You won't hurt him. If he wants you to be dominant, try tying him up and just having your way with him.

[QUOTE=sageadvice79;167295]so what if I want him to lick my ass
or I want to lick his...
any way to incorporate that?

I don't want to tie him up - we're trying to do this Prop-free[/QUOTE]

Put your ass in his face, tell him to stick his tongue out & then sit on it. That would be so hot if my girl did that.

How to dominate a man in 3 easy steps. One: get the attitude - it is all about you, not him. His only purpose is to please and serve you. If you aren't going to be hard-core, with whips and chains, you're going to have to rule through force of personality. Two: Coreograph several scenarios that incorporate sex acts that please you. For example, stand there in your stilettos and have him slowly lick, kiss, and caress you all over from the ankles on up. Three: Always reward him for excellent service but do it last and from your perspective not his. It isn't a "blow job", it is "feeding off the male".

Throughout this entire process, you can be as passive or as aggressive as you want to be. You can switch between the two. You also do not need a lot of gear. Go to a pet store and get a collar from the big dog section in a size that looks good on his neck - not tight and not too thick or thin. Usually 1 inch wide works the best. This way, he can signal that he would like to be dominated by just appearing with the collar around his neck or you can iniate by telling him to get his collar on.

[QUOTE=EvilEvilKitten;167343]How to dominate a man in 3 easy steps. One: get the attitude - it is all about you, not him. His only purpose is to please and serve you. If you aren't going to be hard-core, with whips and chains, you're going to have to rule through force of personality. Two: Coreograph several scenarios that incorporate sex acts that please you. For example, stand there in your stilettos and have him slowly lick, kiss, and caress you all over from the ankles on up. Three: Always reward him for excellent service but do it last and from your perspective not his. It isn't a "blow job", it is "feeding off the male".

Throughout this entire process, you can be as passive or as aggressive as you want to be. You can switch between the two. You also do not need a lot of gear. Go to a pet store and get a collar from the big dog section in a size that looks good on his neck - not tight and not too thick or thin. Usually 1 inch wide works the best. This way, he can signal that he would like to be dominated by just appearing with the collar around his neck or you can iniate by telling him to get his collar on.[/QUOTE]

lol i dont think the both of them had anything like this in mind.
You got a little carried away there.

[QUOTE]so what if I want him to lick my ass
or I want to lick his...
any way to incorporate that?[/QUOTE]

You are dominating him so go for it. Anything you want. Just make sure you have a safe word.

If you want to dominate a man - who better to ask than a dominatrix?
Please note, I did not say use whips and chains.
But if you want to have him really believe it, and get the full enjoyment possible out of it, you're going to have to really do it.

So no, I do not think I got 'carried away', hun.
Nice idea however *EG*

Do you go to the fetish clubs in Sheffield?
Do you attend WGW?

Thanks for the ideas EEK...definately an eye opener.

where are the fetish clubs in sheffield i live there :))

[QUOTE=EvilEvilKitten;167343]How to dominate a man in 3 easy steps. One: get the attitude - it is all about you, not him. His only purpose is to please and serve you. If you aren't going to be hard-core, with whips and chains, you're going to have to rule through force of personality. Two: Coreograph several scenarios that incorporate sex acts that please you. For example, stand there in your stilettos and have him slowly lick, kiss, and caress you all over from the ankles on up. Three: Always reward him for excellent service but do it last and from your perspective not his. It isn't a "blow job", it is "feeding off the male".

Throughout this entire process, you can be as passive or as aggressive as you want to be. You can switch between the two. You also do not need a lot of gear. Go to a pet store and get a collar from the big dog section in a size that looks good on his neck - not tight and not too thick or thin. Usually 1 inch wide works the best. This way, he can signal that he would like to be dominated by just appearing with the collar around his neck or you can iniate by telling him to get his collar on.[/QUOTE]

Dominate me please. :D

[QUOTE=EvilEvilKitten;167343]How to dominate a man in 3 easy steps. One: get the attitude - it is all about you, not him. His only purpose is to please and serve you. If you aren't going to be hard-core, with whips and chains, you're going to have to rule through force of personality. Two: Coreograph several scenarios that incorporate sex acts that please you. For example, stand there in your stilettos and have him slowly lick, kiss, and caress you all over from the ankles on up. Three: Always reward him for excellent service but do it last and from your perspective not his. It isn't a "blow job", it is "feeding off the male".

Throughout this entire process, you can be as passive or as aggressive as you want to be. You can switch between the two. You also do not need a lot of gear. Go to a pet store and get a collar from the big dog section in a size that looks good on his neck - not tight and not too thick or thin. Usually 1 inch wide works the best. This way, he can signal that he would like to be dominated by just appearing with the collar around his neck or you can iniate by telling him to get his collar on.[/QUOTE]

You always have something good to say I will have to try that with my boy :)