Male Masturbation Guide
It is a well-known fact that men enjoy masturbation and virtually all men do it with some regularity. There is no maximum or minimum frequency at which you should masturbate. Masturbation is both physically and mentally rewarding and fulfilling. There are no negative side effects, especially the often-joked about 'making you go blind' or 'growing of palm-hair'!
There are many different ways to reach a quality orgasm through masturbation and there is no 'right' way. Try different sensations and see how you like them. Some people enjoy the feel of a full grip, some enjoy using both hands, while others only like to use their thumb and a couple of fingers. Regardless of your preference, lubricants and sex toys like Vibrators & specific Sex Toys for Men (such as the well-known 'Fleshlight') are just a few things to experiment with to find out what you like best.
For the truly athletic amongst us, consider the possibilities of Autofellatio ... the art of orally servicing oneself!
In regards to circumcised versus uncircumcised ... the covered (protected) head of the uncircumcised penis is likely to be generally more sensitive to stimulation. However, both types of penis are capable of receiving great pleasure 'in the right hands'!
Basic Stroke
Place one or both hands around your erect penis and stroke up and down along the shaft. If you require, use some water-based lubricant to increase pleasure. Some men enjoy encircling the head of the penis with each stroke.
Slapping and Beating
This technique involves a steady slapping of the penis back and forth between two hands, against the stomach, or against some other object.
Sources of Stimulation
When using one hand to masturbate, or with a partner, there is the opportunity to receive other forms of sexual stimulation at the same time. Many men find it pleasurable to fondle their scrotum, gently rub the perineum (area between scrotum and anus), and have their nipples rubbed.
The anus is a very sensitive location and many men enjoy practicing Anal Masturbation. Applying pressure to the anal opening, or gently inserting an object inside, can be quite arousing. Many Anal Dildos, better known as butt plugs, are designed to target the Prostate Gland, which is another source of great pleasure that can only be reached through the rectum.
A variety of vibrators provide penile or anal stimulation. Vibrating bullets, vibrating sleeves, or spot vibrators can all provide intense stimulation to your Erogenous Zones.
Penis pumps have long been popular with men as masturbation devices. A generic penis pump consists of a long cylinder that fits over the penis and is attached via a tube to a pump. The pump creates a vacuum around the penis; in doing so it pulls blood into the area and temporarily enlarges the penis, a feeling many men find pleasurable. You should be sure to follow the recommendations for proper use and avoid using it at high pressure for longer than fifteen minutes. Be sure to use ample amounts of water-based lubricant inside the cylinder, as well as around the base of the penis. By doing so you will ensure a tight seal and thus better suction. Attachments for the nipples are available with some pumps.
For more masturbation ideas to round out your repertoire, please refer to our guide on Hand-job Techniques.
Here's a jack technique I found on another web site, and it is a nut-drainer. Needs lube. When you get up to a good hard, stroke your shaft twenty times using the "O-Ring" method (thumb & forefinger, light stroke), then stroke yourself ten times using the full-fist method (hard stroke). Keep up the twenty-ten sequence for as long as your body , brain & cock can take it. If you have porn that has a little "beat off" tune behind it, that helps. You'll start gooning after the first few sequences, and if you can last ten minutes on this, you're in a league of your own. The "tease" is in trying to keep up the sequence....and when you need just ONE MORE hard stroke to get off....and you have to go to the light stroke....well, you'll know when you can't stop....and rippin' on that rod is all you can do. Have jack fun, dude !
DoctorJack
hi, my friend asked me to ask this......
He is 14 and is unable to cum, no matter how long he does it for.
Anyone know if this is bad?
A lot of boys don't cum at a young age of 14, so its perfectly normal. The age of male ejaculation usually pops up around 16yrs and most cases 15yrs of age. There's nothing wrong, he's body just isn't ready yet
Maybe he is a late starter, and hasn;t hit puberty. Is his name Justin? Surname Bieber?
Hi I am 21 & I jerk atleast once a day since I was 10 & I love to rud my nipples a lot, but it dosn't shoot at all. it is just 6.5 in long. Is there any way to shoot cum in large quantity, make penis much longer & thicker, is squeezing nipples safe & dose size matters to shoot cum longer?
