Okay, before you say anything, I'm a happy virgin and don't intend on having sex any time soon. I've never actually done 'anything' before either, not with another person, anyway.
I've had normal crushes on guys before, I get excited if I, say, saw a picture of a topless hot guy. But I don't get turned on. I get excited in the same way that I would if I won the lottery, or if someone bought me an ipod. That sort of excited. But I don't get turned on. I've seen porn before, seen penises before (not in person ;) ) but they don't actually turn me on.
Women seem to turn me on, but I've never got 'excited' over one. I just feel horny. When I masturbate I think of girls and imagine girls doing stuff, but never a guy.
Does this make me bi?
PS - I'm female :P
Thank you, that was really helpful :) I guess I was confused as to whether Bisexual meant more than just sexual desires, but other feelings probably come along with that, too. So... Yeah. I'm still young yet, so I'll see how everything goes during the next few years.
If it does turn out that way, however, I'm really scared to come out. I told one of my friends I had a crush on someone they knew (it wasn't them) and they said they were fine with it but they've not really taken it well. It's like I've turned alien or something. And if I told my parents, I don't think they'd really want to accept it. My dad mostly is very anti-homo if you know what I mean. I'm scared that he nor the rest of my friends see me as the same person, or see me as a pervert. I've never fantasized over any of my friends, or if I have, I'veforcedmyself to regret it straight away. I've never done anything with any of them, nor do I intend to. :(
Please read this thread from a few days ago:
-doc
Sure, why not?
Don't worry so much about labelling what you are. Sexuality isn't an exclusive club that you need to meet certain critieria to access. Terms like bisexual/lesbian/asexual/demisexual ect are only there to help you describe yourself to others.
So it's up to you:
Do you have sexual desires towards both men and women? Yeah? Then you're probably currently bi.
I say currently because sexuality is fluid and it'll change through your life. You don't have to pick a label now and stick with it. Just do whatever makes you happy at the time!