hey sorry if this doesn't go here i apologize
heres some background so you can understand where this is all comming from. Basically last year for my birthday some friends bought me a bondage 101 kit from spencers as a joke (well...sorta).
this year...a different friend wanted to see this gift...took it out looked at it and insulted the paddle that came with it so this year shes sending me this big paddle...what i am hoping to find is...
what bondage type gift could i send back to her that would be funny...i was thinking a whip or something but i am not one for simplicity...i wanna have some fun with it and not just have it be the whip...so any ideas that people could give me....(without it looking like i wanna use them on her)
idk if its really bondage, but what about those full body latex suits? I think those things look pretty whacky
HAHA!! Ducy's idea is great!!! And the two girls and one cup video!
Cuffs and massage candles? When the wax drips off the candle onto the skin it becomes massage oil.
I thought it was supposed to be more of a joke...
Melted wax....sounds hot! lol
it is supposed to be more of a joke than serious
A studded collar? Nice restraints?
hmm i like that idea...though i can't see her in a collar...but i am sure she would laugh at that...i just have to hope she follows through with her idea...otherwise i would feel awkward sending her this stuff
[quote=Confusedone;213414]hmm i like that idea...though i can't see her in a collar...but i am sure she would laugh at that...i just have to hope she follows through with her idea...otherwise i would feel awkward sending her this stuff[/quote] If you do not think she would wear it then buy one of the small leather necklaces which have a gold or silver bead attached, tell her she MUST wear it until you tell her to take it off. And tell her if anyone asks about it, she cannot tell; otherwise, you will paddle her. But be sure it's more of a decorative necklace then kink...only the two of you would know what it means & that can be taken as a joke or "implied" as curious [and it's subtle]. :)
i like that idea its really awesome..only i think that would give the impression i like her...and plus like i said or should have said...shes not much for a submissive gift...if anything she would want something to be in charge with
[quote=Confusedone;213428]i like that idea its really awesome..only i think that would give the impression i like her...and plus like i said or should have said...shes not much for a submissive gift...if anything she would want something to be in charge with[/quote]Tell her it's usable on any person...you can keep it a joke if that's what it is. However, if you think she is into you and you are not into her...maybe just a friendly gift or funny card that is non-sexual?
as far as i know she isn't into me...due to the circumstances of our friendship we have only hung out twice....
all considering we are very close and open in a way ...but i can't tell if she likes me so i would rather not mess with stuff till i know for certain otherwise.
regardless i will keep it in mind...becuase depending on how out of the way she goes i am going further...so i might have a use for it