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Missionary Sex Position
The Missionary position is probably the most common first position people try, which is probably related to its simplicity and the high level of intimacy experienced. To get into the position, the receiver simply lies down on their back while their partner lies face-down on top of them. Although aiming can be a little difficult at first for the giver, it doesn't take long to master this arrangement.
If you think you're ready, go for it next time you see him.. This position not only provides closeness, but it's an easy way for the girl to get used to having this huge thing shoved into her.
It seems like every virgin is freaking out about their first time, am I the only one who is excited and prepared to have sex with their bf for the first time?
is this the ideal position 4 a virgin?
YES YES YES it is.. This position requires no flexibility, or movement for the girl, so if it's your first time, all you have to do is lay back, take it, and get used to it.. Do it for your first few times and you'll be ready to move on to something else.
this was always my favorite position with my exx.
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i miss him a lot.
Always my favourite, it's so easy and comfortable. Plus I like to be 'taken', and not being in control. My b/f is very strong and physically much bigger than me, yet I love the feeling of being under him.
Let your man know how much weight to give you. Too little is as bad as too much. Pull your knees up too, men love that.
The weight thing is important. I like to lift up and keep my weight off her for awhile. But when she is really feeling it, she wants me laying on her with all my weight while thrusting in and out. I love to reach around and put my hands on her a$$ which puts all my weight on her. We usually both lose it quickly when all this happens.
most virgans lose it when they get in that postion and 90% of them are happy about that to i lost mine in this and so did my gf
my bf and i lost our virginitys in this position. i love it. its one of our faves
ok so i got some tips but i need more...if yall could help...since i am a virgin i need as much info as i can whether u private message or on here..i will take tips from guys and girls...
So I'm a guy, just started Freshman, and I don't exactly plan on having sex any time too soon, but how much foreplay should be given on a first time. I mean, I want to be able to leave a good impression.
My wife just happens to be my first (and the same for her), we just got married a month ago, and for a while intercourse was painful for her, I have been making her cum with my mouth and hands for some time now, but it turns out my cock is larger than I thought, I have to buy trojan magnums, no joke!
(for those who may think she was faking, she was not, we have always been honest, and you know she is cumming when her body is shaking, uncontrollably)
I finally made my wife cum in this position, you have to go deep, and grind, which will make contact with the clitoris, and you will know she is coming, because you can feel her squeeze you, its awesome.
She can finally enjoy it, which is a relief, this is the best position for beginners, that is for certain.
Missionary, its easy on her, and good for the both of us, Highly Recommended!!
-chlordane
Me and ma bf have bn trying sex 4 a yr now but seem 2 keep having the same problem, ma bf cant seem 2 keep it up, hes fine at first but then wen we start trying he goes down, anybody else had this problem b4, let me know pls x
Me and my bf did this our first time :D
Hey i am 19 and still a virgin i was goin for the abstinence thing but i cant help it i need sex...but i dont know how to start like i am nervous. what positions should i try first. and should i tell the guy if i am a virgin so he can take more control?? i need all the advice i can get.
Definitely tell him that you're a virgin. No matter what that's important. I lost mine a week ago with my boyfriend and he's had a couple of partners before me and he took care of me because he knew it was my first time so you really should tell him.
Let him know, that you need lots of foreplay and a little extra lubrication, will help, because dryness = equals pain, and you gotta think too, you vagina is unused, which means it will need to stretch, so it may be a little painful, the lubrication will help a great deal.
-chlordane
this is a good one to start out with. tell him your a virgin, and that way you can guide him in slowly, so it wont hurt your first time. my boyfriend and I started with this one, it was our first times too. definitely start with this one.
me and my girlfriend love this move its easy to do and i personaly like to be able to do something so its good for a long time however you might get tired easily we did it for our first time aswell and its just a good introduction but is also good for use for the rest of your sex life might get bored of it eventualy tho
my GF says more intermate and i can sit back and enjoy
with love!
this iz 1 of our favorits!
