Female Ejaculation
An even greater mystery to most people than Female Orgasm is female ejaculation. Although we may have heard stories about friends who can ejaculate, or who have been with women who can ejaculate, many of us have never actually experienced it first hand. When asked to describe the ejaculations, responses are often quite similar, "It's liquid, it's clear, it's wet, and it squirts". Beyond this, the details have always been quite sketchy.
Let's begin by understanding what the elements of the ejaculate are. The four main ingredients are Glucose, prostatic acid phosphatase (an enzyme which is characteristic of the prostatic component of semen), urea and creatinine. The last two ingredients are commonly found in urine, but are in lower levels than in urine. So there is some urine in the ejaculate. Some studies conclude that in some women the ejaculate is more like urine, and in other women it more like a prostate fluid. Until this question is answered fully, its safest to assume that it is a bit of both. The quantity of ejaculate can range from a few drops, to a shower of it.
Where does the ejaculate come from? There are several theories on this, but remaining constant amongst all of them is that female ejaculation comes from G-spot Stimulation. When the G-spot is stimulated over a period of time, the spongy tissue that creates this area fills with fluid. Women who can ejaculate often hold back, thinking that it is urine. The exact source of the ejaculate is still debated by researchers, but it does appear to come out of the urethra (like urine) and/or nearby Skene's Gland, so that is where the confusion takes place.
So what's left? You might want to learn how to get someone to ejaculate, or how to do it yourself. Like exploring everything else new in your experience of sex, you should work towards it, but not put unnecessary stresses on yourself by making it your goal. Also, it is not known whether all women are able to ejaculate, so if you or your partner is unable to - don't worry, but perhaps keep trying once in a while. As you already know, the ejaculate comes from the urethra or Skene's Gland, so it feels a lot like urine.
Apart from those who love 'golden showers' (the fetish of urinating on, or being urinated on), many people do not feel comfortable enough to risk urinating on or around their partner. It may be a good idea to allow yourself or your partner some privacy to understand this function of their body; at the very least let your partner now that you are excited about it, not grossed out. That being said, great places to try this out include the shower or bathtub, in or near water, or on top of some old blankets that you don't mind getting wet.
If you have any comments about this article, or would like to share your personal experiences, please post below!
I've started to masturbate in the last few months and after reading this i'm glad that i realised that my squirting is perfectly normal. The thing is though i can cum but i'm not having an orgasm or the ones i'm having are really small. is there any way i can tell if i am having an orgasm?
I am 46 and I have never had the pleasure until afew months ago. My husband had a E.D. problem. He has known it for over 3 years. I have found a guy who has filled the void. First time we met. I climaxed more than I ever knew I could. He said I squirted him. No one has ever fucked me until I came first.
i agree that this is a vary hard thing for some women to do. i had a difficult time getting over the thought that it might be gross for the guy. once i knew its not pee, i was determined to reach that point. when my boyfriend made me cum for the first time a few weeks ago, it was so amazing. he loved it too bcuz he knew he had brought me to that point. most women think it will be gross, but i think its more of a turn-on! every time i get more horny and my bf loves it cuz i'm ready to go again and again with him. and to all the girls out there--once you reach that point, dont let him stop pleasing you til you cum 3 times in a row. You'll LOVE it.
So what is this liquid called
So what is this liquid called?
I use to always hold back.. and much like many women, thought if I allowed myself to go, I would wet myself.. until I did my homework and realized it is possible for a woman to ejaculate. So, with a lil self assurance and cheering on from my husband.. I let it go one night.. If I don't ejaculate at least once during sex, I am not satisfied. So he knows I have to have my go just once to be happy.. Usually, I have several orgasms tho and yes, I do squirt with each one. I wish I could answer some of the guys questions as to why their gals dont allow them to stay inside of them when it happens, I would guess it's because all women are different. personally, I demand my husband fuck me hard when I begin to squirt.. I don't like to cum unless he is doing exactly what I ask him to do..
damn you sound hella fun in bed hella dominant
you are one tough cookie...lol
thing is its not squirting it don't feel like pising either... just feels like part and aprcel of an orgasm just that it leaks out when he withdraws.
that sound normal?
I've experienced this once when I was 14 or so. Of course I was masturbating and I was holding back because I though I was going to pee myself, but then it just went! When I went to go clean up, I realized it wasn't urine, it was a little thicker than urine. I've yet to experience this again.
the first time i experienced this was when i was pleasuring myself and then all of a sudden when i was coming a bunch of this clear liquid squirted out a couple of feet and i was sooo confused! then i looked it up and calmed a lot and was kind of proud of it...my new boyfriend has yet to discover my hidden talent however...hah
My best squirting experience was actually during anal sex; I was on top in the cowgirl position. My boyfriend's penis is curved upwards so it was great stimulation, especially when I leaned back. He rubbed my clit about 2 times and I squirted all over him, I couldn't hold it in at all!
I can't always ejaculate, and even when I do it is VERY tiring. I know it's fun to make happen, boys, but give your girl a break! Let her take a power nap between rounds.
