Female Ejaculation
An even greater mystery to most people than Female Orgasm is female ejaculation. Although we may have heard stories about friends who can ejaculate, or who have been with women who can ejaculate, many of us have never actually experienced it first hand. When asked to describe the ejaculations, responses are often quite similar, "It's liquid, it's clear, it's wet, and it squirts". Beyond this, the details have always been quite sketchy.
Let's begin by understanding what the elements of the ejaculate are. The four main ingredients are Glucose, prostatic acid phosphatase (an enzyme which is characteristic of the prostatic component of semen), urea and creatinine. The last two ingredients are commonly found in urine, but are in lower levels than in urine. So there is some urine in the ejaculate. Some studies conclude that in some women the ejaculate is more like urine, and in other women it more like a prostate fluid. Until this question is answered fully, its safest to assume that it is a bit of both. The quantity of ejaculate can range from a few drops, to a shower of it.
Where does the ejaculate come from? There are several theories on this, but remaining constant amongst all of them is that female ejaculation comes from G-spot Stimulation. When the G-spot is stimulated over a period of time, the spongy tissue that creates this area fills with fluid. Women who can ejaculate often hold back, thinking that it is urine. The exact source of the ejaculate is still debated by researchers, but it does appear to come out of the urethra (like urine) and/or nearby Skene's Gland, so that is where the confusion takes place.
So what's left? You might want to learn how to get someone to ejaculate, or how to do it yourself. Like exploring everything else new in your experience of sex, you should work towards it, but not put unnecessary stresses on yourself by making it your goal. Also, it is not known whether all women are able to ejaculate, so if you or your partner is unable to - don't worry, but perhaps keep trying once in a while. As you already know, the ejaculate comes from the urethra or Skene's Gland, so it feels a lot like urine.
Apart from those who love 'golden showers' (the fetish of urinating on, or being urinated on), many people do not feel comfortable enough to risk urinating on or around their partner. It may be a good idea to allow yourself or your partner some privacy to understand this function of their body; at the very least let your partner now that you are excited about it, not grossed out. That being said, great places to try this out include the shower or bathtub, in or near water, or on top of some old blankets that you don't mind getting wet.
If you have any comments about this article, or would like to share your personal experiences, please post below!
I think this whole ejaculating thing applies to me, but I'm just a bit confused about it. When this happens to me loads comes out, and I mean loads - its as much as if I was urinating and if im in bed when I make myself do this then all my sheets get soaked right through absolutely EVERYWHERE! Does anyone have any advice or tips for me? Is this me ejaculating?
wow how long does the squirting last for?
it might be, make sure you use the bathroom first. when this happens again, you'll know
Ok so I can get my gf so close to squirting, she swells up as expected and she feels it right there, but it just doesn't quite get there. Does anyone have any suggestions on how I could just push her over the top and get her to squirt? Thanks
actually...you might just want to hold the finger there and move it ever so slightly. You also want to assure your gf that it is ok to release
the first time i ever came... wow ... it was on valentines day me and my bf were involved in heavy foreplay and all of a sudden i felt myself shake. my boy friend pops his head up chin soaked and says " you just came in my mouth" i was like that doesnt happen its a myth....then it was wait seriously? and i started getting embarresed .... "don't worry i think its hot... i know your not faking anything"
when i come its really violent.... i start shaking... my body becomes uncontrollable.... my man has to physically restrain my whilst maintain the clitoral stimulation to make sure i come... is there anyone out there who shakes violently like theior having a fit when coming?????
i start shaking to, and collapse on top of my boyfriend... so he either moves me... or moves under me to keep it going...
Let me share with you some tips to give her a powerful vaginal orgasm
1. Give her more time to get warmed up. When a woman is not warmed up, she will not reach orgasm. It is natural for women to take a longer time to get warmed up. Therefore, you need to be patient. Engage in prolonged foreplay to turn her on before getting to intercourse.
2. Stimulate her g-spot. G-spot is very sensitive. By applying consistent pressure to the g-spot, you can make her reach orgasm very quickly. To find the g-spot, insert your index finger into her vaginal canal with your palm facing upwards. Make a "come here" motion with your finger. Try to feel a blip at the front wall of her vaginal canal, which is the g-spot.
