Male Masturbation Guide
It is a well-known fact that men enjoy masturbation and virtually all men do it with some regularity. There is no maximum or minimum frequency at which you should masturbate. Masturbation is both physically and mentally rewarding and fulfilling. There are no negative side effects, especially the often-joked about 'making you go blind' or 'growing of palm-hair'!
There are many different ways to reach a quality orgasm through masturbation and there is no 'right' way. Try different sensations and see how you like them. Some people enjoy the feel of a full grip, some enjoy using both hands, while others only like to use their thumb and a couple of fingers. Regardless of your preference, lubricants and sex toys like Vibrators & specific Sex Toys for Men (such as the well-known 'Fleshlight') are just a few things to experiment with to find out what you like best.
For the truly athletic amongst us, consider the possibilities of Autofellatio ... the art of orally servicing oneself!
In regards to circumcised versus uncircumcised ... the covered (protected) head of the uncircumcised penis is likely to be generally more sensitive to stimulation. However, both types of penis are capable of receiving great pleasure 'in the right hands'!
Basic Stroke
Place one or both hands around your erect penis and stroke up and down along the shaft. If you require, use some water-based lubricant to increase pleasure. Some men enjoy encircling the head of the penis with each stroke.
Slapping and Beating
This technique involves a steady slapping of the penis back and forth between two hands, against the stomach, or against some other object.
Sources of Stimulation
When using one hand to masturbate, or with a partner, there is the opportunity to receive other forms of sexual stimulation at the same time. Many men find it pleasurable to fondle their scrotum, gently rub the perineum (area between scrotum and anus), and have their nipples rubbed.
The anus is a very sensitive location and many men enjoy practicing Anal Masturbation. Applying pressure to the anal opening, or gently inserting an object inside, can be quite arousing. Many Anal Dildos, better known as butt plugs, are designed to target the Prostate Gland, which is another source of great pleasure that can only be reached through the rectum.
A variety of vibrators provide penile or anal stimulation. Vibrating bullets, vibrating sleeves, or spot vibrators can all provide intense stimulation to your Erogenous Zones.
Penis pumps have long been popular with men as masturbation devices. A generic penis pump consists of a long cylinder that fits over the penis and is attached via a tube to a pump. The pump creates a vacuum around the penis; in doing so it pulls blood into the area and temporarily enlarges the penis, a feeling many men find pleasurable. You should be sure to follow the recommendations for proper use and avoid using it at high pressure for longer than fifteen minutes. Be sure to use ample amounts of water-based lubricant inside the cylinder, as well as around the base of the penis. By doing so you will ensure a tight seal and thus better suction. Attachments for the nipples are available with some pumps.
For more masturbation ideas to round out your repertoire, please refer to our guide on Hand-job Techniques.
HI m 20 and a virgin I Masturbate a lot.. mostly with this lying on bed method but i think I cum very fast, may be within a minute and sometimes even when my dick is not hard.. what is the problem? frequent masturbation or the style?
well I don't know what to tell ya about the whole ejaculating when it's not hard... but if you wanna last longer in bed or when your just pleasing yourself, it helps to tighten up your bladder muscles (I'm talking the ones you use when you gotta whizz bad but you can't go cause someones in the bathroom) like for a few seconds a few times a day (not when ur pleasing yourself or having sex)... hold it for at least 10 seconds at a time if you can... it's something you can do any time of the day. it helps if you do half of the "exercises" standing and the other half sitting... eventually you'll start to notice you last longer.
I am 14 and I masturbate a lot. I have an 8 inch dick is this normal for someone my age?
8 inches at 14? Seems to be alota lil liars on this site.
I'm 20years old and i masturbate alot. Now i cum so fast when i'm having sex with my GF? I don't last long at all. Please is there anything i could do to get me back to my normal self and i can start lasting longer???