It's a great feeling, but it is hard to let go if you're nervous, ladies. Give it a chance, I really doubt that you won't enjoy it.
it is so awesome...i was fucking her one time and she started shaking and she made me stop because she didnt like it...so then i told her to call me the next time she plays with her vibrator...she did and i told her if it feels like you have to pee just keep going and dont stop cause of the shaking...she asked why and i just asked her to trust me...it took a few seconds but she said ok...about 20minutes later she was demanding i tell her what happened and i thought she squirted but i wasnt 100% sure so i said tell me what happened...she just kept saying I DON'T KNOW...so like ten minutes later she said babe i think i just peed, but it was different because it like sprayed out and now its on my bad...i started laughing because that it when i realized it happened...finally...i had been trying to get her to squirt for months...so i started laughing and she thought it was at her so i asked her if it felt good and she said Yeaaaah...in such a guilty voice...i said babe you just squirted...she was like for real OMG it felt so good but i thought i peed...so from then on when we fuck the shakes come and i get this ocean spray and i LOVE it...
question though? how come she cant keep fucking and squirting at the same time? i always have to take my cock out or if she is on top she gets off...?
yes i have the same question it always happens 2 me 2 like i cant b all inside her 4 it 2 happen but i gotta admit it looks great from behind
its cuz its harder for women to be moving AND be relaxed enough to cum at the same time
my bf and i were having sex one time and when we were getting dressed afterward i noticed a wet spot on the bed. it turns out i squirted while we were having sex without either of us knowing it. the same thing has happened a couple times after that happened too. which means, ejaculation when he's inside you isn't impossible. you just have to be relaxed, and comfortable enough with the other person.
I love it when my boyfriend makes me squirt and then he f***s me hard and make me squirt again and agaian and again. My body can't stop shaking...I love it. He is the best lover I've ever had...
When I ride my guy's face (which he LOVES and BEGS FOR... I know... I'm a lucky girl!) and I orgasm, he says it's like a flood... It's like all of that good slippery stuff that lubes up the va-jay releases and rushes down. Not so much with other positions, and it doesn't 'squirt', but yeah... he's awesome...
wow yeah i thought it was pee too!!
when it happens to me, usually its not much but sometimes its A LOT...HOW DO I STOP? can i stop without holding it in?
damn when my girl did that i really thought she pissed on me lol, now 2 make her orgasim
you usually don't want it to stop, cuz to a lot of guys its a huge turn on. When I experienced it, it was like awesome lube. Girl feel blessed if you can do it. cuz i've heard, read, and scientifically know not many women can do this lovely trick!!!
Is female ejaculation tiring like male ejaculation?
Anytime that I get really close, instead of liquid coming out, its like a puff of air. This has happened more than once, so I don't know what's going on.
Has anyone had this happened to them, or am I the freak of the sex world? :(
that is called a "queef" its totally natural.
no nothing's wrong with you its usually just air escaping ur vagina! sometimes during sex air can get trapped up there and wen u orgasm it can usually slip out, soundin like a fart (also knwn as a vart)! so no! not wierd just one helluva orgasm!
It's great that this is becoming less of a myth and that people think it's less weird now. I love doing this with my fiance, he thinks it's awesome. Advice for people trying, but not getting there...
Pee before you have sex. That way you know THAT feeling is in fact you getting close to squirting.
Try on your own first (learning to let go is easier if you aren't worried about him).
PS. It doesn't just come from gspot stimulation, my fiance never hits my gspot, but focuses on my clit. Always gets me there.
I often time feel like it's coming on and I try to let it go, but I never can. My boyfriend and I have been trying to get me there a lot, but it just won't work. I need some advice on how to get there easily and how to just let it go!!!
:)
hooray.. i've always been afraid of letting myself go, cause i didn't want to pee on him!
haha
ok, im not a freak :)
thankyou
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how does the clit help with FE?
iv had sex and then used my fingers on the g-spot
or just fingers on there own but im interested as to how the clit helps things along?
the first time i had one of these i didn't even realize. My hubby and I were having sex and he nut and when he pulled out, i was wet all over!!! We were so surprised. And I had another one about 20 minutes later. aww man, that was the best!
Female Ejaculation does happen just with the g spot. I ejaculated by my self with a powered toothbrush and it was not inside!!!
I know this is gonna sound really strange, but...
My girlfriend was reading this comment about you and female ejeculation and the powered toothbrush.
She's a bit nosey by the way...
She wants to know do you mean an electric toothbrush?
Anyway, good luck with it all!!!
Trust me, its the urethra or it wouldn't feel like the urgent need to pee. First time this happened to me was actually from doggy. I had no clue and held it in. My current bf tends to get me there with a hand/oral combo, usually G + clit.
This is how I first discovered it too, I had to make my then bf do it again to make me believe it had happened. From what I have heard it occurs after a long period of stimulation. I've never managed to get it to happen again, but it was definatley an interesting experience.
