Male Masturbation Guide
It is a well-known fact that men enjoy masturbation and virtually all men do it with some regularity. There is no maximum or minimum frequency at which you should masturbate. Masturbation is both physically and mentally rewarding and fulfilling. There are no negative side effects, especially the often-joked about 'making you go blind' or 'growing of palm-hair'!
There are many different ways to reach a quality orgasm through masturbation and there is no 'right' way. Try different sensations and see how you like them. Some people enjoy the feel of a full grip, some enjoy using both hands, while others only like to use their thumb and a couple of fingers. Regardless of your preference, lubricants and sex toys like Vibrators & specific Sex Toys for Men (such as the well-known 'Fleshlight') are just a few things to experiment with to find out what you like best.
For the truly athletic amongst us, consider the possibilities of Autofellatio ... the art of orally servicing oneself!
In regards to circumcised versus uncircumcised ... the covered (protected) head of the uncircumcised penis is likely to be generally more sensitive to stimulation. However, both types of penis are capable of receiving great pleasure 'in the right hands'!
Basic Stroke
Place one or both hands around your erect penis and stroke up and down along the shaft. If you require, use some water-based lubricant to increase pleasure. Some men enjoy encircling the head of the penis with each stroke.
Slapping and Beating
This technique involves a steady slapping of the penis back and forth between two hands, against the stomach, or against some other object.
Sources of Stimulation
When using one hand to masturbate, or with a partner, there is the opportunity to receive other forms of sexual stimulation at the same time. Many men find it pleasurable to fondle their scrotum, gently rub the perineum (area between scrotum and anus), and have their nipples rubbed.
The anus is a very sensitive location and many men enjoy practicing Anal Masturbation. Applying pressure to the anal opening, or gently inserting an object inside, can be quite arousing. Many Anal Dildos, better known as butt plugs, are designed to target the Prostate Gland, which is another source of great pleasure that can only be reached through the rectum.
A variety of vibrators provide penile or anal stimulation. Vibrating bullets, vibrating sleeves, or spot vibrators can all provide intense stimulation to your Erogenous Zones.
Penis pumps have long been popular with men as masturbation devices. A generic penis pump consists of a long cylinder that fits over the penis and is attached via a tube to a pump. The pump creates a vacuum around the penis; in doing so it pulls blood into the area and temporarily enlarges the penis, a feeling many men find pleasurable. You should be sure to follow the recommendations for proper use and avoid using it at high pressure for longer than fifteen minutes. Be sure to use ample amounts of water-based lubricant inside the cylinder, as well as around the base of the penis. By doing so you will ensure a tight seal and thus better suction. Attachments for the nipples are available with some pumps.
For more masturbation ideas to round out your repertoire, please refer to our guide on Hand-job Techniques.
Hi, I recently turned 15 and I'm a little self-conscious about my body. I'm only 5'2" rather short for my age, but I'm beginning to hit a bit of a growth spurt. My penis is 6 1/4 inches long when erect and on average 2 1/2 inches long when its flaccid. Do I have any need to be self-conscious or is this a size to be proud of seeing as I'm just starting to grow?
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hi im 16 and im straight and i just want to know if its normal to get horny whenever ur reading about other guys masturbating cause it happens to me. Am i turning bi or gay? i mean if im turning bi thats fine lol
you are not alone i also get aroused just by seein another guys penis idk what it is but its stimulating to me
No, getting aroused over guys doesn't mean your turning gay but if women masturbation makes you horny still you might be bisexual but I'm bisexual and girls turn me on the same as guys so you may just be bi
But being bisexual is the best as you get the best of both worlds ")
if only everyone thought as you did this world would be great lol
Thanks ;P
i dont really masturbate that often but when i do i never last long so does anyone know how i can last longer?
So I'm a girl and it really turns me on when guys masturbate. I get turned on just reading this site. I'd like to hear about guys fantasizing and how you masturbate;) private message me if you want ;) ;)
That stuff turns u on
Hey, if u interessted I could help u with fantasies! :)
i have to agree with you on the being turned on when guys masturbate.. my man and i do it together and it gets me off more than sex sometimes
Well i am new to thisi dont even know where my Mess will be send too lol...
hope we can chat soon ..Sexdancer I did Masturbate 1 time when i was just driving thats was funny but really hot i remember that day crazy,,when i finished it was everything on the seats the weel jajaja was a happy monent for me but the adrenalin was better ..
I could talk all night about masturbating n talking haha, only if you had the time.
Hey somedays in school I see a girl doing some sexy stuff and i get horny. I was wondering if there was any way I could stop myself from getting erect.
Also what are some house hold items i could use as lube?
So I live with my boyfriend and we do alot of experamenting, we try a ton of positions and what not, and he loooves to eat me out, and i LOVE to suck his dick and give him hand jobs, he tells me that I do a great job, but I want to do even better. Give me tips, guys :)
So I moved away to study 2 years ago. Since then I have been masturbating more. But I have been doing it to gay porn :/ I dont find girl and guy hot any more. The other week I was the the gf and in foreplay my dick would not stay hard, would the feel of going inside her pussy keep my dick hard or have I become gay ?
I am 19 and in college away from my girlfriend and I masturbate at least once a day. is this too much? I have trouble coming when using a condom, is it because I masturbate too much?