Many of you are wondering if this is a good position to start in. Its one of the simplest and easiest to do, and doesnt skimp on the pleasure while keeping close to your lover. But yes, its would be a bit more difficult for a first time man because the position gets to become uncomfortable after a while. If this happens, you may want to try something new; dont feel limited to one position.
ok,so i'm a virgin and 16, and my boyfriend is a virgin and 20... I love him to death and I want to lose it to him, and he wants to lose it to me but I get really nervous, uncomfortable, and akward... what can I do to calm myself down and stop stressing so much?
just do it and get it over with
When you are ready to do it you will know. It will just feel right. Have a nice bath and a glass of wine first. Then take him to bed and enjoy yourself.
Good luck.
i lost my virginity like this and it was great. he had so much control and i loved seeing his face while having sex. i made him do all the work but i helped by moving alil as well
for a guy does this not get reli tireing, coz im a virgin n i was wonderin, also i heard that this is a good possition to stimulate the clit as the pressure from the blokes body
I'm still a virgin and i don't know what to try first. Is this the best one?
This is what I did the first time I had sex with my boyfriend. Esp. if he's not a virgin so it allows him to help you along the whole time.
this was my first position and i liked it!
me nd my bf have been goin out for 3 months nd he wants to have sex.....i am a virgin nd i am reali scared ... is this the best one to try first ... if not wht shud i do?? pleaz help!!
thanks, susy x
this is definately the easiest position for girls, u just lay there! and no it doesnt hurt ur hips, ur legs naturally fall down that way.
and "think of England"....
I'ma virgin and I don't know how? is this position is the basic?
if I open up my legs, would guys think I've had sex before? How would guys know if a gal is virgin or not?
dont worry, i was a virgin too.
yes this one i would consider basic. its the easiest to "fall into"
guys wont know unless you tell them
i lost mine to a virgin b/c he & i dated 7 months before we had sex.
The only way a guy can tell you're a virgin is after sex- as your hymen breaks and you can bleed slightly. The bleeding can last from a few hours to a few days on average. I would recommend one of the positions with your legs up for a first time- i used the normal missionary, and it hurt a lot. the other positions have more room to manouvre in. Just tell your man to go slowly, if he loves you, he'll understand.
And there isn't even bleeding every time, because a lot of girls break their hymens using tampons...So it depends.
I was always wondering why I didnt bleed my first time.. I guess thats cause I have been using tampons since I was 14! Interesting! Solved my confusion lol
Ayee.. no bleeding, you never have to worry about that really.
Great position, the best one to get off if you're a dude.
is it really that simple? i'm too nervous. bf keeps wanting to, but i dunno how to. is it really just girls hip going up kinda thing?
be sure to guide him in properly if it's ur first time... otherwise you'll end up hurting urself..
Get him a fleshlight for his birthday, that way you get to not lose it to a complete a**hole!
It is really that simple to have sex this way. If it is your first time it is the only way to go as you don't have to worry about balance you can just lie there and get the feel of how it's all supposed to work. Whenever I use this position I like to flex my pelvic muscles (also known as kegel exercises). I find it's best to do it off and on and it gives them quite a surprise to feel the squeeze especially if they don't know it's coming and it feels good for me as well..it does take some practice though.
No, it's not the easiest way to do it. It's actually quite difficult the first time, and seeing as it's THE FIRST TIME, this position is the basic. No "let's get elaborate."
So not the best position for us women. Way more pleasure with the woman on top, both people sitting up. Just hits all the "spots"... Missionary's good for the first time, when it's all new. But then... :)
it was mine and my boyfriends first time and this was the best position to have sex.
it felt soo good for both of us, thank you.
xx
this is the best way to have sex. me and my hubby do it this way a lot and it feels good for the both of us. I like it when his hand goes a long with it or he fingers me at the same time.
This is how my hubby took my virginity when we just got married. A frustrating point for a woman is that the male just wants this desperately without considering orgasm for the female. However over a period of time, once timing have been achieved, orgasm for both partners is intensive. I have also found that there is reluctance on males to withdraw or perform coitus interruptus especially if they young and thus this is the easiest position to impregnate a woman. Also this position doesn't require much skills and can vitually be performed anywhere, anytime as long as the surface is suitable for the act. Overall a very easy position and most enjoyable to me. It's the original. LOL
Lizz
Does it hurt to have your legs that wide?
it depends really...it helps the more flexible you are, but if not then its not too much bother. its easier if your legs can go wider because his hips could hurt a little against your thighs
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