Male Masturbation Guide
It is a well-known fact that men enjoy masturbation and virtually all men do it with some regularity. There is no maximum or minimum frequency at which you should masturbate. Masturbation is both physically and mentally rewarding and fulfilling. There are no negative side effects, especially the often-joked about 'making you go blind' or 'growing of palm-hair'!
There are many different ways to reach a quality orgasm through masturbation and there is no 'right' way. Try different sensations and see how you like them. Some people enjoy the feel of a full grip, some enjoy using both hands, while others only like to use their thumb and a couple of fingers. Regardless of your preference, lubricants and sex toys like Vibrators & specific Sex Toys for Men (such as the well-known 'Fleshlight') are just a few things to experiment with to find out what you like best.
For the truly athletic amongst us, consider the possibilities of Autofellatio ... the art of orally servicing oneself!
In regards to circumcised versus uncircumcised ... the covered (protected) head of the uncircumcised penis is likely to be generally more sensitive to stimulation. However, both types of penis are capable of receiving great pleasure 'in the right hands'!
Basic Stroke
Place one or both hands around your erect penis and stroke up and down along the shaft. If you require, use some water-based lubricant to increase pleasure. Some men enjoy encircling the head of the penis with each stroke.
Slapping and Beating
This technique involves a steady slapping of the penis back and forth between two hands, against the stomach, or against some other object.
Sources of Stimulation
When using one hand to masturbate, or with a partner, there is the opportunity to receive other forms of sexual stimulation at the same time. Many men find it pleasurable to fondle their scrotum, gently rub the perineum (area between scrotum and anus), and have their nipples rubbed.
The anus is a very sensitive location and many men enjoy practicing Anal Masturbation. Applying pressure to the anal opening, or gently inserting an object inside, can be quite arousing. Many Anal Dildos, better known as butt plugs, are designed to target the Prostate Gland, which is another source of great pleasure that can only be reached through the rectum.
A variety of vibrators provide penile or anal stimulation. Vibrating bullets, vibrating sleeves, or spot vibrators can all provide intense stimulation to your Erogenous Zones.
Penis pumps have long been popular with men as masturbation devices. A generic penis pump consists of a long cylinder that fits over the penis and is attached via a tube to a pump. The pump creates a vacuum around the penis; in doing so it pulls blood into the area and temporarily enlarges the penis, a feeling many men find pleasurable. You should be sure to follow the recommendations for proper use and avoid using it at high pressure for longer than fifteen minutes. Be sure to use ample amounts of water-based lubricant inside the cylinder, as well as around the base of the penis. By doing so you will ensure a tight seal and thus better suction. Attachments for the nipples are available with some pumps.
For more masturbation ideas to round out your repertoire, please refer to our guide on Hand-job Techniques.
I'm 13. My dick is 6 1/4 inches long. Is this good? I masturbate daily btw. ;o
Haha that's pretty good for 13 hon'. If it doesn't get any bigger it'll still satisfy them girls great it should be able to fill them completely to their cervex (end of the vadge). Masturbating won't really affect your size too much if that's what your asking but is very healthy for you in other ways that'll affect your dick and hormones and such. Oh, you'll probably keep growing until your eh...20 something. Don't be worrying about your dick at 13 kid.
hey, im 17 and i jack off like every day, and im starting to get bored of the same old shit, another thing is that i dont got a GF and i dont like anal stuff... any tips please?
Man Try anal you might just like it but start slow
ok, so ive been pondering if i should post this or not. so im 15 in december and my penis -when fully erect- is just 7 inches. i dont like it and i wish i was more 6 inches than 7. i masturbate daily and i want to know, if i stop masturbating, will my penis reduce in size? i probly sound stupid. if u can help or if u have an idea, plz reply, thx!
im 21yrs old and i still know how that feels. ive been with my girl for 3 years now and we still have some trouble with the whole entry issue. i found just starting slow and using lubrication is helpful and even fingering her to prep her can help. over time she will adjust to you. for some it happens quick and for other women it takes years. just treasure what you have.
Nope sorry hon go ahead and keep masturbating. I'm not sure if there are any ways to get a bit smaller...google it? But you're a rare guy. First one I've ever heard say he'd wanna be an inch smaller. Haha I have to agree though, six inches is beautifully perfect. Fits me anyway. But seven's great too. Why'd you wanna go smaller?
because my gf is...smallish. id feel more comfortable and its hard as hell to hide boners in school, haha. thanks for the help!
hey im 15 and i masturbate sometimes, i usually start to think of pussy and think of how i would have sex with a cute girl( i am a virgin) after a couple strokes i turn around and lay on my belly and put a lil pressure on my penis and move forward and back, at this time my hand are holding on on the sides of my bed, and for some reason i cum really fast, is this normal??
thanks
Its normal. I used to do same thing before i had girlfriend. When your think of pussy you get over ecxited n thats why you cum earlier. You should strock your penis slowly and gently when you feel like you are cumming it will prolong the ejaculation and you can enjoy longer with your virtual girlfriend.
im 15 and i play drums and guitar so my hands r fairly big for my age so will this help make my penis bigger or improve any techniques 4 masturbating cos im tired of jerking off to the same way everyday is there anything that can make my orgasm betta plz help
Haha playing instruments won't make ya bigger hon, but yea some masturbating techniques can help. Google them cause I'm not 100% about them. But careful there, they could hurt or something if you do them too much. And for better orgasms...hmmm try the stop and go method. It'll get you worked up and build up pleasure then you'll let it loose pretty powerfully.
i have been watching my penis for last many years n have watched of my friends too!!! but i dont kno why my penis has no foreskin!! it is always back!! is it normal?
hey is somebody do the trick too? is it ok for a man that he puts his finger in his ass to feel much more orgasm?
its normal
hey is it ok to do it on a daily basis.. ? does it make your sperm weak if you masturbate daily? what are the risks? im 16 and i often masturbate because i have no girlfriend and i do that to feel im fucking. is it ok or bad?
