Alright so i'be gotten my gag reflex mostly under control. I can take my husband fully into my throat with my nose pressed into his abdomen and my chin against his balls. He was quite the man whore back in the day so i always want to better myself and be the best. He said my blowjobs are about an 8 our of 10.. which is WAY better than when we first met:p I asked what I could do to improve and he says that my back teeth scrape against him.. which he says is normal.. he's only had 1 where the woman's teeth didn't touch him at all. Well, I want to be able to do that too! I've got my front teeth under control but I cant think of how to keep my back teeth out of it.. any suggestions?
Sat, 11/12/2011 - 21:32
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deepthroating and teeth
[QUOTE=RedRoses;275466]On another aspect; I find it quite awkward that he's grading you. That doesn't seem right... Sex should not be a competition, test or reportcard. Is he prone to doing this?
Not knowing if you can relate to this, since I hardly know anything about your situation, but this came to my mind when I read your thread, so allow me to share: I've seen a relationship therapist at work once with a guy who tended to grade his wife. He describes himself as a man who gives 100% in everything he does and loves it. He basically blames his wife for his sexlife not being an A+. The therapist then puts the man on an elastic cord and lets him run to a picture of his wife with the assignment to get it as a symbol of their relationship's worth to him. Every time he nearly reaches it, the cord pulls him back. He had to use his every strentgh and over a dozen runs to get to it. Once he got it, he didn't "love" the challenge like he said he would, but broke down crying. He suddenly understood what it felt like to her every time he graded her. He made her try harder and harder. It was taking the fun out of sex and their relationship. He was basically preventing their (sex)life from being wonderful. It was not about techniques, but about attitudes. Once they were allowing themselves to live and love free from constant judgement, she actually revealed to be quite a tigress![/QUOTE]
To make it more clear, he doesn't grade or rate me normally... I ASK to be graded. My husband is a great guy and never makes me feel inferior or puts me down. If i didn't ask him, he wouldn't do it. I appreciate his honesty when I ask him because it's always something I want to improve on.
> i always want to better myself and be the best.
If you have not already begun reading all of the articles listed in the Index, please begin today. In fact if he joins you, then the two of you can discuss what you have learned, add the information to what each of you already knows, and become world class lovers as a result.
As for scraping his shaft with your back teeth, try relaxing or opening your mouth by dropping your lower jaw somewhat. Encircle his penis with moist lips only. You can use your tongue as a bonus.
Keep his penis in the center of your mouth and do not attempt deep penetration except for deep-throating.
Depending upon the angle of his erect penis it may be necessary to change positions. An angled or bent penis can scrape against teeth without repositioning one or the other of you.
[QUOTE=hands_off_the_goods;275520]I dont think my molars are crooked, I do have one that had started growing in before the baby tooth was ready to come out, it ended up turning it so I can feel it more when I run my tongue on the inside of my teeth..[/QUOTE]
That just might be what's happening. An yes for deepthroating an upwardly curved penis 69 position is best. The other option is lying on your back with your head hanging back off the bed, but in that case the man has the control and it is more "throat fucking" that deep throating.
Thanks Red, I will definitely try that!
[QUOTE=RedRoses;275466]On another aspect; I find it quite awkward that he's grading you. That doesn't seem right... Sex should not be a competition, test or reportcard. [/QUOTE]
An excellent point.
On another aspect; I find it quite awkward that he's grading you. That doesn't seem right... Sex should not be a competition, test or reportcard. Is he prone to doing this?
Not knowing if you can relate to this, since I hardly know anything about your situation, but this came to my mind when I read your thread, so allow me to share: I've seen a relationship therapist at work once with a guy who tended to grade his wife. He describes himself as a man who gives 100% in everything he does and loves it. He basically blames his wife for his sexlife not being an A+. The therapist then puts the man on an elastic cord and lets him run to a picture of his wife with the assignment to get it as a symbol of their relationship's worth to him. Every time he nearly reaches it, the cord pulls him back. He had to use his every strentgh and over a dozen runs to get to it. Once he got it, he didn't "love" the challenge like he said he would, but broke down crying. He suddenly understood what it felt like to her every time he graded her. He made her try harder and harder. It was taking the fun out of sex and their relationship. He was basically preventing their (sex)life from being wonderful. It was not about techniques, but about attitudes. Once they were allowing themselves to live and love free from constant judgement, she actually revealed to be quite a tigress!
[QUOTE=hands_off_the_goods;275451]Alright so i'be gotten my gag reflex mostly under control. I can take my husband fully into my throat with my nose pressed into his abdomen and my chin against his balls...I asked what I could do to improve and he says that my back teeth scrape against him.. which he says is normal.. he's only had 1 where the woman's teeth didn't touch him at all. Well, I want to be able to do that too! I've got my front teeth under control but I cant think of how to keep my back teeth out of it.. any suggestions?[/QUOTE]
I am mystified as to how your back teeth can scrape him if you are taking his penis into your throat. Are your molars crooked and turned toward the middle of your mouth?
