Female Ejaculation
An even greater mystery to most people than Female Orgasm is female ejaculation. Although we may have heard stories about friends who can ejaculate, or who have been with women who can ejaculate, many of us have never actually experienced it first hand. When asked to describe the ejaculations, responses are often quite similar, "It's liquid, it's clear, it's wet, and it squirts". Beyond this, the details have always been quite sketchy.
Let's begin by understanding what the elements of the ejaculate are. The four main ingredients are Glucose, prostatic acid phosphatase (an enzyme which is characteristic of the prostatic component of semen), urea and creatinine. The last two ingredients are commonly found in urine, but are in lower levels than in urine. So there is some urine in the ejaculate. Some studies conclude that in some women the ejaculate is more like urine, and in other women it more like a prostate fluid. Until this question is answered fully, its safest to assume that it is a bit of both. The quantity of ejaculate can range from a few drops, to a shower of it.
Where does the ejaculate come from? There are several theories on this, but remaining constant amongst all of them is that female ejaculation comes from G-spot Stimulation. When the G-spot is stimulated over a period of time, the spongy tissue that creates this area fills with fluid. Women who can ejaculate often hold back, thinking that it is urine. The exact source of the ejaculate is still debated by researchers, but it does appear to come out of the urethra (like urine) and/or nearby Skene's Gland, so that is where the confusion takes place.
So what's left? You might want to learn how to get someone to ejaculate, or how to do it yourself. Like exploring everything else new in your experience of sex, you should work towards it, but not put unnecessary stresses on yourself by making it your goal. Also, it is not known whether all women are able to ejaculate, so if you or your partner is unable to - don't worry, but perhaps keep trying once in a while. As you already know, the ejaculate comes from the urethra or Skene's Gland, so it feels a lot like urine.
Apart from those who love 'golden showers' (the fetish of urinating on, or being urinated on), many people do not feel comfortable enough to risk urinating on or around their partner. It may be a good idea to allow yourself or your partner some privacy to understand this function of their body; at the very least let your partner now that you are excited about it, not grossed out. That being said, great places to try this out include the shower or bathtub, in or near water, or on top of some old blankets that you don't mind getting wet.
If you have any comments about this article, or would like to share your personal experiences, please post below!
I've pushed so hard that I've actually pushed my husband's cock out of me.
Hi I was just wondering what's the difference between getting wet and squirting? Does it have to be literally squirting when it happens? I've realized that i produce some clear liquid when my bf goes down on me but I used to think that was just me getting really wet.
It might be you just getting wet..normally you can tell when you cum..for me I get the feeling that im gonna pee..if you finger yourself and hit your gspot you'll probably know what I mean..just try it!
Seeing a new guy for the last two months and have made fun in the bedroom. The other night we had a few beers and we both always use the bathroom before hand. We were having quite the foreplay and then I got on top of him cowboy style and leaned back and warm fluid came out of me. I was like, "what was that"? and he thought I pee'd, and I said no I didn't pee. I don't think I pee'd. He told me to go to the bathroom and joked, oh you already did. I did go to the bathroom and pee'd a lot had a full bladder. The color was clear and no smell.
So I want to know really what it was? I don't think I pee'd but it didn't appear to be cum. But I from time to time have had an issue with sneezing and leaking urine when that happens so now I am weirded out.
Any thoughts?
To me it sounds like you squirted. I've been doing it for many years so I know exactly how you feel. The first time for me was also a little weird. I thought it was pee too, but when it started happening more and more I realized it wasnt. Its always involuntary, unlike urinating(unless you've reached the point where you can't hold it anymore). And unlike pee which is a steady stream, when I squirt it's always a sudden rush that lasts like 2 seconds. It all just comes out at once like someone opended up a flood gate. So yeah, you're definitely squirting sooo....CONGRATS! Not too many of us exist ;)
I have a new boyfriend and we have been having sex now for about 2 months. I have had many partners in the past so this was really crazy to me. One day about 3 weeks ago, we were mid session and we switched up with me on top. I had see squirting before on porn but never thought that it would ever happen to me. Well, the only thing I can think is that his penis was rubbing me the right way because I starting getting so wet and secreting a thin fluid that didn't smell of anything. So much that it ran down my thighs and was spraying all over us every time I bounced up and down on him. I knew it couldn't be urine, I pee every time before we have sex and after. Unfortunately, no real orgasm. But my boyfriend LOVED it and now every time we have sex he immediately puts a towel down and picks me up and puts me on top of him. LOL
I was with my boyfriend one time and we were feeling kinda horny and we didn't want to risk sex, but we ended up masturbating together. He fingered me too, it felt great~ x3
I think what made me squirt for the very first time was that since he has three vibrating tongue piercings and he was licking my clit made me squirt. I thought I pee-ed on his face and it was really embarrassing for me D: He didn't seem to mind at all. But after a week or two we decided to do 69 (Yes we're taking steps till the actual thing ^//^;)he couldn't get me to squirt that time, his piercings were even vibrating Dx
Do you think we should stick to just him licking me or find something new? D: Neither of us don't get why I can't squirt again...
