Pickup on the Dance Floor
So, starting up conversation with women is easy in the coffee shop, a quiet bar, or even the local supermarket. But how can you approach a girl in a noisy nightclub whilst she’s dancing with a group of friends?
You need to be able to set yourself apart from all of the other guys on the dance floor. Other guys will be making some of the following crucial mistakes on the dance floor, and to differentiate yourself from them you need to avoid making these errors. They are likely to be:
Standing motionless around the girls checking them out.
Making poor attempts to dance whilst not being into the music, just trying to get close to the girls.
Grinding on a girls ass.
A problem with this style of approach is that it's a total numbers game. Normally you'll only attract a certain type of girl responding to those approaches.
So, that's what not to do, but how can you actually make a more successful attempt to pick up girls who are dancing?
Here's a few tips you can use to pick-up on the dance-floor:
Firstly, just have fun dancing around, enjoy yourself and the music. Don’t try to jump straight into the woman’s space. If you are a man having a fun time on the dance-floor, you will instantly stand out from all the other men. The women will move away from the other weird, intrusive guys and instead begin to gather around you.
Then try to:
Begin to mirror the girl’s dance moves in a fun, exaggerated way allowing her to see what a fun guy you are. Make and hold eye contact with her which should get you a positive reaction and then you will be able to move in and dance with her.
Start a kind of "dance-off" with the woman gesturing to her to watch and mimic your moves. Try out a silly little move and then point at her expectantly. If you receive a positive reaction, move in and dance with her.
Look for the girls standing on the side of the dance floor, who are not quite dancing, ask them "do you like dancing?" If the answer is yes, say "do you salsa?" and as you say it take them and start salsaing with them. It only takes about 4 salsa lessons to be able to do basic steps, which are all you need.
The aim on when on the dance floor is to dance with the woman, begin to get physical, and then lead them to a quieted place where you are alone and are able to talk to each other.
Once you have perfected the dance-floor game, you'll be able to attract women non-verbally in a highly sexual atmosphere. It is a rare talent and you'll quickly benefit from the results, and the confidence will spread...
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