Female ejaculation & G-spot orgasm
Q. When it comes to female ejaculation, I’ve heard that most guys don’t realize the amount a woman actually comes when she has g-spot orgasm – do you have any ideas for how to explain this to a new sexual partner? I don’t want him to freak out and make him think I’m peeing on him. Also, do you have any ideas to deal with how soaked my mattress gets?
A. Female ejaculation is a topic that readers constantly write to us about. I think that telling your potential partner all about how you come could be hot. Besides, what man wouldn’t want to make a woman do that?! Someone who’s grossed out by the concept probably won’t be able to please you anyway.
Here are some suggestions for what to have on hand for the wet encounter. There are some excellent products for this type of thing made by Liberator. They make throw blankets for the couch or bed, cushy waterproof mats for outdoor/indoor play and ergonomically shaped pillows that can improve your g-spot experience. The products come in a variety of removable covers that are washable. It’s also a good idea to have a good quality lubricant on hand – my favorites right now are the water-based lubes by Jo and by O’My.
Although you might feel shy explaining female ejaculation to a potential partner, use it to your advantage. If you never explain fundamental things about what your body is capable of, you’re selling yourself short and limiting your sexual experience potential.