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Ben Dover Sex Position

The Ben Dover position is essentially Standing Doggy-Style but with the receiver bending over at the waist. In a venue where lying down is undesirable, this is a great position to practice. It is advised that the receiver place their hands on the floor, or grabs their ankles, to balance themselves; this will allow for a more enjoyable experience, faster thrusting, and less likely-hood of falling over. Bending over pushes the pelvis back against the giver allowing easier and deeper penetration, but is otherwise less intimate than the regular Standing version.

For variation the receiver should try spreading their legs apart or bringing them together. However, the farther you spread your legs the deeper the giver is going to have to squat to gain access; say hello to burning quads. To overcome height differences, the giver should try squatting, or the receiver should be given something to stand on.

My first time having standing

My first time having standing sex with my wife was this position. It was so freaking hot, I'll never forget that weekend. We have since got older and now have transferred to the standing doggie version of this. It is much easier on the legs and back. This position is hot to men because of the visual of seeing your back, hips, and ass. Women love it because of how deep we get. Sometimes I have to hold back a little because I can make her hurt...something to think of if you are a little bigger down there. Guys need to remember to grab her hips to hold on to keep her balanced so she doesnt fall forward.

good for those who like a pounding

Its always fun for me its usually rite before I finish but I Ben em over and pound that pussy till she fall over on the bed or couch shaking then I bliw,all over her awesome


my fwb n i did this the other day. he got really into n started pounding me so hard that i almost lost my balance. fun though cuz i was cumming like mad.

I use to love this position..

I use to love this position...until I queefed really loudly. Not so much a turn-on anymore so my bf and I stick to doggy-style positions...much less chance of it happening again. Sooooooo embarrassing!!

great for the shower

i have one guy that i fuck and he loves fucking in the shower so we use this position and i love it. he cums like crazy when we do it. and its great for me too cause i love it deep

Cautionary tale

My ex-g/f and I were fucking like this on a dirty weekend at a spa in Slovenija, on the hotel balcony during an enormous Summer thunderstorm. Just as we were both cumming she stood up suddenly...and bashed the back of her head on the balcony railing. She almost knocked herself out cold. I was wondering how I was going to explain to the hotel doc. (in Slovenian) why I had a naked, semi-conscious woman covered in blood, spunk and pussy-juice in my room and moaning in pain... Fortunately there was enough ice in the mini-bar to control bleeding and swelling, though hair-combing was tricky for a while. No permanent harm though and she was able to get back to the "Usual" ( gently the next day!
PS: Ex-g/f is now wife so she forgave me though we check carefully for hazards before al fresco sex...


My husband wants to try anal but I can not relax long enough to try it. When he put the head of his penis in I tense up.We have tried num lub,toys,just his fingers but nothing works. Can i get some advice.

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Have you tried using an anal

Have you tried using an anal masturbator? I can take him, but I don't care how much reassurance he gives me... I just cannot get over the messiness of anal. So, we compromised and now I get in positions to take him anally, but use a well-lubed masturbator that feels JUST LIKE my tight ass. When one cannot or will not, this is a good alternative. Warmed lube makes it really good. Then, we can switch back and forth between that and my pussy and we don't have to worry about being -ahem- unhygenic, it hurting me, and we both can relax and enjoy everything.

Anal Sex

Anal sex isn't so bad you know once you've tried it, I was scared at first to do anal with my husband at first, but once I tried it, I couldn't get enough of it, just use some oil around your anal sopt & rub some on his penis & it wouldn't be that hard to go in, trust me, try it, you'll want it again. Let me know how it turns out ok.

fffaaarrrkkk i loved this!

fffaaarrrkkk i loved this! its so tight! had a little accident one time we did it....when i was done and pulled out i had a choctop!

In the shower

We are an older married couple. I am lucky in that my wife has always been plenty flexible enough for this position (even at almost age 60). It is our default position to use in the shower. I get lathered up and all slippery and enter her. The best is when she reaches up between her legs and massages my anus with a soapy finger. Of course, I return the favor.

My hubbys favorite

My husband absolute loves this one, and he makes me feel so good! He his my spot all the time!! And he goes in so deep!!! I was moaning and screaming his name the whole time!! It felt good to have him grab my his and pull me closer as he thrust himself in harder and harder every time!

me and my boyfriend did this

me and my boyfriend did this but i was lay on the bed,
im 15 and hes 16, he started going faster on me and i kept screaming, his older brother came in and i gave him a blow job, my legs went weak in the end then my boyfriend and his brother swapped over and his brother kept spanked me and me and his brother carried on for two hours and my boyfriend dumped me buu im with his brother now (:
Im doing this again tonight!

thats nasty if my brother

thats nasty if my brother got head from my gf id beat the shit out of both of them u deserve to be single skank

that sounds like a really

that sounds like a really good time! ive never been with brothers before.


Let me get this str8? You had sex with your bf AND his brother? What kind of sick foolish nonsense is that? UNBELIEVABLE.

soooo... its bad that i did

soooo... its bad that i did it with my boyfriend AND MY brother?

StayWet Shawdii
hopld on

do yhu mean your bf and his brother or your bf and your brother.., that would be so nasty!!

Did this position for an

Did this position for an hour with my bf. He put himself up my ass and start to go to work on me. He fucked me harder and harder with every thrust. When I thought he couldn't go any harder he did. My ass turned bright red. He also spanked me repeatedly like the whore I am. I couldn't stop moaning and eventually it turned to uncontrollable screaming. This felt so incredible.

reminds me of my first anal

reminds me of my first anal experience

choc top?..... so great

choc top?..... so great

StayWet Shawdii
1 question

wat is choc-top?? help meh out!!??

It's when you're having anal

It's when you're having anal sex and you're BF pulls his dick out and it's covered in shit. Kinda gross.

This would be perfect if my

This would be perfect if my guy wasn't shorter than me...

I'm 5'2" and my BF is 6' and

I'm 5'2" and my BF is 6' and we have no problem with this position at all. I think it also just depends on how long your legs are. Get your BF to spread his feet apart to lower himself down and it works great. This feels awesome as vaginal sex, which is the only way I've ever done this position.