I have a problem... I like sex extremely kinky(bondage, whips, candle wax, cigarette burns, scratching, biting, etc.) in both dom and sub. the thing is it's gotten slightly boring, i'm out of ideas to make things new or interesting. And i'd kinda like to find good ways to tease her or ideas for foreplay.
Also with every girl i've been with prior i used to get off once for every time they did 3 times, now with her i may get off 3 times and her only once or twice. She prefers intercourse over oral or fingering, but its hard not to get off before her. i'd like any ideas on how to last longer or get her off more.
one more thing, she likes ice sometimes and less often she likes candle wax, but it makes a mess as it melts(more ice than wax) the vibrator we have doesn't do much for her, can i get some ideas for ways to excite her? sometime around December i may get a tongue ring, hopefully that'll help.