It was quite awhile back in grade school but the shock and awe of it lingers...I was losing my virginity when all off a sundden im drenched! I was stunned! I thought this chick had just pissed all over me! Later while I was telling my buddies of the incindent one of them said "Oh yeah we forgot to warn you...she's a squirter"... whata re friends for?
I experienced female ejaculation on my own and was initially embarrassed to admit it to my (then new) boyfriend. He brought it up one day after he noticed a little squirt as he was fingering me. I told him I was holding back because I wasn't sure what he would think. He was happy to be with a woman who could do this, and after that, I just let it go. It's truly amazing! We used to soak through towels, but I finally invested in a couple of bedwetting coverlets. They really help keep the bed dry. No more sleeping on wet spots!
I am so relieved to read this. I discovered it while alone and gettin myself off. after being married for years i finally told my hubby about it. he said to next time let go and enjoy it. i did, now its like a challenge for him. he works his ass off till i get there. your totally right about when you think your done keep going, you'll get there.
It's so comforting to read all these posts! i feel like much less of a freak for sqirting. Everyone girlfriend I've asked about have never experienced it and just kinda looked at me in disbelief. And it's nice to get more information than "it's a myth".
I just found out about 2 weeks ago that I can squirt too. The guy I was with wanted to test a theory and he continued to test it until we created a wading pool on the kitchen floor. It was the most amazing feeling I've ever had. To know he knew something about met that I never knew and he was happy about it. WOW! It was the most amazing experience for me. He teased me about it afterwards. And I just sat there and grinned like an idiot.
Just had to say, YES it DOES come out of the urethra. Read any of the current studies....that is exactly how it comes out....the liquid doesn't come from the bladder, just uses the same tube. I also know from experience (videos are a fun way to capture it happening). I am a gusher....almost every time we have sex I can gush. I used to only gush from being fingered, but with my BF can get me to gush easily having vaginal intercourse...and I have to say....it intensifies my orgasms.
Anyway, I just had to comment on one of the posts when he/she disclaimed where it actually came from. I find the article quite accurate.
Your article is inaccurate and obviously not written by someone who has experienced this. The excess fluid comes from deep inside the vagina..not from the urethra where women urinate from. If you read the replies above, they also verify that it's from deep inside the vagina.
Sorry,but you are wrong with your answer,because when a woman do ejaculates,it comes out thru the urethra.The education video on female ejaculation tell you that as well and explains it by showing the diagrams of it,Also I have had an experience with this from a woman whom I use to date that did it and when she ejaculated.I watched it as it came out and where it came out.At one time when this happened the first time I caused her to orgasm,I too thought that it came from deep inside her vagina until she showed me different.So the other person was correct in where it come out from.If you don't believe me.Look it up or get the video that talks about it.It's called Loving Sex The G-Spot & Female Ejaculation DVD or The Amazing G-Spot & Female Ejaculation DVD.
I had been with my boyfriend for 4 years, having sex reguarly, before I actually had a female ejaculation. I knew what it was but truly didn't think it was real. Now almost everytime it happens I have mutliple orgasms and the sheets get soaking wet....It's actually pretty amazing. It completely surprises me that there are people who doubt this is real! Believe me....It's real!
I can get my girl to spray just about every time i finger her, my best technique is her lying on her back and two fingers in a kind of "hook" position just up and down quite roughly on the roof of her vagina
This happened to me for the first time when my husband and I were having sex on his pool table. He was behind me and just kept going. It was so cool. WHen we got up, there was this huge wet spot. Funny part of this is, we ended up selling the pool table to my former boss who was a real b---h! She never knew! LOL! It's an occasional happening. First, u must be turned on and feeling uninhibited. Second, just keep going (even if it feels like ur done).YOU'RE NOT! It works best from behind. ANd u can have it happen with him inside of u. I squirt so much that my husband says it looks like a design on the bed. He says i make farm animals!
i've had that feeling before - thinking it was urine - but after reading this article now i know its not. next time i get the feeling, i'll let it go & see what happens :-D
It happens.
The first time it happened to me I was being fingered, and like most, I thought maybe I had to go to the bathroom. I told my bf at the time - he knew more about what I was feeling than I did, and said "let it out."
The bed was completely soaked. So much came out so fast, and so hard, some made a ricochet off my boyfriend and made it all the way up to my face. We laughed, and thought it was really awesome.
It doesn't happen all the time, and it mostly happens with fingering rather than intercourse. Not every guy can get it to happen, but they're all extremely willing to try. :)
Ive heard it and seen it. But when my girl did it the first time. WOW. Down the length of my kingsize bed and soaked, i meen soaked. we laughed like crazy. kinda in shock. now its a goal. quite often reached mainly through hand work. i'm completley shocked how much can be expelled. 1 night it happened 3 times. absolutley crazy. Very draining in energy for the women.
Thank you for finally mentioning how draining it is for women! Ever since we discovered I could squirt, my man makes it a game to see how many time he can make me do it in a night and after some sessions I feel like the walking dead...2 times and I wanna tap out. He's awesome but daayyyyuummmm, give a girl a break!
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