BODY WORSHIP
The following is a detailed account of how body worship is done. Either gender may do this to their partner or you can both try to do this simultaneously to each other, which is a blast and lots of fun.
Begin with your partner naked and lying face down onto the bed. Using an edible oil, begin lightly massaging neck, shoulders, and, arms, slowly working him/her over from head to toe. Repeat using heavier and heavier hands. A woman doing this to a man may have to use her full body weight here, while also nibbling, kissing, licking, biting, scratching, caressing in agonizing slowness every where you had previously massaged. Use your body, your hair--everything, to lightly trace arabesques all over your partner's body. Mix it up between a heavy touch and barely felt, between pleasure and just a hint of pain. Take your time with this. Then slide back and have him/her roll over.
Do the same on the front as you did on the back but DO NOT TOUCH his/her genitals. Save those for last. Once again take your time, be slow, slow, slow and lingering - you want to drive him/her mad with lust. Then when he/she is at your mercy, you may then engage in sexual intercourse beginning with oral sex and progressing through to earth-shattering multiple orgasms for both partners.
When I say all of his/her body I do mean all of his/her body including nibbling fingertips and sucking toes. Breathe on his body hair to ruffle it. Feel free to experiment - does he/she like it when I do this? Lick scars. Kiss the outer corners of his/her eyes and lips lightly with just a hint of a moist tip of the tongue. Slide your fingers in between and up along his/hers. Do several things at once in an attempt to provide sensory overload. It is all good. The more adventurous can add in vibrators for P-Spot/G-Spot massage as well. Please note that no equipment is required. You do not even have to use the oil.
The only caveat is NO TICKLING. If you do inadvertently tickle, immediately wipe the sensation away using a slightly heavier touch on that area.
* Bows respectfully
Wow. I tried something like this with my wife once, but she didn't really get into it. I think I was doing it wrong, but I'm not sure. What I do know is that when she gets "driven mad with lust" she's not into waiting around 'cause she wants to get down to business. Frankly, I'm game for trying this again and seeing if it works, but we'll see.....
Engage that is why you make her wait, hun.
i love the idea of this i am deffinatly going to experiment with body worship with my boyfried one question though can i use lube instead of oil? only because i already have some lube and it would save me going to the shop.
Don't want to step on EEK's toes here, but I know a bit about massage and I'd think it would apply for this as well- and if not, I'm glad to be corrected! The thing about oils designed specifically for massage is that they are light and absorb into the skin easily without leaving stickiness or residue. Every part of their composition is meant to be absorbed, from the carrier oil to the specific herbal oils that are added in in very small quantities. I like to blend my own oils, but you can get them already mixed up for you over the web or even sometimes from places like Bath and Body Works. The advantage to blending my own is that I know exactly what's in it and have no problem licking it, but if you go with store-bought, just read the label, maybe taste a bit on your finger if you're so inclined, and decide whether you want to go with that or with a flavored one.
The problem with lubricants is that they may not be so light and residue-free; I know that even my favorite, Astroglide, does leave some stickiness and feels heavy on my hands. You probably don't want to use that as a massage oil because the point here is not to get a nice body rub and then have to jump in the shower. It's up to you and your partner, but for massage sessions with The Boy, I prefer to use my oils and leave the lube for massaging elsewhere.
well ok i'll go and get some i was just wondering weather it would do the same thing or not but obviously not.
I use mineral oil for body massages which can be licked but does tend to leave some residue behind and lubricant, Astroglide or KY, for intercourse. But you can use whatever you feel comfy with. I know one man who uses Johnson's Baby oil for both applications. Blech but he likes it.
If just massaging without intercourse afterwards I use scented oils that I mix myself. My favorite for me is Attar of roses with Tabac and for men cedar and geranium.
If'n you are a city dweller, look round for a bath shop or a botique for these items. Depending upon the shop, they may stock massage oils. Also, if you know a massage therapist (as I do) ask her what she recommends and where she purchases her products.
You can also consult online stores and see what they have to offer.
I agree that using an oil designed for the skin is best because this type of oil will not leave an residue. You can wipe your hands later and not find a trace of it, unlike cooking/salad oil for example. I would continue to use a bath towel for the person to lie on.
Adding a couple of drops of an essence is a nice addition. If you find a large bottle of oil, you can always divide it up. Pharmacies should have small plastic squirt bottles or bottles with an eye dropper cap for sale. These work very will and store easily in a nightstand. Place the large bottle away in a cupboard somewhere.