Please help me.
I'm 15 and when I wak off my sac always hits my hand & it hurts.is this normal?wat do I do?
There are two things I can think of. One is don't jerk off so hard(!) And the other is use your other hand or a folded up blanket or something to cushion it.
i use a different technique where my hand is at the top of the penis grabbing 3inches and pulling or lightly tugging myself. so instead of having your fist with the thumb at the top it is at the bottom near your body. your sac shouldnt move too much while doing this.
I'm 14 and when I masturbate it doesn't shoot out it just dribbles out. Any tips on how to make it shoot out. And is there a way to make an orgasm last longer and feel better.
When you are jerking off and it feels like your gunna cum in the next 30 seconds, stop. Wait about 30 seconds and jerk off again. Keep repeating until you get either:
A) A tingling feeling in your balls. THis isn't bad, just shows you'll shoot loads.
B) Your hand gets a mind of its own and won't stop jerking, and you end up coming.
dude,if you wanna make it last longer,take ur sac in ur other hand between ur thumb and pointer finger.lasts longer and feels better
I am seventeen years old. I jerk it probably once or twice a week. I find it is more pleasurable to do it in the shower with a little shampoo for lube. Also it helps with clean up. I usually cum once or twice and it does shoot out.
im 15 and little over 7 inches errect an i mastebate 6-10 times a day and the cum just drips out and id like it to shoot out any way i can make that happen
Jerk off a little less. I jerk off three times a day, for about an hour each time. I usually just stop jerking, wait and carry on. Eventually i'll just cum and it'll go flying. Another thing is to do with your muscles in your penis what you would do if your trying to make your piss go really far. For example if you've ever tryed to piss in a public toilet from across the room. I usually make sure a friend is standing guard. This will make it shoot further.
hey man you are masturbating to much, that is what is causing the dribble effect you are getting. hold off beating your dick for a day and you will shoot a huge load.
like the previous user said... you are doing too much.
if you hold back for like a day or two, the next time you masturbate, you will shit a big load. believe me. also, drink alot of water.
if you want to shoot you have to cut back a little. doing 6 times a day will make it dribble. so do it once a day and you should shoot
I found that if I sit and masturbate for a long period of time, but not let myself cum (ease off when you feel you're gonna cum), then when I finally do cum my cum has thinned out a bit and has some great shooting distance.
i think a ghost might like watching me masturbate. i have had suspicions that my house is haunted, do to unexplained thumps and voices, etc. but anyway, i might just be lying in bed, when i get this feeling that someting is watching me. then i get this sort of electric, coldish, tingliness around my crotch. it kind of feels like a ghost is trying to get me aroused. well, whatever it is gives me a HUGE boner, and i think "meh, why not", and i jerk off. and all the while it feels like something is watching.
Try going to your local park at night and wanking. Then each night go earlier. This will get you off good. You like the thrill of being watched, and would like the danger of being caught. Ever tryed wanking, shouting your mum, then trying to cum and clean up before she gets there. Just make sure you think of a reason you summoned her.
Im 13 years old and I can't climax. I can only pre-cum, and I rub really really hard and nothing else happens. Im circumcized, only sometimes use lube, but the result is always the same. I get little drips of clear semen, and nothing more. After a time I get bored.
And I only try to masturbate like 1 time a week usually.
Is the answer just time? Am I doing something wrong with technique? How can I orgasm, because so far for me this masturbation thing just seems boring and annoying with the erection popping up out of nowhere sometimes.
Also, my penis faces down when erect, not fully, like 45 degrees (half of the angle of this L). Is that unnatural?
Sorry to say this but you probbaly haven`t hit puberty. Also when masterbating try to go faster. You`ll hit orgasm faster. Well at least thats the case for me. On another note your dick slant is perfectly normal. Connact me at xstephenlongx@gmail.com if you have additional questions. :)
I'm 13 it takes me an awful long time to ejaculate and when indo I always have to take a leak afterwards is this weird?
Eventually you'll be able to wank and not have to piss afterwards. Ever tryed timing yourself, and seeing how long you can last.
i am 15 and after i get done i have to take a leak to
same for me.so I geuss not
When I masterbate a clear lquid comes out. I'm 12 and wondering if this is ok?!
