Male Masturbation Guide
It is a well-known fact that men enjoy masturbation and virtually all men do it with some regularity. There is no maximum or minimum frequency at which you should masturbate. Masturbation is both physically and mentally rewarding and fulfilling. There are no negative side effects, especially the often-joked about 'making you go blind' or 'growing of palm-hair'!
There are many different ways to reach a quality orgasm through masturbation and there is no 'right' way. Try different sensations and see how you like them. Some people enjoy the feel of a full grip, some enjoy using both hands, while others only like to use their thumb and a couple of fingers. Regardless of your preference, lubricants and sex toys like Vibrators & specific Sex Toys for Men (such as the well-known 'Fleshlight') are just a few things to experiment with to find out what you like best.
For the truly athletic amongst us, consider the possibilities of Autofellatio ... the art of orally servicing oneself!
In regards to circumcised versus uncircumcised ... the covered (protected) head of the uncircumcised penis is likely to be generally more sensitive to stimulation. However, both types of penis are capable of receiving great pleasure 'in the right hands'!
Basic Stroke
Place one or both hands around your erect penis and stroke up and down along the shaft. If you require, use some water-based lubricant to increase pleasure. Some men enjoy encircling the head of the penis with each stroke.
Slapping and Beating
This technique involves a steady slapping of the penis back and forth between two hands, against the stomach, or against some other object.
Sources of Stimulation
When using one hand to masturbate, or with a partner, there is the opportunity to receive other forms of sexual stimulation at the same time. Many men find it pleasurable to fondle their scrotum, gently rub the perineum (area between scrotum and anus), and have their nipples rubbed.
The anus is a very sensitive location and many men enjoy practicing Anal Masturbation. Applying pressure to the anal opening, or gently inserting an object inside, can be quite arousing. Many Anal Dildos, better known as butt plugs, are designed to target the Prostate Gland, which is another source of great pleasure that can only be reached through the rectum.
A variety of vibrators provide penile or anal stimulation. Vibrating bullets, vibrating sleeves, or spot vibrators can all provide intense stimulation to your Erogenous Zones.
Penis pumps have long been popular with men as masturbation devices. A generic penis pump consists of a long cylinder that fits over the penis and is attached via a tube to a pump. The pump creates a vacuum around the penis; in doing so it pulls blood into the area and temporarily enlarges the penis, a feeling many men find pleasurable. You should be sure to follow the recommendations for proper use and avoid using it at high pressure for longer than fifteen minutes. Be sure to use ample amounts of water-based lubricant inside the cylinder, as well as around the base of the penis. By doing so you will ensure a tight seal and thus better suction. Attachments for the nipples are available with some pumps.
For more masturbation ideas to round out your repertoire, please refer to our guide on Hand-job Techniques.
ive been dating this girl and i really wana do her. We go to my house a lot and make out but its kinda boring. I need to know a great way to get to her to let me do her. And also how to easily move between positions?
heya,
why not experiment with each others bodys before doing that, like you masturbate her she does it to you, then oral and then sex because then you will know how each other feels about sex and wether you want to do it or not.
hope this helps
love yukara x
Me and my girl was messing around and she touch my penis and I was not erect and she was like your small (by the way im 16 and she is 16).. and then a couple of days later she jacked me of i was erect not fully I asked was I still small she said no, then another day I wasnt erect and she was like your so small, now I measured one time and I was 6 inches and maybe a little more, I didnt cum when I got jacked off, but shes confusing me and making me really honry I want to show her how big I can get, she says she wants to do me, why do she want to do me if im so small? When I do her , I want to use my size good and really show her , any advice?
tho i am not a guy i do a lot with my bf's dick but your dick is not small it is actually a normal size!!! really im not lieing it is normal, my bf's is 6 1/2 inches but i say a normal sized penis will range from 5 1/2 - about 7 so your perfect!!!!!
my fastest record to cum is 30 sec yay !! haha
I'm 15 and I masterbate like every other day (used to be everyday) and like most people my age used to cum in like a minute and a half. I figured out if you try not to focus so hard and lose a little tension you can go longer (and cum harder)
if you dont go as hard you would go for longer
i watch porn on the computer and just star rubbing my dick and it is dry when i do it and it hurts but then gets wet. Are there any good lubs to use to do this i live at home and dont want my parents to find anything if i get it i started masturbating at 13 and i am 18 and going off to school in the fall where is a good place to masturbate at school.
