visual stimulation. Playing with yourself, even over your clothing works wonders.

Words, words, words.

Master talking dirty.

You know what he wants sexually, so take some time to think about what he wants and then try to translate it into words.

Tell him no. Tell him not yet. Make him wait. Do this while wearing nothing but a pair of stilletos.

Dirty talk is always nice. If he doesn't seem to get into it, move on.

As for Evil's suggestion, there's a certain timing necessary for that. Wait too long, or not long enough, and the sex will be dull. But try some slow stripping, or undressing him very slowly and deliberately, and a little playing with yourself can go a long way toward making the blood boil.

No - the idea is to stop "pleasing him" and begin pleasing herself using him. The idea is to make him wonder if he'll survive this sexual episode. An unbridled woman is a wonderful she-beast!

MAKE HIM SWEAT

And sex if done right is never ever dull.

Everytime my wife buys new underwear I get a fashion show and by the end I'm dying. The topper is usually I get the show earlier in the evening and we wait until later for the main event. The build up is ridiculous. The images floating in my head make the couple of hours seems like days.

[QUOTE=EvilEvilKitten;237162]Tell him no. Tell him not yet. Make him wait. Do this while wearing nothing but a pair of stilletos.[/QUOTE]

I've found that some guys particularly like a certain article of clothing. you could subtly find out what he likes (I've seen fedoras, scarves, cutoff denim shorts) and use that to your advantage. But stilletos does seem to be a universal thing :)

Yes, because they do amazing things for your legs and while sexy, they also hint at danger - a very intoxicating mixture.

[QUOTE=childgoddess;238257]Please don't be saying that stuff buck naked. I am romantically involved with somebody....[/QUOTE]

He wasn't saying anything out of line. He was suggesting you do the same, and explaining how it makes him feel when his wife does it to him to give you an idea of the effect.

Perhaps she's shy or has body issues and thinks romance is all "hearts & flowers" and has nothing to do with sex, nudity, and a bit of hip-shaking.

while kissing him hard hug him so tight that would actually meet your breast with his chest, then rub your vagina with his cock. don't stop kissing him then slowly touch his penis, while kissing him slowly rub his penis to your pussy then make the head go in and out of your pussy. this always work.

childgoddess: after a fresh shower/bath rub sweet smelling body lotion all over your breasts and legs, wear some thick sexy lipstick, put on in a thin almost see thru white dress with a low top exposing your cleavage (no bra, panties optional). lean down on occasssion to tease him letting him see all of your breasts ( by accident only). keep moving, don't let him touch you, come close to him at times as if you want to kiss, but don't kiss just smile and keep moving your body in other fancy positions. another great position would be you leaning over with your arms on a table or low stool with your bunns in the air in the perfect position for doggey style (make sure he sees your curvy nice ass, then slowly move away. Let him see way up your leg maybe just a slight view at times. smile! look him deep in the eyes! tell him you are waiting on your gf to call so U 2 can go shopping and girl talking.

Men are more stimulated by what they see, so dress up as he likes, or take it off. Also, gently tickling his scrotum can be very erotic and just behind the scrotum. Also, a gentle wet tongue in the ear may do it.

Of course none of the suggestions may work as intended.

We don't know your partner so we just throw a bunch of stuff out hoping something hits the mark; "this works/worked for me" kind of thing.

But that you who SHOULD know your partner has to ask a bunch of strangers to find out different ways to interest/thrill your partner...tsk, tsk.

Tie him to a chair, be the boss for the night, tease him till he's begging and when it gets to the actual pleasing remember, as the boss your using him to please yourself, make sure he's aware of that fact using your.. um... managerial skills.

> Tie him to a chair, be the boss for the night, tease him till he's begging

Oh, yes, this one. I've mentioned a time or two in the past about a Clint Eastwood Dirty Harry movie, I think, in which his character was tied to a straight back wooden chair by a vixen who had her way with him. Powerless to resist, mad that he was responding, for me the scene should be an all time classic.

Think lap dance, also.

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All of these look like great suggestions..just reading them kind of gets me turned on.

Take him by surprise--at a time and perhaps in a location that isn't typical for you two.

Your going the right direction, find out his hot spots, everybody is different. Once you find them use them to your advantage. To spice things up, be willing to open yourself to different things. There are all kinds of sex toys, games and books out there. You are young so if I can give you advice, COMMUNICATION in bed. Don't be afraid to talk about anything sexually with your man, you will be surprised how he will listen to you when you talk the language of sex. Get books, and share with him. Create a funbox (a box with all my sexual goodies), with the things you enjoy and things he can enjoy with you. Keep it in your bedroom in a special place. Now in time this box may need to be expanded. When I first showed my funbox with my bf he was a bit scared, but found out that I was willing to a least talk about anything and now he enjoys adding to the box...Building your sexual knowledge is key to building your confidence. Always remember there is always something to explore no matter how long you been with somebody or how old you get to be...:)

[QUOTE=childgoddess;247153]VanellaSchnella ....

You shouldn't be talking like that. I have a boyfriend...[/QUOTE]

I don't know if you are serious or are trying to flirt.. anyway i didnt mean having you do this stuff to me.. I was thinking about having it done to me by my girlfriend. Sorry if I confused you.

She doesn't quite understand the difference between a guy giving suggestions, and a guy being vulgar. She said the same thing to buck too.