Prostate Gland Stimulation
For many couples, the prostate is a largely unexplored region of recreation, and yet it can be an area of pleasure for both partners. Whether this area becomes a staple of your sexual practices is to be determined, but some initial investigation is recommended before making a decisive conclusion.
The prostate gland (P-spot) is centrally located inside the pelvic region of the male; it sits below the bladder and immediately in front of the rectum, wrapping itself around the urethra in order to add to the flow during ejaculation. The area between the anus and the genital ‘zone’ is known as the perineum, which is in close contact with the prostate gland. So not only does this little organ lend itself to hedonistic pleasure, it also actually performs a reproductive function by producing a seminal fluid that allows sperm to survive in the vaginal cavity.
Reaching the gland can be a potentially invasive procedure, involving petroleum jelly, rubber gloves (if desired), and wholehearted arousal in order to stimulate relaxation of the sphincter muscle. The stigma associated with anal penetration may be negative, depending on a person’s particular background. Factors that affect an individual’s readiness to delve into this sphere can range from degrees of homophobia or a fear of appearing homosexual, to simple issues of discomfort. An important point to consider is the man’s willingness to engage in this affair; the more frightened, unsure, or unwilling the recipient is, and the more the incident is going to hurt, lowering the overall chance of success. Perhaps a drink or two might be required to relax inhibitions.
Though it is a voluntary muscle, the anal sphincter is designed to open upon internal pressure ... specifically, the force that is exerted from a full bowel. If gentle stress is placed on the periphery of the (well-lubricated) anus, it will perform the same action in reverse, almost sucking the finger into the rectal area. Once the finger or suitable substitute is inside the rectum about one or two inches, it must be pointed towards the ventral (stomach) region of the male and gently manipulated. In other words, if you are sitting between your partner’s legs and your finger is in his anus, curl it toward yourself to facilitate the stimulation of his prostate to orgasm. Some men may need less or more specific attention to the areas in and around the rectum; for some companions, provoking the perineal surface before and during sex can promote or intensify the climax, and can form an alternative method to penetration.
An inhibiting factor to be aware of is the rectal susceptibility to infections of all kinds, especially those caused from the insertion of unclean instruments or of lubricating agents that contain low quality ingredients. Due to the vulnerability of this and other internal organs to damage, care and consideration is always warranted. Washing of the area with soap before and after the activity is a good plan, as is the use of condoms for organ penetration. Don’t feel discouraged by the apparent elaborateness of preparation; anticipation is half of the enjoyment. Enjoy!
Hetero Male here and it is Spectacular. Not for the weak, its a cum unlike others. Like some other men have said it really opens up the types of sex you thought were possible. Following getting clean, my fiance reports that eating my asshole is a super experience. We saw it in a few pornos where guys were getting threesoming with one girl riding while the other girl was rimming and poking a finger or two in his asshole. We wanted to try it and we were not disappointed. Big healthy cum's with stars in my eyes, no joke! Get over your ego and pride and give it a try. SERIOUSLY
Me and my wife love it, she will lick my shaved bum an slide her finger in an massage it and suck me off till she drains me all the way. I love it.. Our ex bf boy toy we had he loved it when i shoved a 8inch meat in him but returned the favor while my wife watched us an vedeo'd it..
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Intresting! As soon as my doctors get me back together again and I heal up down there it sounds like something fun to try!
Guys put aside your prejudices and give it a try! During a shared shower, my wife discovered my secret while giving me a good cleansing post sex scrub. Touched my taint and I was hard again instantly. I pushed her finger away at first, but some great mouth and handwork had me going crazy and--BAM! finger in my ass and cum spraying all over!! Surprised the hell out of both of us!
Took me a little while to admit to myself and my wife how much I enjoyed it and to put my inhibitions aside. Really horny one day during mutual masturbation, I asked for some 'help' and yowsers! After seeing stars and shooting over my head, I was hooked!
If you're Hetero, get past the 'gay' taboo and enjoy! No hands prostate orgasm is unbelievable!
i tried this... but i didnt enjoyed it... i'll just stick to hand-jobbing... lol
This sounds like so much fun I hope I can find some to help me try it
My wife discovered this after we read a book about couple sex. We were on vacation and I told her I was massaging and playing with her a minimum of 45 minutes before I touched her pussy or clit. She absolutely loved it and we had tremendous pleasure together. On the third night she said she wanted to do the same to me, 45 minutes of playing before we fucked.
I mentioned the prostate massage. When we got home form dinner she told me to go lay down on the bed and she'd be there in a minute. The anticipation was intense. She came over and started just rubbing my thighs. Eventually she lubed my ass hole and was massaging me lightly while she played with rim of my ass hole. She had her other hand on my dick and was lightly playing with my pleasure skin fold just below the head of my dick.
The prostate and dick stimulation was so intense. I was having orgasms without cumming. It kept going and going. I ended up holding onto the headboard and moaning loudly as the constant orgasms swept over me. I got so crazy that my wife said, "I want some of this." and she mounted me Reverse Cowgirl.
The prostate stimulation did two things; first I was overheated with pleasure, second the dry cum seemed to give me stamina I never had before. We fucked for over an hour and my cum load was massive.