Haha it's very good sweetie. It's very healthy for your hormones and sperm. Fresh sperm is much healthier than bottling it up. And if most girls are like me I think guys masturbating is completely hot. I like knowing a guy can get to know his body. Your sperm can in a sense get 'weaker' but that's not a bad thing, it builds back up constantly. If you're worried, wear boxers and run a bit to build your sperm count.
nothing at all wrong with masturbating daily
Sometimes when I masturbate I don't cum for over 20minutes is this normal for a 16 year old?
yep if your goin slow
first: how long is the average 12 year olds penis size
two: is right for me as a 12 year old for me to maturbate plz respond
Well you shouldn't be worrying about your size hon. You're 12 and gonna keep growing until you're like 20 something. And if you're asking if you should be masturbating..then I'd say yea go ahead you must be horny, and it'll help you stop erections so that'll help in school.
3-4.5 inches i believe is the normal range. the right age is when it feels right. for me it was 12 as well. for some older. just depends
ok, on the size i cant really help because every one is diferent.as for your age, well ya. in my opinoin there is no "right" age.
I've seen in porn where guys cum a long shots how can I do that
You may not have reached the age were you can cum a few yards away. Some people don't spray sperm all over the place.
1'm already 19 but my penis is only more than 5 inches long.., and i cum early.., how do i make my penis grow bigger??
I am a girl, and to say one thing, GUYS DO NOT NEED BIG DICKS TO SATISFY A WOMEN! The G-Spot is only about 2 inches in, and that is alll you need! 5 inches is fine, you grow the way you grow! It doesn't matter! You are fine, trust me! I have been banged with a 5 inch before and it was good
how about my premature ejaculation??.., i cum less than 10 minutes of masturbation/sex.., but is it possible that i can still grow my penis longer??.., some says no, others yes.., i'm quite confused..
me and my bf masturbate together all the time you can masturbate with the one you love
no it is not wierd to fantasise. masturbatio is great. but it will not fullfill you. get in touch with the girl, talk, go out together and get to experience sex. masturbation is no substitute
i didn't know where to put this but oh well...
i'm 13 and i have read that most people can pull there foreskin really far down like past the widest bit at the top and i can only get it a wee tiny bit. does this matter?
most guys who still have a lot of foreskin have not been circimsized. from what i understand that you are saying you have been circimsized and it feels just as good as some one with foreskin
Depending on your age you can only pull your forskin down a certian ammount. I wasn't circumsized & I couldn't pull it all the way down till I was 14, everyone is different though.
When you can roll it all the way down keep the foreskin clean, otherwise fatty deposits on the foreskin will make it smell & taste yucky when a girl is sucking you off.
I need a guy answer.. I've been dating my 40 year old man for about a year.. We have a steamy relationship and always like to try new things. Especially me. I'm always looking for new ways to make him feel awesome. Does getting touched near the anal area feel good to guys when they are getting oral? Some guys are so touchy about that. I want a guys point of view.. Thanks! =)
i love the feeling of anal stimulation, it feels great when my wife flicks and plays with it, with her tongue and finger even a small amount of gentle pressure/penetration is ok to. not to aggressively though especially if you have long nails!!! yikes! hope that helps. But that is just my opinion some may not take well to it because as you have said there are guys that are touchy about that area.
imo being gently rubbed down there feels great. i my self just dont like penitration. but it is dif. for every guy.
Hi im 15, and i started to masturbate a while ago, i only last for about 30 sec before i cum, does anyone know what i can do to last longer??? and i have a another question, my penis is about 6 inches long, for a 15 year old is that ok?
if you want it to last longer just slow the strokes down.
wow.., for a 15 year old, ur penis is big..
first of all, your length is ok. second try going slower, and take your time. also when you feel like your going to orgasm stop rubbing and wait about 10second, then start back up again. keep doing that untill you cant hold it and let it come. good luck
When your about to orgasm some people find it hard not to stop so keep on pounding harder & harder. I used to do that till I gained a little control, I take about 10 mins to cum which is about normal.
I've been masturbating for 6 years now. I'm 15. Just so recently, about five months ago, if I recall, I tried "fingering" my ass. It was my first time. And so, I up to this date, I think I have done it for five times now. Is it normal? As for my penis length, it's somewhere between 5-6inch. "Tips" for a better masturbation, anyone?
Just because you finger your ass crack doesn't make you gay. Most males (including me at one point) do it at some point. Experimenting, don't be ashamed of it.
For better masterbation use a lubricant, listen to a song you like think of the girl like & lose yourself into the worlds of fantasy.
Ok. When I masturbate I never can cum :( but I know my body has sperm in it because have had a wetdream before. And when I masturbate it always feels like I'm going to cum and then I pee. Is that normal? Any ideas on both things?
It might be good to consult a doctor on your problem, you may have problems with your bladder. Don't take my diagnosis seriously im no doctor.
Its either that your you wank after you take a leak make sure that you pee out everything & dip-off any access, cum will come out but just head my advice. Asking a doctor maybe embarassing but its better to be safer than sorry.
Greetings Earthlings!
Is it normal to masturbate while you are asleep?
Like touching yourself while you sleep.
Yes because I know that you think about sex 24/7...my little slave.Don't worry let me come over and show you a good time.Asleep or not.You will feel pleasure to the max ;D
You know me too well ;)
I never knew I liked sex with a human so much!
Wow! Thank you for the wonderful time :D
You know me too well ;)
I never knew I liked sex with a human so much!
Wow! Thank you for the wonderful time :D
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