i'm in the same situation as you. I've been masturbating since i was about 13 as well. Some good, non-revealing lubes would be lotion, vaseline, baby oil/gel. As far as a good place to jack off in college, i have no idea. but if anyone finds out let me know cause i'm getting ready to go to school myself.
if you have a roommate, which im sure most of you freshman will, then its gonna be tough. I never had a roommate so i didnt have a problem lookin for a place to do it. But my advice to you freshman strokers out there is, if you do have a roommate, it might help if you knew his schedule, then you can kinda plan out your day an do it when he's not there. You can just kinda casually ask him, an tell him you wanna know in case you wanna bring a girl back to the room for a lil fun. An he'll prolly wanna know if an when you'll be there too for the same reason. Hope this helps. Other places ya could do it would be, the shower, ur car, in the elevator, etc.
i get horny to a male penis but i get horny to a naked girl too. but i don't wanna date a guy. is tht weird??
mmmm no, i see no problem with it at all. i would add more, but im friggen tired XD
ok. thanx.
yeah, its normal m the same way, its fine, ur bi but more off to he girls side than the guys.
I'm 15 year' old, watch porn and masturbate, and im really fast at times.... i've tried not watching porn and just using my imagination, still goes quick... it's really annoying :-/,
anybody here got any suggestion's or tips etc....
thanks :)
Skloppy ;)
easy, if you are in the middle of jerkin it and your about to cum stop for a little bit or do it a bit slower, try getting your mind off to something else really quick but not so long that you start to go soft, you cum a lot more after you do this for a while.
what you could do is try to lossen your hand
I'm 15 and I've tried masturbating several times, but I've never ejaculated and it doesn't even feel particularly good. Can anybody help?
well are you sure you are doing it right, and are you sure you are reaching orgasm? it can take a while especially if you arent in the mood and are just forcing it. As for the ejaculation you probably won't be truly ejaculating until you are a little older, you might produce a little bit of semen but the testicles dont truly mature until the 16-18 year frame until then you are just producing a liquid substance. Also it is hurtin then use some hand lotion or something as a lubricant
i strongly disagree. i started masturbation at age 9..and if you message me, ill tell ya how that all went down :P but i do agree with the whole "mood" and "forcing it" thing. ya gotta FEEL it man!!!
i was the same way, i started at age 10! didn't know at first then, got huge dick and figured it ou and off it started!
is it normal bcuz im 12 and i cummed? or not...well...i have a craplode of questions but i mite az well look on this website...
Im 13 and theres this girl that i really like and i wonder if she likes me cuz she took my phone and put her number into it, also occasionaly she comes on to me and that turns me on ALOT. And she is really hot and im not sure if its normalt to masturbate about 3 times a day. What should i do? should i ask the girl out? plz help.
ok bro, im 15, dunno whether your getting morning glory yet (wakeing up with an erection)so masturbating to get rid of it is normal ( and useful) xD
as for the girl go for it .. i duno how old she is or what her sexual appetite is like but if ur a lucky dude u can get her to do the masturbating bit for u ;) :P
ask her out! and about the masturbation, i do it like 3-4 times a day(once in the morning cause i cant wake up to save my life) so your not the only one, my friend :P funny thing is, i was 10 when i first masturbated..didn't know WHAT was going on..thought i pissed in my bed, but it felt great..2 years later, figured out what it was..funny stuff :P anyways, ask this chick out!
you could ask her friends if she likes you
and about the masterbating dont do it for about a week and watch it be so much better
3 times a day is a bit more than average but not abnormal. as for the girl, go for it =P
is it just me or is it easier to wank with your legs tensed?
agreed
hi friends my age is 16 and when masterbute its only last for less than 1 minute so what should i do
here is a tip, start doing it like you always do then like right, right, right before your about to cum let go and start breathing, wait for your penis to "cool down" then start going again keep doing this till you cant and you just cum. and if you keep doing this it will really help you to go longer, and when sex comes around you will be able to go long enough so the girl your with will cum first. so just keep training yourself
I am only 13 and have never cummed how do I HELP PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!! all my friends have and theyre pround of it I REALLY WANT TO!!!!!!!!