Both my wife and I love prostate massage. I just try to control myself. The pleasure is so amazing.
My girlfriend will sometimes do it to me, but she doesn't like it, so I normally take care of my own business in that respect.
I sorta wish girls had a prostate gland too, it sounds totally awesome !
some times my wife doing to me prostate massage really itis good
My husband and I do this and we both absolutely Love it! We have been married 10 years and have a great sex life, but this has taken it to a whole new level! I really enjoy watching him get so much pleasure, its a HUGE turn on for me!
I've suggested doing this for my boyfriend but he refuses, he's said that it's gay and he'd be uncomfortable. I get told to "open up to try new things" but he won't do it himself, anyone got any suggestions to change his mind?
He probably thinks that anything regarding anal for guys is for gay men only. To me, that's like saying that oral on girls is for lesbians only. The simple fact is that anything which adds pleasure to a sexual experience is a good thing as long as no one gets hurt. However, preexisting bias about whether or not something's "OK" does affect whether that person will enjoy it. If he thinks that anything anal is gross then you might have a shot. But if he thinks that anal for women is fine but for men it means that you're gay then you, like millions of other women, will have to try and get him to separate physical pleasure from social acceptance. But that's not easy and could take quite a while. Education seems to be the best cure so encourage him to read up on this and other topics and hopefully he'll discover on his own that so many men can't be wrong.
I recently found this. My wife has used a small vibe on me and it feels good but when I first found this she tried it with a finger and i was amazing but it grosses her out. how should I go about getting her to use her finger instead of a toy. Does anybody have an sugestions?
honestly find something that you feel comfortable cleaning yourself out with like the enigma kits or something of that nature then it wont be as gross for her since that part of you in now clean it takes time but its worth it
I do this to my bf alot..
But it gets so fucking annoying when he starts yelling "i'm gonna fucking pee" and pisses off to the toilet!
So no more of that..i'm not gonna sit there for 20 mins giving him all my attention just for it to be a slap in the face!!
Hey guys....girls think about this more than you think! For most girls its a real turn on. Most women wont bring it up because they are afraid that you wont go for it or you'll think they are weird. And to anybody who thinks its "gay" its because they aren't secure enough with their own sexuality to try it!! My boyfriend had never tried it before...we talked about it before we tried it and now he LOVES it. He says it makes the orgasm much more intense! So go for it...talk to your wife or girlfriend...I bet you'll be surprised by her response!!
i use my wifes toys all the time looking forward to the real thing
hey any u guy got or know of a guy or couple who ues them i luv prostate massgin am keen to know more abouit the massagers
I use anal vibrators from time to time.
I'm glad to see that there are other guys who are open-minded. I'm straight but I'm afraid that everyone would say I was bi if they knew I enjoyed this sort of thing. Well, the girl I'm dating right now would probably be ok with it.
I wish my wife would go for this, the videos that I have seen look like a new fun experiment, She has touched me at the opening and I liked it but I wish she would go all in and massage both prostate and cock
i do this to my fiance. He opened me up to this idea. I was so turned off at first but not I love it. He gets so much pleasure form it. I love to see him love it.
i found that anal stimulation is realy horny to me, yet ive never had any practical experiance,but my wife is unaware that id really enjoy it! any ideas how i can put this to her without her thinking that i am "gay"?
if she is you wife, would it not be quite obvoius to her that you are not gay?
just ask her.
yeah my bf wont tell me do this to him he gets freaked out..
In my own experience on this subject I would like to add two thoughts.
There is a toy called "Aneros" I was lucky in the fact that I got to be one of the first testers of this device several years ago! "it will blow your mind!"
second- Ladies if you want to try this with your guy but he is reluctant...engage him in oral sex but drag it out over as long a period as you can!( bit of sexual torture! ) If you deny him orgasm long enough he will agree to pretty much anything!
just a word to the wicked!
;)
C.F.B
If you deny him orgasm long enough, you may not get to give (or receive) oral sex from him, depends on the guy. Some guys will be into this prostate stimulation thing, some won't. If you're with a guy who is not respect his wishes (as you'd want us to do for you) or find another guy.
It sounds to me is your closet fucks, hoping someone will let you out!
how do i go about telling my girl...she is gonna right off the bat think that i am bisexual because she thought it before after realizing what a freak i am...so yeah how do i introduce her to the idea
leave this page up on the computer.she might have a look at it then surprise you.
at first my boyfriend didn't want to try it but i convinced him and now i do this to him at least once a week. it just feels really good and it turns me on as well ;)
Last week I was still a virgin and I met a man who told me all about prostate massage, so this was actually my first sexual experience! I really enjoyed giving him so much pleasure - how he moaned!! Works great if you are sucking c**k at the same time as fingering his prostate. Because I found sex very painful my first time, it was good to use this technique to make him orgasm, as I was to sore to take any more!! Hope it will be easier the next time :)
i had sex with another man when he did this 2 me and had an orgasm like i never did with a girl b4
I wanna do this to my hubby but he wont let me, he says its gay, I dont think so at all, I think its hot!
this sounds great and id b willing but i dont think my fiancee will be :(
hope my wife finds it.