3. Perform cunnilingus. Women can reach powerful orgasm with cunnilingus. This is because a woman's clitoris consists of more than 8,000 nerve endings, making it the most sensitive area of a human body. By using your tongue to lick her clitoris, you can give her a mind-blowing orgasm that she will never forget.
For one i agree all that you said. But i like to add a few things. Like all great sex it all starts before the act! weather its talking about it or planning it, and even the "knocking over the head and draging her to the bed(or even him) at short warning".my GF never came before. After noticing the stop before 'it happened', i convinced her in bondage(basic tie down). Ater the first time she couldn't wait for the next. The one major thing i want to say is that a womans body is like a diesel truck in winter. you have to prime what heats her up. and pump what gets her going.after the two months of 'learning' ( yes every woman is different to get going). I could say a 'pregame' word to get her knowing what was going to happen that night. I am not a big man or a attractive man. but if you love your woman and know how to please her, you will both be happy. our record now is 27 in a hour( yes squirting, from none squirt before). i would be wore out from it and could not finish(for myself), BUT had a great BJ wake-up(more times then not from a great night). Each time when the kids are not home, it becomes a enjoyiable challenge for the both of us. Fair warning....have a bed protector or lots of towels.(we fought in the beginning to see who sleeps in the wet spot.....area.lol) At the record we both slept on the foor in the living room till we had the bed steam cleaned. Also check out squirting 101 video. it will give you some insight! ENJOY
When it says its like urine, how exactly does it mean like it? Is it smell, colour, the amount, or what?
I think I have done this maybe.. but it seems quite weird to be honest, it's like a clear liquid that literally comes gushing out, doesn't smell, almost as much as if I was taking a piss..?
you came. Congrats :)
That is most likely ejactulation
I get so turned on by a woman who can squirt all over my cock or mouth or where ever. its like really close to one of the most amzing things on earth lol. it def dont taste like piss either. it kinda tastes nice and sweet. i like rapidly shakin the tip of my cock in n out when she squirts its all over and its like a fire hydrant for real. like my sheets on top of sheet on top of sheets get soaked along with my matress. its wild. n i think every woman can do it too. they might not be able to orgasm but i think they can all squirt if they practice well enough.
The first time me and my BF had sex, neither of us were virgins btw, he went down on me for awhile which was amazing and got me super wet, then we did it with my legs on his shoulders, and he totally hit my g-spot, when we were done he was like I didn't know you squirt thats hott, and I was like I didn't know either! He like's that he's one of the few guys who can get me to squirt and he eats it like its candy.
I ejaculate almost every time i have an orgasm ^///^
my husband finds it very hot when I cum on him during intercourse; the more aroused I am the more I "gush", although if we've done it often enough in a day it just becomes drips. It's not pee at all, I accidentally peed a tiny bit in my husband's mouth when he was licking me a few days ago, and he said it's vastly different than my orgasm juices. (he didn't like it at all, but he does like my juice xD;; )
When having oral sex with my partner I come,, but not during sexual intercourse..!
When I do come, It is as much as if I was peeing..is this normal??
Does anyone else have this same problem?
What does it mean if you come a lot and if you come a little?
im a guy....but for the last question...it probably means that uve come already so it might be slightly less than maybe if u did it 30 mins before the first time....and for the first question...its kind of hard to tell because some people might just drip, some people might gush, and when ur peeing it just comes out..depending on how full ur bladder is....hope that answers ur quesions...(srry for all the dots..its a habit)
I've cum many times like this, i like to say: like a man, and its fucking awesome. At one point of my life I thought this was just fairy tale, till someone proved it otherwise. But yup I came !!woo-hoo for female cum.
ok, so i cum, and i know that what happens....when iam cumming feels good, but i do not actually feel when i cum, does that make sense? and does anyone else have this "issue"? also can u feel it when a guy cums inside you? without a condom of course?
Yea you can tell. Weve had a condom break on us, before and yea i could tell. It`s weird not bad weird good weird lol
I can tell when I'm cumming, though sometimes just barely, and sometimes I can't even tell if I'm squirting at all
as for feeling him ejaculate...