[QUOTE=EvilEvilKitten;188891]I use mineral oil for body massages which can be licked but does tend to leave some residue behind[/QUOTE]
It's also a laxative used to treat constipation so I wouldn't swallow too much of it if any.
There are two rules:
R#1: Only use a condom once
R#2: Never use an oil-based lube with a Latex condom
The amount of lubrication is just what a couple would ordinarily use.
about mineral oil as a laxative,
my doctor told me to get some for constipation
i was directed to take it for a number of months, so i would not worry about swallowing any of it, it wouldn't have any affect on your spool.
i know that oils used as lubricants will break the condom b/c of friction, but how much oil would it take? like if i'm massaging my girl with mineral oil and then i put on a condom with out removing whatever oils are on my hands and engage in intercourse is it possible that the condom may break?
id realy like to try out this body worshiping thing- but im so shy when it comes to sex :$ does anyone have any ideas on how to make it less embarrasing for me? btw i do trust my fiance 100%! im just easily embarresed.. x
Cook2b then perhaps you'd just better not have sex. Hear me out. You have to understand that who you are matters more than how you look etc. Until you can embrace that philosophy - and give over being shy and embarassed - it would be better for you to restrict your enjoyment of sex to your comfort level. Baby steps, as it is called.
lol i couldnt go with out sex thats silly! lol! but i do understand wha your saying EEK . ive always been embaresed its not just with sex im just that kind of person- i love my fiance so much! i couldnt refuse him sex! xx
BODY WORSHIP in DETAIL
You begin with him lying face down with a pillow slightly elevating his upper chest for comfort. The idea is to both relax and arouse him while discovering exactly what works with his body. Start at his head and slowly kiss, nibble, lick, suck, bite, caress with trailing tresses, lips, tongue, hands, claws, and your body all the way down his. Slowly means agonizingly slowly. Vary the sides, the direction of movement, the pressure as you trace graceful arabesques along his skin. Make a careful mental note of what he and his body likes and dislikes in the way of touch. He is not permitted to move during body worship. He must learn to accept your caress. If you leave slight claw marks make a note later of how fast they disappear.
Have a look at a man’s anatomy. The nerves form a network that you can follow. Tracing up his spine with a slightly moist tongue tip and ending with a passionately wet and heavy kiss onto the nape of his neck while holding his shoulders tightly in your arms is most effective both from a nerve stimulating point of view but also from a psychological view, this movement being how a cat kills its prey – the bite to the back of the neck. A man is vulnerable in this position. Such small motions can have profound effects.
Also note how his muscles run and how each connects to the bone. The heaviest pressures should only be applied to areas of heavy muscle or directly onto bone. A man’ shoulders and thighs are usually heavily muscled. Beware of applying any pressure onto his joints. When pressing onto bone move along the bone; for example, the femur, the large thigh bone, runs up and down and bears the weight of his body along its length. Pressure across the bone might cause damage while pressure along the bone will not. When ‘Stroking the Bones’, always move along the bone in the direction of their strength.
Another movement is slowly licking up the backs of his legs from the ankles to his rump. If you lave moisture behind, gently blow onto his skin. This will dry the moisture and chill that bit of skin adding more stimuli. If he has scars, they will usually be sensitive. You can use this sensitivity to great effect as well. Tickling is not desirable. Remember while you are doing this to take the time to appreciate the planes and angles of his body, the feel of his skin, the hardness of his muscles – whatever delights you since you may want to compliment him or remark on it later. Murmurs of appreciation and encouragement during body worship are optional.
Now it is time for him to roll over. Once again begin at the head; kissing the outer corners of his eyes, nibbling his neck, kissing his throat, tracing the outline of his lips with a dry tongue-tip, etc. Gradually work your way down, do not neglect his fingers and toes either, but do NOT touch his genitals. Take your time and note nuances – learn to “listen” to his body. Explore him. Experiment upon him. Enjoy him.
