I took some advice from the other thread. It worked, reasonably well and I met this lady, though I already knew her rather well, I just never confronted her with dating or anything. Really quickly, we had a number of dates and she's really attractive and I just not sure what to do with this. I mean it's not a relationship in the sense of it being exclusive or anything like that, but I sense that we should be more physically intimate than we are.
I've never been very good with that transition between the girl you take out on dates, to the girl you take home from a date. As such I've sort of not, taken her home (my home, obviously I take her to her home and drop her off, the alternative would be some twisted form of public kidnapping). Furthermore, even if I were to enter into a situation that would lead to a continued post-date scenario, I'm not entirely sure of the transition that goes between the 'excuse for coming in' to 'the real reason you're here'. IE how do people go from the 'extra glass of wine/cup of coffee/let me show you the pictures of my trip to Florida' to making out and sex. I mean we've kissed but I'm very careful about not over-running my leash when it comes to these sorts of things. So I probably don't engage things as aggressively as I should.