I have known of women who tried to pass the penis between the molars so that it juts out into the cheek based on the misconception that it will give the impresssion of being deeper inside the mouth. This idea is more fallacious than fellatious because this is a sureefire technique for scraping up the penis.
The penis should only pass over the incisors (front teeth) and then continue toward the back of the mouth and throat, if possible. Avoid scraping it with the front teeth. Once you can get his penis into your mouth past the circumcison scar (or where the foreskin connects) You are set for great fellatio. But what really makes a great BJ is foreplay. That's right. Stoking his thighs, abdomen, scrotum, licking his penis all over, teasing it with your hair, talking sexy, looking up at him sexily. Get him really worked up before you actually start fellating him. Switch up your techniques too - head bobbing, sucking, tongue flicking inside the mouth. Now you are on the way to giving the best BJ ever.
Also read the following
http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/pleasing-him/13534-blowjobs-novice.html#...
I'm happy to hear that's the case, H. I was slightly worried there.
Coincidentally I have experience with deepthroating an upward curved penis too :) The 69 position works best for me, as his penis curves along the line of my throat. Have you paid attention to how you point your chin? When going down, I've noticed it becomes tempting to bend my head slightly with my chin towards my chest. Making my upper-teeth and molars closer to his penis. Whereas you'd actually want to slightly point your chin upward (as if something is happening in front of you and you look up). That way his penis pressures more towards your tongue than towards your palate, thus avoiding the teeth/molars in your upper jaw. And as long as you keep you tongue flat and wide; it covers both the molars and teeth of your lower jaw. This should prevent any scraping from happening.
Hope this helps!
[QUOTE=dlb;275456]I am mystified as to how your back teeth can scrape him if you are taking his penis into your throat. Are your molars crooked and turned toward the middle of your mouth?
The penis should only pass over the incisors (front teeth) and then continue toward the back of the mouth and throat, if possible. Avoid scraping it with the front teeth. Once you can get his penis into your mouth past the circumcison scar (or where the foreskin connects) You are set for great fellatio. But what really makes a great BJ is foreplay. That's right. Stoking his thighs, abdomen, scrotum, licking his penis all over, teasing it with your hair, talking sexy, looking up at him sexily. Get him really worked up before you actually start fellating him. Switch up your techniques too - head bobbing, sucking, tongue flicking inside the mouth. Now you are on the way to giving the best BJ ever.
Also read the following
http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/pleasing-him/13534-blowjobs-novice.html#...[/QUOTE]
I dont think my molars are crooked, I do have one that had started growing in before the baby tooth was ready to come out, it ended up turning it so I can feel it more when I run my tongue on the inside of my teeth.. the only other thing I can think of. Is maybe I have a smaller upper jaw?
As for the suggestions above, the teasing and.stroking of thighs doesn't do much for him. The rest of it, however, I already do. I know what he likes and what he doesnt like, i just don't know how to fix my back teeth scraping his shaft. I asked about a teeth guard like for martial arts but he said it would get in the way since it is meant to be in your mouth with your jaw shut and holding it in place.. not sure what to do or if there is even anything I can do
[QUOTE=dancingdoc2;275452]> i always want to better myself and be the best.
If you have not already begun reading all of the articles listed in the Index, please begin today. In fact if he joins you, then the two of you can discuss what you have learned, add the information to what each of you already knows, and become world class lovers as a result.
As for scraping his shaft with your back teeth, try relaxing or opening your mouth by dropping your lower jaw somewhat. Encircle his penis with moist lips only. You can use your tongue as a bonus.
Keep his penis in the center of your mouth and do not attempt deep penetration except for deep-throating.
Depending upon the angle of his erect penis it may be necessary to change positions. An angled or bent penis can scrape against teeth without repositioning one or the other of you.[/QUOTE]
I've already read and tried out the techniques and he's let me know which ones he liked and which ones he didn't like. As for changing positions... Him laying down with me between his legs with him moving his pelvis to help position himself better or a 69 postition are the only ways I can deep throat him. He curves upwards which makes hitting the g-spot easy.... And quite amazing... But a bit difficult for deep throating without a bit of effort.
[QUOTE=hands_off_the_goods;275518]To make it more clear, he doesn't grade or rate me normally... I ASK to be graded. My husband is a great guy and never makes me feel inferior or puts me down. If i didn't ask him, he wouldn't do it. I appreciate his honesty when I ask him because it's always something I want to improve on.[/QUOTE]
I'm not sure that the truth is ALWAYS best, or at least not in this scenario. Honey, how's my BJ on a scale of 1 to 10? Baby, it's a 20!:D
Nothing can make a guy so soft like teeth. Don't have an answer but man teeth suck. Its llike an electric shock