Wow, EEK, I tried body worship on my boyfriend and MY god. It went down soo well. During it all too, I'd tell him what I loved about him and he just melted into me and did the EXACT same to me. It was amazing. It was not even in a sexual way, just loving each others bodies. Took us to another level. Thanks :)
Cook2b, hun get over the shy stuff. i was that way for years and can tell you i cheated myself. besides, men are visual creatures. most are very turned on by watching your 'assets' bounce and watching you really enjoy yourself. try the body worship thing. my hubby and i did and it was great. life's to short to waste it being shy. get naked and have fun!
maybe your right dixie_chick. i wil try it when i next see him :D hope it goes down well :P
If a man is really interested in you - he will undoubtedly adore experiencing the unbridled, totally uninhibited you!
I have done something similar to this, and it is increadably enjoyable for both me and my husband. The only difference is I don't use oils. I actually use honey/chocolate or strawberry syrup/cherries and cherry juice. Granted, we do have to take showers afterwards, and it is a little messy so we're usually not on a bed, or anything, but it's still great fun :)
OMG EEK I think I love you lol. So i finally got to do this....sorta. And I made her cum like 3 times in about 20 minutes. I just sat there for about a half an hour kissing her entire body, running my hands down ther legs and stomach just all kinds of stuff...she got so worked up over just a half an hour, that she came about 2 seconds after penetration.
So my only question to you is...got anymore tips to amazing sex?
Buy my books, Ducy. It is ALL in there!
I was looking for this haha
I think this is important info and I actually might save it so I can use it when I have sex and I want to do it correct and of course loving my boyfriend, (yes my boyfriend now)and making him feel good is what matters to me too.
I do have to admit I'm a little nervous so I think I should wait until I feel right about it and not think negative on incredible parts of life like this.
I want to do this but my boyfriend is super ticklish.. any pressure to his stomach or chest unless it's as hard as a punch makes him giggle, heh giggle, what should I do? When he's arosed it takes more to tickle him, but at times a light touch anywhere makes him laugh, even on his arm.
You very your touch, of course. Light, heavy, whatever - and he will become habituated so you will not always have to worry about this. You can also lick, scratch, touch with your hair and slide it across - oh so many things! This is LOTS of fun!
[QUOTE=gorgeous_mistake;212135]I want to do this but my boyfriend is super ticklish.. any pressure to his stomach or chest unless it's as hard as a punch makes him giggle, heh giggle, what should I do? When he's arosed it takes more to tickle him, but at times a light touch anywhere makes him laugh, even on his arm.[/QUOTE]
My boyfriend's also super ticklish lol. But a light tickle is a nice feeling anyway, right? I forever trace his skin, and it tickles generally, and every so often he does a little twitch 'cause it tickles a lot.. when sometimes sensitive like that, it's so much fun to trace one way, say up their back, with a very light, ticklish touch, and then to trace down with your nails. Yea, I think this would work in body worship, you could probably use it to your advantage more than anything.
[QUOTE=EvilEvilKitten;212152]You very your touch, of course. Light, heavy, whatever - and he will become habituated so you will not always have to worry about this. You can also lick, scratch, touch with your hair and slide it across - oh so many things! This is LOTS of fun![/QUOTE]
Sounds like it!! Thanks eek!
[QUOTE=Beckeh;212158]My boyfriend's also super ticklish lol. But a light tickle is a nice feeling anyway, right? I forever trace his skin, and it tickles generally, and every so often he does a little twitch 'cause it tickles a lot.. when sometimes sensitive like that, it's so much fun to trace one way, say up their back, with a very light, ticklish touch, and then to trace down with your nails. Yea, I think this would work in body worship, you could probably use it to your advantage more than anything.[/QUOTE]
I like the way that sounds!! Thank you to you too!!
As you might imagine, I am very, very good at sex.
Yes EEK, we all know you're the queen/goddess/ruler of sex
I sooo wana do this with my boy friend, i just don't know how to put it accross to him, as he is generaly horney all the time and always just wants sex straight away
Please read the how-to articles listed in the Index with your boyfriend. He needs some education and enlightenment that making out is not all about getting his rocks off. It is about demonstrating the love each of you has for the other.
There is a reason for all the time devoted to making out. A proverbial Quickie is fine once in a while, however, he needs to learn to make LOVE to you, not just satisfy and "itch" and maybe hope you get an orgasm somehow, too.
You can help by intentionally slowing him down, after reading the articles so that you both understand what to do in between the first kiss an the last orgasm.
what is the P/spot and the g/spot?
the g spot makes a woman vibrate like a massage toy and sometimes makes her head spin around like a top. the p spot is what men tell you that you must not ever try to touch on them...silly scaredy cats!
