Male Masturbation Guide
It is a well-known fact that men enjoy masturbation and virtually all men do it with some regularity. There is no maximum or minimum frequency at which you should masturbate. Masturbation is both physically and mentally rewarding and fulfilling. There are no negative side effects, especially the often-joked about 'making you go blind' or 'growing of palm-hair'!
There are many different ways to reach a quality orgasm through masturbation and there is no 'right' way. Try different sensations and see how you like them. Some people enjoy the feel of a full grip, some enjoy using both hands, while others only like to use their thumb and a couple of fingers. Regardless of your preference, lubricants and sex toys like Vibrators & specific Sex Toys for Men (such as the well-known 'Fleshlight') are just a few things to experiment with to find out what you like best.
For the truly athletic amongst us, consider the possibilities of Autofellatio ... the art of orally servicing oneself!
In regards to circumcised versus uncircumcised ... the covered (protected) head of the uncircumcised penis is likely to be generally more sensitive to stimulation. However, both types of penis are capable of receiving great pleasure 'in the right hands'!
Basic Stroke
Place one or both hands around your erect penis and stroke up and down along the shaft. If you require, use some water-based lubricant to increase pleasure. Some men enjoy encircling the head of the penis with each stroke.
Slapping and Beating
This technique involves a steady slapping of the penis back and forth between two hands, against the stomach, or against some other object.
Sources of Stimulation
When using one hand to masturbate, or with a partner, there is the opportunity to receive other forms of sexual stimulation at the same time. Many men find it pleasurable to fondle their scrotum, gently rub the perineum (area between scrotum and anus), and have their nipples rubbed.
The anus is a very sensitive location and many men enjoy practicing Anal Masturbation. Applying pressure to the anal opening, or gently inserting an object inside, can be quite arousing. Many Anal Dildos, better known as butt plugs, are designed to target the Prostate Gland, which is another source of great pleasure that can only be reached through the rectum.
A variety of vibrators provide penile or anal stimulation. Vibrating bullets, vibrating sleeves, or spot vibrators can all provide intense stimulation to your Erogenous Zones.
Penis pumps have long been popular with men as masturbation devices. A generic penis pump consists of a long cylinder that fits over the penis and is attached via a tube to a pump. The pump creates a vacuum around the penis; in doing so it pulls blood into the area and temporarily enlarges the penis, a feeling many men find pleasurable. You should be sure to follow the recommendations for proper use and avoid using it at high pressure for longer than fifteen minutes. Be sure to use ample amounts of water-based lubricant inside the cylinder, as well as around the base of the penis. By doing so you will ensure a tight seal and thus better suction. Attachments for the nipples are available with some pumps.
For more masturbation ideas to round out your repertoire, please refer to our guide on Hand-job Techniques.
Sure. There are places all over your house to flog your log. Sometimes I do it on the couch while looking on my laptop or on the couch watching my favorite tv show.
hey there all... I am married here with no sex in almost a year from wife.. For the past year I just enjoy masterbating and cant get enough as i do the stop and go method and love to make it last for over an hour or 2 almost everyday when she is sleeping or working.... anyone else enjoy the same way as i do..
Hey guys.I am 18 and my cock is 4inc(not gifted,that doesnt stop me from masturbating very often).I am chubby but also genetically big.Anyway,despite looks,my question is.Does anyone know how to improve blood circulations?Cause they are the ones responsible for the size after all,despite health.
http://laurensecretblog.com/blog/laurensworld/blog.php?subid=AU_T10_UPFT...
My penis is 6inchs long when erect and curves up like a banana is this normal
yes completely normal, actually many people are confused by this
About the bumps around the penis is all in this link.
http://www.sexinfo101.com/pearlypapules.shtml
and also, is aloe vera a good lube?
hi, i have been masturbating for quite a while now and i have seemed to developed a ring around my penis that looks to be some sort of bruse. i am not relly sure if i am curcimsised or not but i dont know how it got there. so if anyone has advice please share.
its okay dude. thats suppose to be there. the same thing happened to me but it happens so every guy. dont worry about it
SO how exactly do you masturbate. I tried these but they just don't cut it.
go to the site jackinworld.com they have alot of imformation.
Hey guys I have a problem, I masturbate but I hardly last 10 min, if I really tried I can orgasm in 30 seconds. I'm 16 and started to masturbate at like 12. I need help, I wanna last longer please help!
read DoctorJack's post a few comments down. he really has a good way of dooing it.
Well iv looked on other sights and alot of guys like to get lose and might try it idk but I don't know really what to do and how to get really lose got any ideas what to do..... I'm like 15 and almost 16 and mine is 51/2 almost like 6 that good for age??? Plz answer help me!
That size is average its good. Im 18 and the same as you. I'm 5 1/2 inches and I do better than someone who's 12 inches, so 5 1/2 is what most women prefer so you're doin just fine.
Well when not erect it's like 1 1/2 to 2 inchs y so small any thing o can fo to change it???? With out pills or any other drugs???
when your not erect you are usualy that small. so dont worry about it. its absoutly normal/
How can I last long when jacking off after I like cum once I'm just not in the mood any more I wish I could last longer how can I do that???? U no last longer??
