response from him.
Another tip: you know where the penis is connected to the body? all around the base? pay attention to that area with your free hand often. That's why they like to give it to you good and hard! = it's that ring around the base. He explodes!
Why the fuck would you use raw meat. One that's a disease waitin to happen
Two that's a waste of food and
Three wat would u do wit it when u done
These Techniques actually work you shud so try mixing em all up it realli gets em going but keep it slow, if your guy loves it fast slow it down...keep the conversation away from their cock and just go at your pace, your boy will move like never b4.
I fondly remember the first hand job my wife gave me which was while we were dating. Our physical part of the relationship had been progrssing and we enjoyed getting each other turned on. She could feel my hard cock when she layed on me and we had done some dry humping. This was very very nice for us. I had my hands under her blouse and would undo her bra to give me nice access to her tits. She had even allowed me to go down her pants but she had only brushed over my cock on the outside of my pants with her hand. The night she gave me a hand job, I had fingered her earlier but she was still shy about touching me. As I was saying good bye, we started kissing and she could feel me get hard. She moved back just slightly and moved her hand right on my cock on the outside of my pants. I was surprised when she stayed there and was actually grabbing hold of it. Then she unzipped my pants and went inside and before long had her the palm of her hand on my cock. Was basically doing the healing stroke described above. Then moved onto the pressure technique with her hand wrapped around my cock. I was moaning it felt so good. She stayed at it and was also enjoying a new experience. She had her hand
right on the head of my cock when i came. She later admitted that it surprised her to feel me squirting in her hand but was exciting to feel it and know she had been able to bring me to completion. This was my first time to cum from a girl giving me a hand job. Her first time of ever touching and handling a hard cock. Great firsts for both of us. Still a nice activity during love making.
Try a small piece oif real fur,chinchiila for example.Very stimulating
yeah this helps me out alot
occasionally my boyfriend and i will have days in which we please each other back and forth (the are the VERY few days of not fucking) i typically will give him a blow job or hand job or even a combination of both. typically i enjoy to drink his semen after he comes but for a change he will rub the spilling semen all over my breasts. it gives such an amazing feeling i love it, you should try!
yeah i agree... yeast infection.. here we come!
Oh no she DI-IN"T!!!!!
My girlfriend does most of the things mentioned to jurk me off. The thing that pisses her off is that she can't make me cum. I guess that it just means that more head is the answer.LOL
i spit on my penis and massage the head and cum just flies everywher
it feels really great if you tried it reply back!
another good thing to do to get your guy excited is to suck on the glans head while giving a hand job. every couple minutes deep throat and lightly (very lightly) nibble on the very tip then deep throat and repeat the process. Drives my boyfriend wild!!
i do this for my fiance all the time! if you want to add a little excitement... pretend you're laying down in his lap while driving somewhere! ( then just take charge and go at it!) my fiance goes crazy!
i am only 15 but i masturbate every night. i finger my butt hole with my finger while i masturate with my dads lube, if feels unreal.
does your dad know u use it!!
get really drunk and go to a party you will get laid.
when i was 15 i did the samething you did but my fingers were to big so i used the bottms of disposable shavers that my sister bought and then flush them when i was done that way you get rid of the evidence and your fingers dont smell all day and you arent disgusted by the look of ur finger
try something else if your finger isnt working like idk alot of teenagers use sharpies if it doesnt hurt too much you should try
a well lubricated sharpie works very well
When hand jobbing my partner, i would rather get him to ejaculate onto my face or mouth instead of getting it out in all directions. Very sexy for a woman.
Lizz
i've always enjoyed folding up a pillow and having my way with it. it conforms well and you can vary the pressure. you can go for such a long time and have a very intense orgasm. try it, you'll love it.
I use pillows too! I began humping pillows as a teen as a replacement to sex with girls. I am 50 years old now. Despite trying with all my might to woo the fairer sex and asking many out on dates, I always got turned down. Very frustrating! Like most men, I have a strong sex drive and Little Miss Pillow fills the bill! I use my imagination when having my way with my pillows, pretending that a pretty lady has fallen for me and has permitted me to take her. I have gotten creative by scenting my pillows with perfume as well as playing recordings of sex sounds during masturbation. One recording in particular that really excites me is of a brief kissing session leading to sloppy wet intercourse where the woman actually queeves several times. I got that recording by hiding a tape recorder under my college roommate’s bed on a night I knew his girlfriend would visit him. Hearing that brings me to a fiery orgasm every time! I name my pillows too. Little Miss Pillow was my first and she has been with me for 35 years and counting!
..OMG i will never look at a pillow the same way again... :0 yuck.
i agree that is gross and pathetic
OMG LMAO
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