Hi im 15 years old and when i masturbate i last no longer then 30 seconds, how can i increase my endurance! thankss
a way to help you is when you are about to reach your peak in an orgasm, try to hold back. also it feels so good when you stimulate ur self that you may not wanna stop but you need to try to not go towards your "head" as much and focus on the "shaft" more. usually when you wanna quickly "rub one off" you can stimulate ur self more. when u have sex for the first time it will be quick too but eventually your nerve ending will get used to the stimulation and u will be able to go longer. alot of it has to do with self control and sexual stamina.
I am 13 and my penis is 2 inches normal and 4 inches erect? Is this normal? I Also masturbate a lot And I have a lot of tiny bumps on the bottom of my penis and my testicles? Is that normal? Are the bumps from masturbating? How can I have anal masturbation without fecies getting on my fingers and objects I put in there?
Im a psychoanalyst in the study of sexual behavior. the bumps is were ur hair is gonna come in. as for the feces, be sure to wipe well after each bowl movement and when u shower clean well. dont try fisting until ur sphincter can handle it for it may rip or tear and cause great discomfort. use small cylinder objects such as the His/Her pleasure lube if you have it.
I think it would be normal, I'm just 1-2 years older than you and as you get older it will get bigger. Those bumps I'm not sure but then they might be bumps from which hairs grow because i have those too but with hair. No, no bumps from masturbating just pleasure and lastly go to the bathroom before or use a disposable glove.
Hope this helps man.
Thanks man. Like what could I put in my ass?? My fingers are too small. I need something that you would find around the house.
Your welcome. Sorry for late respons however, you can always try to make a fist i guess, try that and see how it works out.
I'm 13 and my cock is 3 1/2 in. erect Is that fine???
yeah, it will grow as you get older. try not to worry about it
Im 19. my dick is about 5.8 inch erect. i have masturbated for a while, but im getting bored of the same techniques. has anyone got any new ones i could try? also when i do masturbated i cum within 2-5 mins. how can i last longer?
Well this is embarrassing but I'm 15 and I'm overweight and my dick measures about 4pm inches. I know thats not normal is there anything I can do to make myself bigger? If anyone could help me thatd be great. To me it's depressing. Not to mention I'm still a virgin so anyone pls help I would appreciate it
Dragonamp@yahoo.com
Your body is still going through the chemical changes towards adulthood. on average it will be between 5-7 inches. for me, im a grower not a show-er. flacid im 5in but erect im 9in. also has to do with great blood circulation and dieting.
I'm 90% sure that broccoli helps dick growth. Stay healthy and I think it will grow.
Well this is embarrassing but I'm 15 and I'm overweight and my dick measures about 4pm inches. I know thats not normal is there anything I can do to make myself bigger? If anyone could help me thatd be great. To me it's depressing. Not to mention I'm still a virgin so anyone pls help I would appreciate it
Dragonamp@yahoo.com
Read 'The Multi-Orgasmic Man' by Mantak Chia. There are also several websites you can Google on extended "tantric", or "dry" multiple male orgasm and excercises. I am a Zen Master of this!
ok im 14 and i masturbate, i normally get a heavy load.... is it normal even when your staight.... 100% straight..... to still think of your best guy friends???? And if its wrong to masturbate with, no contact with him, 10 year old brother?
Ya both of them are fine. The second one is fine if your little brother is fine with it
hi im 13 years old and my penis is 4 inches when non-erect and 8 inches when erect would you rate this small, average, above-average or big and whether this is above natural size. when i masturbate i can usually control when i cum (i can last up to 30 mins if i wanted to) can anybody tell me if this is a good or abad thing and if it will lead up to a good sex life i can also control when i get erections most of the time. please pm or email me at wilbyalex2@gmail.com
[i also watch porn fairly often]
I would have to say above average but everybody is different!
is it weird that i'm almost eighteen, in a sexual relationship, and never masturbated?
nope. some guys never have the "urge" to.
I'm 13 years old and my dick is like 6.5 - 7 inches. Is this okay?
Uh huh sure it is...i think someone doesnt know how to read a ruler.
flacid or erect?
hey, i'm 15 years old. i masturbate every time i fit chance. i love anal penetration.
ive done it for about 3 months now, ive only penetrated 4 times. and nothing more than a finger.
any tips on other things/ideas? share them with me (:
get your finger real wet and then just slide it in and rub in circles :)
ok im 19 my penis is 9 inches and i masturbate a lot. for "mixing it up" i sometimes do it in my parents bed or my brothers bed. ill sometmes finger my ass and that feels amazing. sometimes i eat my cum or cum in a sock. occasionaly ill get some guy friends together and well jerk each other off. once i even masturbated on my front porch hope this helps someone let me know if it does!
That sounds so hot. Idk if this is weird since I'm a girl but it's totally a turn on for me when guys jerk off together and mess around and stuff
Alternatively, the penis can be chortled. This is holding the penis with two fingers, forming a ring, and then applying pressure on different regions of the penis. In addition, there are several different holds that each man can devise for himself.
ok i have 2 question first i just turned 15 and my dick is 9.5 to 10 inches is that normal... and it takes me like 45 min to an hour to cum is that normal
Firtly, dude, you must be fucking bullshitting. At any age 8 inches plus is a big dick. 9.5 to 10 can scare some women, especially virgins.
If it takes you 45 mins to an hour to cum while masturbation, youll laster longer in sex. In masturbation i last 2 - 10 mins+ (10 if i can be bothered trying). But while having sex it ranges from 20 - 2 hours. So unless your a hopless lover you should have some great sex ahead of you.
Hi I'm 14 and going to be 15 in a few months but my penis is 4" flaccid and 5.5" erect. Am i average or normal?
yeah thats norm
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