After being separated from my ex for 9 years,i have a new bf almost 10 years my senior.We have known each other for a long time as just friends,but he has recently told me that he has fancied me for a while now and has fantasised about being with me sexually.He brings out the raunchy side of me that i never knew i had in me. My ex was dominating and didn't please me properly,my new bf wants to attend to my every need.I want to please him too but am afraid i will dissapoint him.Any advice?
Mon, 08/02/2010 - 12:05
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The simple answer is: "What I fear, I create" [Dr. Phil].
> my new bf wants to attend to my every need. I want to please him too but am afraid i will dissapoint him. Any advice?
How do you fear you will disappoint him? Romantically? Sexually? Your cooking? Your ability to interact and entertain him? Other?
If you are concerned about the first two items, then please read this article:
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We all worry about our satisfying our men. Just do it. Anything you feel like. He will like it just fine.
very nice! sounds like me!