you have to keep practicing to do it again. you guys found the spot to make you squirt but the only way to reproduce the experience is to keep at it until you find it and control it. it's a trial and error process which i am sure you will not mind doing. have fun and enjoy your orgasms in the process!
is that whats its called then? lol i always thought i was just having a regular orgasm when i do this. i cant get my bf to make me do it, but when i masterbate i can. :P
I am a virgin and i am 15 and i finger my self when i feel a bit horny and i dont know if i am having an orgasm or just an ejaculation i do have like a white thing come out and my stomach feels a bit funny. Is there anybody that cam help me find out if i am having an orgasm or just an ejaculation please??:)
Ejaculation is having an orgasm don't confuse them. But, having an orgasm is not ejaculating there is a difference.
You can only ejaculate when you have an orgasm and you can have an orgasm without ejaculating
-Shannon
my fiancé always tries to get me too, but I get so nervous because I'm afraid I'm going to pee myself. Anyone pm me with ways that I can learn to do it myself to get more comfortable with the idea. Thanks
Practice it on your own like in the shower and if you pee then you pee but practice makes perfect keep trying don't give up.
Need any Help?
-Shannon
So, ive squirted before but it was with a female, and i told my boyfriend and he said it waz "hott" and he wants to make me squirt but every time we have sex he trys and he just doesnt get it. I feel as if im about to pee but it just wont come out. Hes really self concious about sex and he thinks hes not good.. what can he do to get me to squirt? Aslo i think i might be scared because of the feeling of peeing. what can i do to just let it come out? please help me.. any advice is helpfull! please and thank you.
well theres your problem. if you are tired, scared or tense at all you wont squirt. you have to be completly relaxed in order to squirt and if your scared and he doesnt think he is any good, then it wont happen. what you need to do is when you can tell he is beginning to shut down bec its not working keep supporting him and urging him forward and you just relax and allow your body to build up and then squirt. hope this helps
he fingers me right now and i feel all the fuild building up inside me i think i did once but ever since then i can't im kind of scared and i just wish i could but i think im thinking about it to much. is there a mood i should set or something my boyfriend can do to make me less scared. he says he wants to give me the feeling every women should feel.
just relax and trust your bf. once you relax then ewverything will be fine. enjoy the feeling. there is nothing in the world then for a girl to experience multiple orgasms but you have to relax to do so.
hi im 18 ive been with my girlfriend for 3 years and weve done it 100's of times well ive always seen girls squirting on porn or what ever but i want my girlfriend to squirt all over my dick and all over my face i think it would be hot but how would i teach her to squirt or at least help her learn? any help would be amazing pm me plz
every time my boyfriend fingers me, i keep feeling like i need to pee. at first it really scared me, because if i peed on him, it would be utterly mortifying. now i what it is. the thing is, i've never had an orgasm, is it a one or the other deal?
My girlfriend just recently taught herself to squirt after I showed her where her G-spot was. Such as big turn on to see someone being able to get themselves off like this.
Well just to update the actual information here we know exactly what the female g-spot is. This was proven by Doctor Haffman who work with Dr. Kegal.
The g-spot is the equivelant of the male prostate glad period.. no theory no mystry FACT.
The logic to this is easy.. woman have breats, well so do men, we just don't get them until later... A little humour there. The head of a clitoris is the undeveloped head of a penis, we could go on with lips extra but you get the picture. A woman has as much erectile tissue as a man just distributed differently. The testical started in the up position just like the overies but then dropped down. A man has a prostate glad, so what do a woman have?? Well she has one too and we refer to it as her g-spot. The knowledge is actually 6,000 years old, yes you got it 6,000 year ago. It comes from tantric India knowledge, the oldist civialed people in the world. it came out long before kumasutra.