If you are a young man, it may be difficult to last more than 15 minutes while masturbating because your hormones are at their highest levels. You may even masturbate several times a day. But, as you get older, and want to have sex with your mate, it becomes necessary to learn to retard ejaculation. There are many ways you can " re-wire" your brain to achieve longer masturbation sessions and have more stamina in bed with your partner.
You may want to try this: masturbate yourself with your non-dominant hand. It may be frustrating at first, but it will take you longer to achieve orgasm. As you go through this process of re-learning how to masturbate with your non-dom hand, try to limit your use of porn. One thing that will help you enjoy a good masturbation session while not using porn and help you extend the session, is to write letters or thoughts or erotic poetry.... whatever, while you are simultaneously giving your cock a slow stroking session. You will find that concentrating on your writing "shunts" the signals that go from brain to cock and from cock to brain that normally occur during masturbation. Your sex organs adapt to the long stroking, and you have more stamina.
This whole process may take a couple of months to master, so take your time and don't get frustrated; the results will achieve what you're looking for. And eventually, either you will "age out" of short masturbation sessions or you will become master of your dick play early. I mastered this technique in my late twenties, and I have enjoyed longer masturbation sessions from that time till now and I'm over 50 years old.
Another technique I call " Beyond Edging". " Edging" normally is when a guy stimulates himself to just before the point of no return, stops, deflates some, and then recommences stroking. This is also called the " Stop and Go" technique. " With the " Beyond Edging" technique, you get to that "almost at no return" point, and stop, but you don't stop completely. You grab the base of your cock with one hand and squeeze gently, holding in the semen "charge" inside the shaft, as well as the blood that causes the penis to swell, and with the other hand, you push and stroke on the perineum ( the area just below your balls; some call this the "taint"). This causes the cock to "jump" a little, and it is different from Stop and Go because you're not stopping and doing nothing, you are still stimulating the penis, but indirectly.
You will find that when you release the grip on the base of your cock and recommence stroking, the strokes will feel very pleasant; the "less is more" principle is in effect here. You will find that pushing on the perineum during ejaculation also enhances the pleasant sensations of orgasm, and extends the length of the orgasm period. This technique also allows you to produce lots of " pre cum"; you may be able to go several " rounds" of " Beyond Edging" before you can no longer retard ejaculation.
A masturbation session using this technique can last well beyond an hour or two. While adjusting to this technique, it's reccommended to limit he use of porn, as it may cause distraction and " premature" ejaculation. Another advantage of this technique is that it's "non-invasive"; it stimulates the prostate without insertion, which some may wish to avoid for whatever reason.
Hopefully, masturbation control will lead to satisfying sexual relations with a partner of the opposite sex,and you will enjoy a long married life. If not, enjoy the options you think are available to you. Either way, masturbation is something all can enjoy and share as we live with the bodies we have.
Hope this helps, Ryan
DoctorJack
I masturbate sometimes as much as 3 times a day.I have a nice wife with a fantastic big clit and hairy cunt that I just love, I wank her as much as I can and when she allows me to,then we fuck with my dick touching her G-Spot while she plays with her clit.That is our favorite position.We of course fuck other stiles as well.We usualy come together in this way in 10 minutes which is great.The problem is this: after the 20 years of being together,things are slowing down between us.We used to fuck every secont day and do like 2 or even 3 numbers per session.Now we fuck once a week and one number.But I need to fuck everyday - or at least i would like to - but my wife is not interested.Once a week is enought for her.But my libido is sky high and I need more pussy.I dont want to go elsewhere as I feel that this would realy fuck up whats left of our relationship..so I wank everday and not really enjoying it anymore.She blows me maybe 2x a week but it not enought form me.What would you suggest in such a situation?? We tried smoking grass and even some amphetamine which was great but I dont want to be stoned all the time when I want to make love to my wife.We do all sorts of sport together so we are active...we ride horses,scuba,ride enduro bikes,etc..so we are active and close together.Strange thing is that I am so in love with her big clit and nice hairy pussy that I cannot see myself fucking another women..
What would you suggets to get her libido boosted up?
ok i lost my virginity at 11:/ and i used to wank alot, so me and my older gf were shagging for about an hour before i came is this bad or weird??? help plzz i measn it was 2 years ago but still worries me
Nice lies, lies that can put you in prison...
You're not clever trying to convince us that at eleven you lost your virginity and it took you 3 hours, you're just putting yourself at risk.