I might be an oddball here because I've read all over that it depends on the girl but the majority of girls that /can/ feel it only feel the heat. Some girls can't feel it at all, they only feel the slight expansion of the penis and the jerking as it shoots his cum into you. However, I can feel the actual semen spurts and oh.my.gosh. it feels wonderful when my husband shoots his load inside me. I also love the feeling of having 4-6 loads of his cum inside me, i can't really describe the sensation but it's rather addicting xD
hey can some one tell me how to squirt?
my boyfriend fucks me crazy hard
he has a mad big afrikan dick and HE KNOWS HOW TO USE IT
i slpet with 6 guys before him
and he was a virgin b4 me
but he is the best fuck ive ever had LITERALLY!
i have HUGE orgasms with him wether he is eating my pussy or fingering me or fucking me...
i know he loves it when he has control and when i call him daddy
and he knows i like it rough and pulls my hair and slaps my ass and holds my throat... he knows i LOVE it when he takes control aswell...
but no matter how good my 'daddy'makes me feel... i dont squirt
NEVER!
i get sopping wet but never come like that...
any one help????
hate to say it have you ever thought of beeing in control? this way if you fell something good you can carry it on.... rather than him doing somthing you like then changing position or rythum slightly, and slowing down the motions.... just a thought
he use his fingers to make u squirt.
I'm not sure if i make mu girl squirt, coz she gets really wet, like sockeing wet, but doesnt like squirt if you get me. So any tips on how to make her "squirt" like proper.
omg i LOVE squirting me and my bf do it every time we have sex its great!! lol
best way 4 us 2 do it is wen ive gt my legs round his neck n hes fukin me deeply its sooooooo nice i always get him 2 pull out so it covers him and me it goes everywhere!! its mint! the bed gets absolutely soaking n its such a turn on wen were both wet off it i can do it within seconds n it gushes EVERYWHERE!! guess where the lucky ones ey girls? lol its such a great feeling its like i explode all over him
gunna have 2 go actually coz its startin 2 turn me on now lol :P
i love squirting me and my bf do it EVERY time we have sex i absolutely cover him with it its such a turn on, best way 2 do it 4 me is 2 have him with my legs up round his neck n him thrusting deep into me then i just get the feeling n i pull him out b4 i do and i squirt all over him the bed gets absolutely soaking!! its GREAT!!!! he gets soooo turned on by it its a great feeling i can do it within seconds too, i love it n guess were the lucky ones ey lasses?? lol i thort i'd peed the bed the 1st time i did it it felt so weird but i love it its such a turn on n once were both soaking off it it gets even hornier..........gettin turned on now by it actually best go :P lol
soo my boyfriend was performing oral on me and i squirted he said it had a bitter taste to it... it that normal... im curious y i dont produce a white substance like some.. i can only squirt
wat color was it?
It takes me 29 minutes to get an orgasm and i almost always squirt... but i cant cum like the girls in porn movies where there is cum streaming down their leg or down to thier ass..
well, it's porn. they fake that stuff to make it more appealing.
um, yeah I'm 17 and I started masturbating at 15. I am able to squirt solely with clitoral stimulation. I usually squirt after I had or in the process of having an orgasm and I keep rubbing my clit, it feels like a stronger orgasm is about to come. And then a clear fluid rushes out of my bodi....to me mine smells nothing like pee and is rather odorless. I'm still a virgin bt my boyfriend and I are seriously considering intercourse.
woahw ive never done this to a girl. well not that i know of. lol i wanna try it though.
I can't squirt...
hey, im sure you can
it might take a while, and the right guy
usually it's because you have a (possibly subconscious)mental block. You must psychologically and physically ready to do it, and shouldn't worry about it in particular. If you need any help/ advice just ask.
This just happens to be one of my biggest turn-ons, so I've worked at it a lot, and have a pretty good understanding and a lot of first hand experience to go with it.
I have squirted three times, and it's the best feeling in the world.. I just laid there gasping on the bed afterwards, it felt amazing... My bf simply used the other end of a smooth drumstick though and stimulated my g-spot for 10 min or something and suddenly he said "shit it's getting wet here...!" and the next second, *woosh*... We had to switch the sheet afterwards. An advise is just to make the dildo hit the correct spot over and over again, and go really, really fast. The faster you go, the higher chances to make her cum gets. And turn on some really loud music if you and your gf/bf is not alone in the house. She's gonna scream so loud just before it happens. Good luck ;)
interesting
i want to squirt so bad ive tried all different things and can't seem to do it.. is it possible i cant?
are you sure you're not just trying to hard??? you need to relax.
