I thought this true story of mine might help out any ladies who have ever been pressured by a guy not wanting to use a condom. Some guys are slick and will try whatever means it takes to not have to use one but you need to keep 1 thing in your head at ALL times-YOU are in control of the situation, not him.
I went out with a guy on our first date. He was great looking, very suave, and nice mannered. Everything was going great, we decided to go back to his place for a little fun. Now, I always carry condoms with me and if Im gonna have sex with somebody, I'll lay the condoms on the nightstand near the bed so they are in reach when things get hot n heavy. It wasn't long and things were at that point. I was laying on top of him and I was reaching over trying to stretch enough to get one of the condoms and he kept kinda pulling me back, tickling me kissing me and trying to distract me from getting it. Then he asks, "What are you doing baby?" I smile and say "Trying to get the condom silly, will you let me get it please"? He asks, "Why"? It was at that point that I sat right up on top of him, looked him dead in his eyes and said "Because I have AIDS". He gasped "WHAT??" I said" Well, you dont know if I do or not now do you?" That gave him a reality check real quick.
I don't have AIDS or any other diseases but the point is, this guy didn't know me from anybody and was going to risk his life. You cant look at a person and know if they might have something. Be strong, stand your ground and tell it like it is!