"Edging" or "Stop & Go' techq is where you stop jacking just short of cumming, waiting until the "need to cum" urge passes, and then you start stoking again. " Beyond Edging" is different, and I like it better. You start as normal,then when you get close to the point of orgasm, stop, grab the base of your dick with one hand, and rub the area beneath your balls ( called the perineum )with your other hand. Make your dick " dance", tighten your muscles, hold your breath ( but just enuf to be slightly uncomfortable), and think of cumming; "urge yourself to cum". Because you're holding your dick semi-tightly at the base, the blood and cum will go slower up the dick, and the sensations are great, but the idea is "less is more"; you are going "beyond edging" because you're not just stopping and doing nothing, you're stopping and making your dick " dance", rubbing your perineum ( some call it the "taint"), and urging the cum & blood to go slower up the shaft. The pre-cum will flow good on this techq, and when you recommence stroking your dick, the "first strokes" on the cock will be as good as the first time you ever stroked your dick !!
I'm 23 and my penis is like 5 1/2" and my girlfriend likes it...eventhough we have sex like 3 to 4 times during weekends I still have the urge to masturbate frequently during the week..is this normal? Also I can only have sex once, max twice...I get sleepy, what can I do.?
Thats normal dude. Just go with it.
So I know I'm not gay because I love doing stuff with girls but whenever me and my (guy)friends sleepover we sometimes take off our clothes and masturbate to porn on the tv. But we all kind of watch eachother out of the corner of our eyes. Is this normal for a 14 year old kid, and is it weird that I fantisize about this?
Don't worry, its not weird at all. Your still young and are still learning things about your body and your self. And there isn't a thing wrong with that. Hope I helped- Eddy
After I cum,while masturbation, MY CUM IS NOW LIQUIDY CLEAR!!! is that a problem?
I honestly think thats fine unless its pre ejaculation, which probably isn't :-)
I really don't think it is. Maybe its just from a little excessive masturbation. So chill out, your fine.
Want some ideas on how to eat my cum because after I cum I can't get myself to eat but I want to
Just do it!! Lol just don't think about it, if a girl is expected to taste it so should you-Eddy
Agreed. I dont mind swallowing so much granted its not the best taste but the feeling you made the guy cum cos you satisfied him is a good turn on but I do have it when a guy forces you too cos its not like they would willingly swallow their own cum unless into that
anyone know any good porn sites?
Youporn.com is another good one my German cousin showed me.... You just have to find the good videos
pornhub is a good one.
XVideos is a great site
hi, when i masturbate i usual cum fairly quickly. how can i make it last longer? also when i am about to come how do i physically stop myself?
i am 19 btw and still a virgin if that helps.
At your age, it is very difficult to stop your orgasm, but it is great to be able to masturbate for an hour or longer. One techq that I've used on myself is to train yourself to jack to orgasm using your non-dominant hand. This will take a while, and you'll get a little frustrated, especially finishing off, but if you hang in there, you can go to the next level, and I think your stamina will increase to beyond one hour, if you take it to the next level. If you can concentrate fully on something other than jacking while you're jacking, your hand will go on "automatic pilot", having its way with your cock, and you'll be giving your cock a workout beyond anything you thought was possible.
Here's thae thing you concentrate on: Writing !! Yep..with your dominant hand you can write ( or type, on porn /masturbation sites) on a notepad. You write about your sex fantasies, about masturbation, anything that turns you on. I once jacked for three hours without cumming using this tech!!
What I think is happening is that the normal "signals" that come from the cock to your brain are being " shunted", and the "normal" connections are "shorted out". But every once in a while as you progress in this session, your concentration will drift back to what your hand and cock are doing, and you'll almost lose your nut. But if you perservere, you'll have a ball-blowing cum, a real "body-shaker". And you'll have a "Masturbation Diary" that you can jack off to the next time you need to get off. Works great !!
If you are artistic, you can draw picture of your "fantasy girl" as you slowly stroke yourself. Same effect !! Happy Jacking...good luck, dude !!
Well you can try a new technique or learn how to use your PC muscle which will help stop your self from cumming. I think there's an article on the PC muscle here somewhere- Eddy
My dick is around 11 inches long when erect, and 4.5 when flaccid. I am 14 and a half years old. I am a virgin. Is this normal?
Has anyone eaten their own cum?
Cum in a little baggie or condom, put it in freezer to keep it fresh, next time you need to masturbate, get your plastic cum-filled container warmed up ( I place mine under my balls; the sensation is great, and if you challenge yourself to wait until the cum is "ready to shoot[ warmed to room temp ] your jack-stoked brain will be even more perved up than normal), and as you're cumming , bite down on the plastic, cum squirts into your mouth...great cumfunnn !! Happy jacking, dude !!
I have.
I always want to but I can never end up bringing myself to do it. Any tips?
Just lick it quickly. If you expect a girl to taste it you should!!
Question: It says there are no negative side-effects but I've heard that it can numb sensitivity for guys. And I'm beginning to wonder if that's true because for one my boyfriend says that stroking about an inch below the head feels better than rubbing the actual head itself (he's circumcised). I mean no problems have come from it as of yet, but that and just a couple other sensitivity things have made me wonder: Can masturbating numb nerve endings?
No it can't men that aren't circumsized have more sensitive nerves so when you get circumsized you cut of some of those sensitive nerves but i've never heard of masturbating numbing nerves It might be something else
right after i get off when the cum is still coming out my eye twitches and like locks up is that normal ?
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