There's nothing wrong with you, don't worry.
First off, your only 12, your not out of puberty, you semen bank isn't up to full capacity.
Second, depending on your family and you genetics, your semen might just be lacking the little guys and whiteness, it depends on the person, everyone varies.
Ok first of that stuff is true, second of all all it wold be pointless to lie about any of this stuff considering we have no idea who were even talking to haha and third of all when did I say I was out of puberty? ...just thought I'd give my opinion
Im 14 and the same size. From what I've heard 6in is average so were good.As far as jizzin goes, when I used to jack off once a week I would spirt out. Then I started jacking once a day and it just drips out. I last about 10 min probably because i jerk so much Haha. The longer you wait the faster it comes.
Dude, no offence to you but your 14...... Half this stuff is most likely made up, your probably in the middle of puberty, and no matter how much you jerk off and jizz it should always squirt out multiple times. I'm talking from experience here, again, no offence but your only 14 and your semen bank isn't fully devolped. Just go back to playing Xbox or whatever, this isn't a website for 14 year olds unless they don't know anything about sex ed, or if they have questions about things, but that's what your parents are for.
yes dude u r probz making it up, u r more than likely not fully out of puberty yet.
Im 19, im 5.9 inch erect. is this normal? um when i masturbate i dont last that long and when i cum it squirts out. How can i last for longer and how can i make my cum just drip when i ejaculate? hope someone can help.
Yes, your penis is around average size. You can last longer by going slower, and when you feel like your about to ejaculate, slow down the pace or squeeze under the glans. As for when you ejaculate, it's supposed to9 squirt out, not just drip, you can restrict the flow to make it drip, but it naturally just squirts out.
ok thanks, do you know any good positions i could masturbate in ?
you might feel gay doing this but you could try going on a porn website and going to masturbation, you'll probably find some positions there. i'm not sure though. :S
I'm 13 and when i wank, i have the keep the skin around the big bit at the end because if i don't keep foreskin there, it feels uncomfy but when i watch porn, the guys always have the skin right back?
Am i doing it right or what? :S
The reason you can't pull it all the way back is because of the little anchor of skin on the back on the head of your penis. The reason guys in porno's can pull it back is because they've had it snipped off/ in half. Your doing everything right except one...
Don't over-use porno, if you rely on it to get you off then when you get older your girlfriend/ wife/ whatever won't get you off and you'll be unsatisfied. Rely more on your imagination.
it's not that i can't get the skin back, it's when the skin is back and i try to wank, it feels really uncomfy. (not the skin being back.)
I don't watch porn very often.
Hey, i'm 24 and i'm circumcised but one thing thats been worrying me is my medical problem (diabeties), do you know if it will effect my sex life in anyway at all ?
best thing to do is ask your doctor?
Hey, I'm almost 13 and I masterbate around 4 to 5 times a month and I was wondering is it normal for me when masterbating to not cum and instead only reach orgasm. Plus my dick is a little less than 4 inches. Is that normal. Please respond both questions, I have been getting worried lately. Thanks!
Your only 13, it really depends on how far into puberty you are, you might not be creating semen yet. Personally I could jizz at 12, but that's just me. But be forewarned, if you jerkin off on by your computer, don't. I did it and I never had an ejaculation and BAAM all over my keyboard and shit.
As for you penis size, again, your only 13, your still growing. But as comparison, I'm only 15 and when I was your age mine was 3" and now it's almost 7" It'll grow typically around your growth spurts. Your legs, arms, chest and dick will keep growing till anywhere from 16-20 depending on your genetics.
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i'm 13 and my dick is a bit bigger than 3 inches (errected). is that normal ? i rly get wondering about this
it is below average for a 13 year old but you might have a growth spurt in the next few years, everyone is different.
Hey I just turned 14 and I have a 5 1/2-6in penis. Ive told all my friends I have a long dick. Is that true? Oh and any tips on jackin with ur hand
it is about average size for your age
hey im 13 and just wonderin what i could use around the house for better pleasure because my hand is just gettin boring. plz answer :)
Hey I was just wondering if my penis is small? It is roughly 4in and I am 17. I just keep thinking about it and well it is starting to bug me now...
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