Hey, it depends, if u have a pretty reaonable dick size and u r really horney, give it a go! u never know wat could happen! (btw move ur hand pand down ur dick when u hae a boner!
u havent reached the age when u can dont freak out there is no why it just comes out
Hi im 16 and i was wondering how to make somthing that i could use as a fake vagina and get rhe job done. Any ideas how? Please help
Hey I'm 22 and I've been masturbating since I was 14 and I find it OK and so exiting to do but the only thing is every time I ejaculate I eat my sperm instead of cleaning it up with some toilet paper and I just love the taste of it but I don't know if it's something I should do every time. Do you think I'm a sick person for doing it or am I OK ?
Balls (excuse the un-intentional pun) to everyone else, you do what you like doing
to each his own, you probably shouldnt do it every time and semen is very hard for the body to process although it is relatively healthy every once in a while i suppose
I love to f**k my 8 inch dick! It is so fun. I make up so many fantisies to get where I want to go. When I'm alone, I love to take my dad's video camera and tape me f**king my dick in many positions. This is one of my favorite things to do.
hey, um yeah i get horny like alot i know its kinda wierd but do you know any house hole items u can use to mkae jerking off better, like i tried vasaline but it's messy and i already used it all, anytips
hi,i'm a 12 year old guy and i have an awesome girlfriend and we kiss all the time and stuff, im just wondering how to make her go further, i no im only 12 so it doesn't really matter much yet i just wanted to know. thanks
k man check this out this plan works alot. so first you wanna get her on a couch or bed, somewhere where you can lay down. start kissing her and get her so your on your back and shes kinda laying on top of you, rub her back for a bit then slowly make your way down to her butt, if she lets you put your hand on it start rubbing her but slowly, then start working you way up her back but this time try and go under her shirt so you feel some skin, if she lets you go keep going and start rubbing the skin on her back, start to get both hands under her shirt, move around up to her neck and back down, then start SLOWLY working you finger tips under the top of her pants (on her butt)just keep sliding your fingers in and out of her pants but dont go all the way, if she doesnt do anything to make you get your fingers out of there your pretty much good to go. So start getting your whole hand under her pants but dont go under her panties, start rubbing her butt and kinda squeezing it gentley, then once you done that work your way into her butt crack where her vagina is and very softly start rubbing it for a bit [outside her panties dont touch her skin yet] (you might feel it starting to get wet) then finally work you finger just like you did the pants into her panties so you can actually start rubbing and fingering her vagina (if shes still a vergin i would only put in 1 finger) play around with her for a bit and she might return the favor, if you wanna find out easiest way would be to take your hands out and roll her over so your on top, make sure you lift up your butt so she has room to move in. Good luck buddy and just rememeber to take it really slow, she needs time to ajust to what your doign ( after all your 12 haha)
im a 15 year old girl and if i was 12 id never let a guy go that far with me, and im pretty easy.
dont worry about it, im only 15 and when i first went further it just happened, just keep doing what your doing and it will come
hdxh
the best thing ive used to whack it is one of those bean pillows. its a real mess because the beads stick to your penis when your done. all you do is cut a hole in one end so that your dick barley fits. this will keep the beads in. then you can just hump it. it feels really good.
Theres nothing more satisfying than an old gym sock filled with warm mashed potatoes!
Hey i'm 13 and ive been masturbating sense i was 9. Is masturbation bad for you when your to young? and I do have a sex life with my G.F. who is 14. She always gets me to cum. should I keep masturbating?
i had the same question until my girl and i had phone sex and she told me how much she enjoyed listening to me. it's totally fine man, but take you girl into consideration. if she likes cum then try not to the night before you know you'll get some action, but on the other hand for stamina and a small reduction in a chance of pregnancy do it several times before. Jacking off is actually an important part of lovemaking and not just a substitution
Theres no real set time to start, and your girl cant always be there when you have a bonner, so wack away.
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