Oh! That's how you body worship...and I thought it was complementing your partners bodies :P
Hmm! You put massage then erotic massage then body worship on your other sticky called The Program but isn't it all the same? I kinda get it though...first you start by just massaging, relaxing them. Then you get more into with light kissing and nibbling and finally you just full out go up and down their body sexually while enjoying them. If I made any mistakes please correct me.
I would love to do this with my boyfriend...I have plenty of lotions and body oil anyway! Can I just say that for the ones out there who are affected by the low American Economy right now Bath and Body Works is an amazing store to get lots of lotions, creams, oils, bath products and what not for really good prices. I'm not spamming just trying to help out those that have a low income.
Someone should post a thread about how to make your own oils ! That would be awesome!
Coconut or almond oil work very well for massages as well. A quart of coconut oil is sold in grocery store cooking aisles for only $4-6. That's enough for a few years for many couples. Almond oil is going to be about 3x as expensive. You may add fragrances to these if you choose. Rosewood is nice.
Go to CVS and get a bottle of mineral oil. Then go to a food shop and buy extracts. Combine the two.
Please note: edible so you can lick all you want.
Oh ok thanks :) That is a lot easier then what I thought it would be. Cheap too.
Sesshlove
this is awesome!
I've gotten some great massage oils at a porn shop. Some of them come in different flavors.
I love it nd going to try it cant wait.....
[QUOTE=EvilEvilKitten;188891]I use mineral oil for body massages which can be licked but does tend to leave some residue behind and lubricant, Astroglide or KY, for intercourse. But you can use whatever you feel comfy with. I know one man who uses Johnson's Baby oil for both applications. Blech but he likes it.
If just massaging without intercourse afterwards I use scented oils that I mix myself. My favorite for me is Attar of roses with Tabac and for men cedar and geranium.[/QUOTE]
Adding a couple of drops of an essence is a nice addition. If you find a large bottle of oil, you can always divide it up. Pharmacies should have small plastic squirt bottles or bottles with an eye dropper cap for sale. These work very will and store easily in a nightstand. Place the large bottle away in a cupboard somewhere.
thanks you
Thanx guys I really needed an advise on body worship, I'm definitely going 2 use this techniques on my partner.
Hey EEK, in your travels have you ever researched Hindu Tantric Sex techniques? Body Worship and the Program seem to be referencing some of the techniques used there.
Yeah but Tantric has this spiritual baggage that tends to get in the way esp. when you DON'T want to invest the relationship with such emotions. For example: sitting there facing each other and willing yourselves to have orgasms without touching doesn't do all that much for me. "Let the Goddess in you reach out and join with the God in him!" Yeah, I'll get right on that...not.
I'm more of primal kind of sex-fiend, ty.
But without the "spiritual baggage" and the yoga, I don't find your techniques and some of those practiced in Tantric to be that different.
True, but then a nervous system is a nervous system - so the techniques are not going to be all that different. But there is a difference between the goody-goody Tantric and the EEK primal in mood.
I have to say I like the EEK method. I've watched videos and other "training" things in the past, and I couldn't get past the corniness of the whole tantric part. We tried some of the simple things, and couldn't get past giggling on how dumb we felt.
I think that whenever people seek a deeper level of relaxation, pleasure and even healing, spiritual and primal get very close together in meaning. It's because both are a way of saying you are returning to the essence of being.
Which is not that weird. We are not separate entities of mind, body and soul. You are one living and breathing, thinking and feeling being. In the tiny cores of our cells, where our DNA defines us, also lies the similarity with everything living. On an even deeper level, there's this electric energy that resonates in all of us. The tiniest parts are therefor our most primal, yet also our spiritual connection to everything around us.
Personally; when I feel deeply in touch with my essence of being, is the moment where the world becomes endlessly elliptical. It's where I'm centered deep inside myself, yet embracing space till I fuse with it. It's breathing fire, clawing the earth and dancing across the stars at the same time. And while I gently sway like a feather, my thoughts and feelings are clear as crystal, as if a waterfall just ran through me. I can't think of an experience that has such a profound effect on me as having sex.
And the beauty of it all is: everyone can do it. Everyone can get back in touch with their essence. You're born with it. It's just a matter of preference which words, actions or methods appeal to you most to find the way. Which is why it's so wonderful so many exist :)
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