I recently got a new gf. I really really like her, and we just had sex for the first time. Neither of us are or were virgins, this was just our first time together. It went really well, I actually made her come 9 times. We are about to have sex for the second time. Shes a big fan of rear entry and face to face, but can get nervous trying new positions. Anyone have some good advice on adventurous but not scary ideas to throw in this time around? :)
Mon, 12/21/2009 - 22:52
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New Sexual Relationship
Find the sticky posts entitled The Program & Body Worship then go and do what's listed there. Then just take your time.
[QUOTE=Careless_whisper;249777]...I actually made her come 9 times. We are about to have sex for the second time....[/QUOTE]
Good luck following that one up.
Not a problem, LickMy, most women have no problem handling multiple orgasms and all women are equipped to do so.
The two sticky posts The Program and Body Worship should be your guide.
Please note: that it is NOT your job alone to 'mix it up'. Give the lady room to express herself. Also you don't "give" women orgasms, you ASSIST.
I feel like the reason our sex was so good is because of how well we click. Even though things are still relatively early, we both feel the same. Somehow, im not that worried about making her come as much in the future, the first time was just exploring her, now ill be just a little more informed, just as every time, I think. I just kind of anticipated what she wanted during, we communicated well. And when the relationship goes on, i plan on mixing things up at random and not just when "its nessecary". Does that sound like a good idea? :/
The down side is she will expect that every time and a lot of times it is hotter at first and then it loses that luster. That is when you have to be creative.
This is to suppose that sex is the same every time and this is not the case. As people and circumstances change and the trials of living occur -so too will the sexual experience change. Some days are sweeter than others but to breathe and remain doing so is nonetheless good. So too with sex - some interludes maybe more or less than other interludes but to enjoy sex and to be able to enjoy sex is still good.
Thanks EvilKitten, you have a point. And thanks for the advice :)