If you want great sex life learn trantric sex.
There is also a spot in a owman that is more than twice the intensity of a g-spot or clitoral orgasm.
Some refer to as the uterine orgasm. it is what casues the totally body orgasm in a woman. It is amazing. I discovery that knowledge while working with a woman with a t12 complete spinal injury. She wanted to know if she could ever experience an orgasm again.. Well I did so research and found it was indeed possible. There is a nerve call teh vegas nerve, itis the largest nerve in your body and it does not travel throught the spine. It start at the brain and wraps around every glad and organ in your body right down to the cervix. So if you know how to stimulated it....OH Baby it will be the most amazing orgasm your partner will ever expereince.. well not quite. You see the clitoris is attached to a different nerve, the g-spot a different nerve again and now you have the vegas nerve so if you can master stimulating them all so that your partner could voer over the edge with all of the 3... then oh baby. Again this knowledge comes from Tantric sex.. Amazing!!
well where do we find the info on how to do it?
Me and my boyfriend wer fooling about n we started to have sex but then he was starting to finger me, the more he was doing it the more I was squirting it felt good but then when we wer finished the bed was like a swimming pool what could I put down so it doesn't soak the bed? I'm sick of using plenty of towels to try and dry it up. Now that he knows that I can do it and I no how to just let it go, he only needs to touch my g-spot and I'm squirting, is this normal?
Its normal this means your just sensitive and the only way for you to get used to it is to practice these techniques so u can last longer.
-Shannon
My husband and I want to make me squirt so bad. I can't wait till it happens. Any good suggestions ?
i think i do this when i masterbate.interesting
Today my girlfriend and I were in the bedroom, we started fooling around and i started fingering her. I was using a technique that is suggested for a G-spot orgasm, but this time to both of our surprise she squirted a little bit at first and i kept going and she did it again with greater volume... My question lies in the fact that even though she squirted she didn't show signs of orgasm. Is it possible for a female to squirt and not orgasm? I know that it wasn't pee because neither of us would do that but it confused me thats all. Any input? preferably female input...
Yes it's posable it happens to me when my boyfriend makes me squirt sometimes. You should try to get her really Horney and try it the more practise you get doing it on her the more shel feel relaxed and will orgasm swell Don't forget when she squirts she can feel it up to 30mins after. Goodluck.
I was masturbating a bit the other day and rubbing my g-spot when i felt like it had to pee. I kept rubbing and a few drops of clearish liquid came out. The more i pressed and rubbed, the more came out. It smelled slightly of urine but wasnt that yellow.. was i cum?
Yes I do that as well. Its female ejaculation, but sometimes mine differs. It smells of urine and is liquidy sometimes but other times it's clear and sticky.
there are plenty of places to learn how to make a woman squirt. porn star axel braun actually has perfected the art of female ejaculation. i would say visit his site for the best tips. http://www.axelbraun.net/
hope this helps
It isn't just G-spot stimulation that brings on ejaculations in females.
I myself am keeping myself 'bodily pure' so to say until I'm married, meaning that I am not doing any kind of insertion just yet. I want my husband to be the first to do that for me. However I do masterbate because
A. I have high hormones all the time (even on my period for some reason)
B. I want to know how I like being touched or kissed when we do get to that time and so far it's proven interesting.
Well at one point when I was like 14ish (I'm 18 now), I was pleasuring myself I felt something building up with the orgasm (Hormones were very high and I had a small 'helper' to help with the stimulation) and all of a sudden I started 'peeing' on my bed. I freaked out and thought that I just pissed my bed on the white sheets, but I noticed that it wasn't yellow like urine and didn't smell like it. It smelled a little like urine, but not enough to be called pee. So I washed the sheets and found out soon after that sometimes women can ejaculate as well.
So now sometimes because I don't want to ruin my bed again and my little helper is gone, I rub myself till orgasm, get up, go into the bathroom next door, and finish rubbing till I cum in the toilet. Problem solved, and double orgasm to boot.
So,that's what is called...I've been having female ejaculation all athis time...
So I ejacualate when I get an orgasm, it kinda feels like I'm peeing myself. But what happens is my body try to hold it in but then I explode. Is that normal???