When you do have sex with your GF use 2 condoms at the same time, I know it might sound odd but when I was younger I had the same problem so I put 2 condoms on my dick when we had sex and it helpped me last alot longer, must admit I lernt this from American Pie (movie) lol
Hey I'm 14 and I masturbate slot but it's gets boring after a while any tips?
do it in risky places like ur parents room when noones around or eat ur cum stuff like that
watch some porn, take it slow, get aroused then just go foa it ;D if this helped private mail me ;D
And here it goes again. I masturbated today for about half an hr i had great ejaculation but my whole semen fell on my pubic hair, its messy to clean it. I have a jungle of hair in pubic area,. Its embarasing but can anyone suggest a pubic hairstyle or something like that?
Hey there, me and my GF never shave as we both hate to be bald "down under" (pardon the pun) but we both find it great to trim, as the say just lie cutting the lawn once a month
If you have a gf, ask her if she minds before you shave. Some women like it others think its weird, unnatural and gross. It depends really. My gf hates it
Cool-Jay: suggest you shave it off. Not necessary to have hair there and women like it as well. You will see lots of guys shave their pubes and found it to be cooler in summer. Or trim it down as well. The one giving you head will enjoy it to since there won't be hair in their mouths/teeth. After a few times shaving....you won't have any problems with itching and besides you and whoever will enjoy the smoothness and look. ENJOY
well i said the exact same thing when i frist started masterbating and than i tried shaving all of the pubic hair off and the itching really sucks for the first couple tims but after a while youll get used to it and the ladies love it more..hope i helped
You need to put skin lotion on after shaving. It stops the itching and pervents skin rash.
yeah youre gonna have to trim it down or shave it. personally i shave it all. its a sexy look when ya clean up the downstairs. i havent found a woman who doesnt like it so i would have to say go for it.
Thanks, i guess i'll trim them.
Shave it off. Plenty of designs on internet. I personally like the "runway" If your parents see and ask why just say the hair is getting in the way of your zipper
Thanks for suggestion, i'll go for trimming.
I am 20 yrs old, i've 6inch penis. I almost masturbate daily bt im not satisfied with now, may be because im no more virgin. Can anyone help me?
The longer you wait to have sex or masturbate the more powerful your orgasm will be. Use lubricants to make it feel better as well. You could simply just try to get laid, far better!
well nothing compares to sex but there are alternatives. fake vaginas and anal toys are something to consider. sex toys arent limited to women anymore. find one you like and give it a try.
I masturbate once a day at least, but I get tired of same old jacking off. How can I mix it up? I'm 14 also.
ok if you're 15 and you range from 5- inches you're fine, don't worry, any younger and you're develping well, around 15-16 the male penis actually gains length so just wait until those years pass and measure as you go, its not all about length, you should worry about girth and technique. im 5 3/4 in and im not worried i can satisfy my girl just fine, she cares more about the foreplay and how rough it is, more than the size.
if you're bigger than 6in you're fine, no need to worry at all just live your life, if you're 3 inches still at age 15 go check with the doc.
dont forget some people hit puberty stages quicker than others so just roll with the punches of worrying about it, its gonna develop fine. all im saying is dont worry if you're above 5 at 15 you're normal if you're above 7 you're an over achiever. lol
how do people masturbate in bed? i personally have been masturbating for a few years in the shower and bath though i have to hit myself after doing it in the bath because its soooo messy =P
How do i Make my girlfriend horny? im 15 and i need tips. i really want to have sex.
Im no casanova but kissing/biting the neck is a great way to turn a girl on. If your a good kisser that helps to, women love it. Biting the bottom lip lightly is a good one to. But make sure she's ready, they love mutual respect
well there are many ways to turn a woman on..blowing on her ear, nibbling on her ear, running your hands through her hair and giving it a slight pull (if shes into that)massages are really good
My penis is 5.8 inches so is it normal for a 12 year old???
yes it is
I am 15 and my penis is only like 5 1/2 inches is this normal?? Another question, about a year and a half ago me and my male friend were messin around, it started with just playing with each other with clothes on then we wanked each other, then like 5 months later when i saw him again we started to do the same thing but then he started sucking my head, then he made me do it back and shoved the whole thing down my throat( like 7 inches) am i gay????
is it wierd if i like to watch other people wank??