There is a vedio you can go to i got it from my friend who told me too mch information type stuff... just message me and ill get ya the link ^ ^ It is for the guyz to give you one but i dont know how you girls can get one yourself... sorry Most i can do ^ ^
Do people really pee on each other while gettin jiggy with it? ....thats kinda gross isnt it? anyone try it? must smell bad after eh...hehe
Is that what a golden shower is?
it's not always pee; "golden shower" is pee yes, but female ejaculation is not, and golden shower is not a term for female ejaculation
most female cum is clear and odorless or has a faint scent, and if it does smell it doesn't smell like urine
according to my husband it's slightly sweet, unlike urine which can be bitter and nasty since it's waste (i accidentally let a little pee slip while he licked me once, he hated it, but he loves drinking my cum when I climax)
chemically, it's usually the same stuff you'd find in semen, just lacking the sperm and high testosterone content and a few other things.
has anyone experienced DP? girls?
Ok. So. I got a new vibrator a few weeks ago and discovered that if I leave it on my clitoris for a while on a certain spot, I get a building feeling and then a need to release, sort of like I need to pee. When I first felt the sensation, I stopped - I was around my boyfriend and what if it really WAS pee? Well, today I decided to see what would happen if I continued. I felt sort of a release like pee, but not really. The liquid that came out was a tiny bit yellow and smelled urine-like, but not completely so. I am not sure what it is, especially since I heard that for this to happen, you have to have an orgasm AND/OR had stimulated the g-spot or something. I did NOT orgasm. Maybe if I kept going I would have, but I was so shocked that it happened, I am not sure what would have occurred afterward.
What is this? Has anyone else had this happen? Why did it happen?
Thanks!!
ARGH! This has happened to me too, a few times. I few orgasm coming on, and then a liquid comes out is slightly yellow, but mostly clear, and leaves my comforter smelling EVER so slightly like urine. But more like how my boyfriend's cum smells like..so..I'm confused as to, maybe I triggered urine out, but only slightly, or if this was cum?
My family is really strick so I get scared to buy dildos or anything like that. But I do have this pink Rattle snake stuffed animal... It has a hard tail and it's shaped like a dildo... So I put a condom over it's tail and had sex with it... And it felt amazing, I wanted to scream but it was the middle of the night, so I held in my screams... and that is when I felt something wet splatter out of my glory hole. It splattered on my thigh so I turned on the light, and it was this white-ish clearish pee-pee smelling substance. So I try to do that with my boyfriend, move really fast and get it on like an animal, but he thinks I need a slow fucking, maybe I'm just shy....
I can't do it for him... I wish I could.
It's just that he kinda embarrassed me by pressuring me to squirt for him, and by holding me down in an awkward position.
Don't get me wrong I love to be held down but, not in way when I'm pressured to do something like that because I'm really shy...
Maybe I need a public communications class then I can squirt for him... lol!
I think I used to do this before when I masturbated, but I thought it was pee. So I started to stop when i got that feeling again. Now I can't seem to do it
:(
Any tips.
I also can't really orgasm via masturbation though...I get to a point where it feels real good, but then I have to stop as I have not got the energy to carry on...I have to stop when I feel like Im about to climax.
My fwb, maneged to get me to get me to orgasm though; I think that certified that before wasn't an orgasm, was nothing in comparison. But I'm not sure, can one come without reaching orgasm then? How can I get myself to orgasm via masturbation, when I get to tired lol? =S
yes you absolutly can cum without orgasm, and vice versa. i can cum but not orgasm via masterbation. so i dunno what to do either
I used to think I couldn't cum/orgasm/climax with my botfriend at all until my aunt told me I just may be having a different kind of orgasm. I've actually been having extended orgasms (heightened, intense pleasure lasting for a number of minutes or more!) for quite a while. And aftr this information became clear to me, all my stress about "not being able to orgasm" went away and I feel satisfied now because I know what I'm looking for. And I actually squirted! My bf is a Gspot master, so he was working that and felt like something inside me was filling up. I said, "You're gonna make me squirt", and then he said, "You just came, you just came alot." I looked, and there was a puddle in his hand. It actually just really revved me up for more! I still have yet to have really intense, strong contractions, but now that I am much more relaxed about it, I know it'll happen when it happens!
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