Yes completely
Need help? Ask questions?
-Shannon
I definitely come alot and I can get really wet. I don't even feel it. i just feel like I want more or whatever he's doing to me. It's not like I'm squirting out/peeing but I just get really wet in between my legs and he says it's all me not him. And, I can def come without actually having an orgasm.
SO like if it feels like your about to pee then you arent or.. you are? This is so confusing.
I'm still unsure what my "cum" looks like. I'm a virgin and I'm seriously unsure about what it looks like or if I've ever ejaculated. I've pressed hard on my g-spot masturbating before and could feel something hit the back of my fingers, but there was also I time I felt extremely embarrassed from accidentally flashing people at school and there was a sticky, wet, goop-like substance sticking to my panties and stretching from my vagina when I went to the bathroom.
But there was a huge difference between the two times I thought I had ejaculated. One was just a little bit and white while the other was a lot and almost clear. How am I supposed to know what's what?
Karimah,
From my experiences with being with women who have ejaculated and not ejaculated(just plain had orgasms without ejaculating.The women who I have been with that has just only had orgasms(cum)without ejaculating,their cum was somewhat alittle milky like,like in if you had a glass of water and just put a drop of milk in it and The women who I have been with who have ejaculated(squirted)the fluid was clear and watery like and it was ALOT!that came out of them.
The wet sticky wet goop like substance that you mention that was stickingto your panties was your lubrant(wetness)that a girl or woman gets when they are sexual aroused.Some girls and women have less and some have more or lots more of it when they get that way.
Hope that helps you.
cum and ejaculation is 2 different things, cum si clear, ejactulation is white, just like male ejaculation is white, I've done a SERIOUS amount of research and experience!
The white substance is most likely discharge honey or con-gelled female lubricants. You'll know when you "cum" it's mind blowing! Just continue to explore yourself since it seems you don't know your body too well (congrats on finding your g-spot though, many women can't). Just find out what sends you over the top and work on it. I'd try some more clitoral stimulation and keep on your g-spot, never fails for me.
from my experiance lady jizz is clear (or at least looks clear) i remember reading something about the white stuff your talking about but i dont quite remember what it is.... something to do with the menstral cycle. i know this isnt much but it might help :)
Hmm it seems you know where your g- spot is if you want to know what cum looks like it varies. My gf just cummed the other night and it was liquid white and clear. Hope this helped
Isnt this the same as having a woman cum? (ejaculate)?
Well anyways, i gotta learn how to make my GF do it!
our last sex session lasted a goos 2hour and i held her in Doggystyle for a good 30 mins! making sure I hit that G-Spot to get her feeling real good!
But i think she's holding it back! I see her when she gets spasm's and seems like she wants to explode!! And then she runs outta the bed away from me :(
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Talk to her then! Definitely tell her you'd want her to (However I find myself hold back a lot since it can be pretty messy and I tighten a ton before I cum so my boyfriend loves when I'll hold it but loves it more when it squirts). However it could mean she has a bladder problem when aroused but that's usually after children so if she'd had kids that could be it. Sex builds your pressure up in your bladder if your wall is too weak. Kegels could help this.
tell her u want it..or just hold her until she can't take it anymore
The few orgasms I have, mainly because of discharge I think preoblems, I ejaculate and it it much more full filling as in sexual release compared to simply contracting. Though it tires me and leaves a pulsing on the good days I don't think I've never urinated though, but I do it quiet often ,if I get an orgasm at all, is that normal? And it only happens if I use my electric tooth brush on just the right spot on my clit.
O.O So...I totally had NO clue that we females could do this until my b/f told me about it. And I still didn't believe HIM, so I came to this site...which has taught me quite a lot in the week that I've been on here.
Just tried about an hour ago...and did it...kinda freaked out at first, but awesome. Had an orgasm a little later...but still...i'm pretty amazed...I mean...holy shit, who the hell knew?
Now I just gotta tell the boyfriend >.<
is there a cretin technique or something, coz i really want to do it with my girlfriend but dont know how, any tips?
well, you need to know where your g/fs g-spot is first. there are tons of positions you can try that would help. they are all around this site. just go to the side bar thing and to where it says Orgasm, it'll re-direct you to another page where there is a list of ejaculation types: Female, Male, Female Orgasm etc. etc. Click the Female Ejaculation link and it should help a little.
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