At 15 its normal to experiment. You may enjoy doing these things now and in 2 years have no desire to do it anymore. Have fun and experiment.
Well. It looks like you could be homosexual but you really could be bi. A lot of bi guys love girls and think there beautiful but love cock. Its weird some dont even find guys attractive but love the idea of sucking a cock or having one in there arse.
Ask yourself a couple of questions. Do i find girls attractive? Do i find guys attractive? If its both your a bi. Personally, i dont understand the wanking thing but, whatever floats your boat.
In the future when/if you form a long lasting relationship, you may have to choose a side. Unless you have an awesome partner
Dude, you are just 15, at this age you should do experimenting for your sexual pleasure. Your dick is normal size all you need is good erection. Mutual masturbation and anal sex with your friend is not bad, we all do this at this age. Its just curosity. Mutual masturbation gives lot more pleasure than self. Doing it occasionaly doesnt make you gay. Enjoy your sexual life.
Same here. Oh my god!!! It happened to me too. But, the guy made fuck him hard in the ass. He had so many fucking orgasms. I had no condom and when I blew my load all over his ass, he sucked me LONG AND HARD!!! After that, I masturbated to it for like 3 weeks. Am i gay??
^-^ to be honest ive done my share of experimenting. it doesnt make you gay. theres some pleasures that can really only be done by a particular sex. i dont consider myself bi nor am i gay. my sexual preference is still very much toward women. if you feel in your heart that you want to be with a man then do so. dont be afraid of who you are or what you like. as for the size your doin just fine. thats about where i was at the age of 15 but i was a late bloomer. dont be concerned about your size. as you get older youll fill out more. it takes time but youre doing just fine.
So at what age are you to old to experiment
Im 15 too and im about 5 3/4 and iv done similar things too guys but i was alot younger but today i wont do anything with guys but ill call them cute sometimes sorta bi ig
i just turned 14 a couple days ago and my penis is 5.5 inches long is this normal
yes sir
ok i had a bad experience this morning. heres a tip for all you boys masturbating with a lube you havnt tried yet. be carfull! i was doing it in the shower today and i got some soap in my penis and it hurts like hell!! so just be carfull with that kind of stuff.
I am 14 and I masturbate a lot. I have done it with my gf once and cumed in her face and mouth. My first question is, was that a bad idea? My second question is can I masturbate too much?
If your girlfriend like you cumming in her mouth or her face its ok, because my gf like it. Second do not masturbate too much it will reduce your drive n pleasure, you will fee the weakness.
On your first question, if you thought you were ready to do that and you don't regret doing it i think it's alright.. Your second question, you can't masturbate "to much". Unless masturbation is getting in the way with school, work, or your life; then you do have a masturbation addiction.
I'm 24 & I masterbate alot & i'm circumsized too but I find it hard to shoot my load sometimes, could there be any answer to why this is happening ?
ok if you beat with your left a lot and started out with the left go to the right, vice versa, i shoot a lot from just using my right, ive taken a study on it, using my self and im only 15 bro.
It depends how stimulated your are too. Depending on what stimulates you most:visually, vocally, feeling, smells, thought, anything. If your just jacking off without what stimulates you most, it could get harder to blow your load. So watch,listen to porn,think of the hot shit that turns you on the most, smell your gf's panties or something, and just let loose honey.
it sometimes depends on when the last time you cummed. if its in the same day it will be more of a drible. how long your masturbating at one time also effects the shoot or drible.
I'm 13. My dick is 6 1/4 inches long. Is this good? I masturbate daily btw. ;o
Haha that's pretty good for 13 hon'. If it doesn't get any bigger it'll still satisfy them girls great it should be able to fill them completely to their cervex (end of the vadge). Masturbating won't really affect your size too much if that's what your asking but is very healthy for you in other ways that'll affect your dick and hormones and such. Oh, you'll probably keep growing until your eh...20 something. Don't be worrying about your dick at 13 kid.
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