Female Ejaculation
An even greater mystery to most people than Female Orgasm is female ejaculation. Although we may have heard stories about friends who can ejaculate, or who have been with women who can ejaculate, many of us have never actually experienced it first hand. When asked to describe the ejaculations, responses are often quite similar, "It's liquid, it's clear, it's wet, and it squirts". Beyond this, the details have always been quite sketchy.
Let's begin by understanding what the elements of the ejaculate are. The four main ingredients are Glucose, prostatic acid phosphatase (an enzyme which is characteristic of the prostatic component of semen), urea and creatinine. The last two ingredients are commonly found in urine, but are in lower levels than in urine. So there is some urine in the ejaculate. Some studies conclude that in some women the ejaculate is more like urine, and in other women it more like a prostate fluid. Until this question is answered fully, its safest to assume that it is a bit of both. The quantity of ejaculate can range from a few drops, to a shower of it.
Where does the ejaculate come from? There are several theories on this, but remaining constant amongst all of them is that female ejaculation comes from G-spot Stimulation. When the G-spot is stimulated over a period of time, the spongy tissue that creates this area fills with fluid. Women who can ejaculate often hold back, thinking that it is urine. The exact source of the ejaculate is still debated by researchers, but it does appear to come out of the urethra (like urine) and/or nearby Skene's Gland, so that is where the confusion takes place.
So what's left? You might want to learn how to get someone to ejaculate, or how to do it yourself. Like exploring everything else new in your experience of sex, you should work towards it, but not put unnecessary stresses on yourself by making it your goal. Also, it is not known whether all women are able to ejaculate, so if you or your partner is unable to - don't worry, but perhaps keep trying once in a while. As you already know, the ejaculate comes from the urethra or Skene's Gland, so it feels a lot like urine.
Apart from those who love 'golden showers' (the fetish of urinating on, or being urinated on), many people do not feel comfortable enough to risk urinating on or around their partner. It may be a good idea to allow yourself or your partner some privacy to understand this function of their body; at the very least let your partner now that you are excited about it, not grossed out. That being said, great places to try this out include the shower or bathtub, in or near water, or on top of some old blankets that you don't mind getting wet.
If you have any comments about this article, or would like to share your personal experiences, please post below!
i have fingered my Gf many a times and each time i have gotten her so close to orgasm but she always said Stop cause she want me to go the whole way first type thing... But she does cum a bit without the orgasm... so i think it just depends on how you do your thing ^ ^
Its all in the hips too -.0
well basicly my girlfriend and i have been toether for a year now, and we have been havin sex for quite some time. i have been trying to make her cum in every way possible i have stimulated her clitoricly, and massaged her G-spot aswell as eatting her out i know im doin it well since she moans and sticks my head down there and tells me to not stop. so the only problem is that after letz say 15-20 minutes of that a white substances comes out from her vagina and she tells me she feels like peeing or dat it tickles her so i havta stop since i she closes up on me. i have told her to relax and just to let herself go, but according to her da peeing sensation as well as da tickling sensation r too strong to e ignore, please if any1 can help me out i would be ever so thankful i just want my girl to enjoy sex as much as possible. with out havin those sensations.thank you.
Tell her not to fight the feeling and just let it go! I thought the same thing when it first happen to me. I felt I had urinate. But it felt so much better! Now I'm at the point where I can control it. But it takes lots of practice.
The female ejaculation is something great, when ur having sex and feel your body totally wet, it is like you've climbed to another level as a lover.
My girlfriend said she wants to try this. She said she squirted with an old boyfriend so she is capable. She wants me to make her squirt again.
I've read how to do it, but what if she can't?
What does that mean?
Is the sexual attraction not the same?
Is she more sexually attracted to him?
Forget about comparisons, first of all. It's usually best in a relationship if old relationships don't come up at all, but if it's too late for that, just ignore it. It's ancient history. After all, you're with her now, not the other guy, right?
2nd of all, quit worrying about performance. Worrying won't help. Ask her what she would like you to do. Be romantic with her, and get her in the mood. try what she says worked before, and then experiment in new ways. Read what has worked for other women in this subject, and try them out. It'll happen, and you can go on from there.
ok so here is my question....can u generally feel the sensation? because my bf says that i have, but i never feel it....also when he ejaculates inside me i cant feel that either....is that normal??? or ???
You should feel it if you get aroused during sex. If you don't feel it when he ejaculates in you, it could be one of two things.
1. you aren't feeling it and aren't in the mood.
or
2. you have enjoyed it so much that its come to the point where you've gone numb. It happens so don't feel bad if you don't feel it.
If you boyfriend knows that you are having an orgasm, just make sure he remembers what he is/was doing so he can stimulate you over and over.
Do you get aroused when you're having sex or during foreplay?
i get more aroused during sex than foreflay....they are both good though. i know when i am having an orgasm....and he knows it too....but as far as ejaculation im not so sure.....like i said he says i do....one night it was 3 times.....and i know what im feeling when he says i have....but i dont actually feel the sensation that i think i should.....and i usually dont feel anything when he comes.....yes the wetness down there changes and shortly after he gets soft, but i cant actually feel it when he comes....but i guess when i think about it.....when i have given him a blow job, when he actually comes....there isn't as much "force" as you might think when it comes out.....i dunno....i just was wondering if i was normal... :P but then again what is normal?
I squirt, I wasnt completely sure of it until now, eh cool I guess, w/e
how did you get yourself to squirt?
nice
idunno, im almost always wet. im in my pre-teen years, so yeah. confusing.
look down a couple times while u are masturbating and check....u might be able to
im 14
what i just said didn't have anything to do with the theme here, right? ok sorry.
i've done this a few times without even realizing what i was doing, i was just embarrassed beacuse i thought i accidently peed somehow so i rushed my guy into the shower and have been trying to prevent myself from doing it! i cant wait till next time we have sex because im just gonna let it happen because it feels so good!!
with a % of urine in it is it safe to drink?
what does it taste like?
in all the movies the guy always pulls out can you leave it in(Penis)and she still squirt?
i have never orgasmed from sex but i have from masturbation but i'm not sure if i have ejaculated:/
it feels like i'm going to pee so normally i stop it and use the bathroom but last time i just let it go, i dont know if i came, it smellt a tiny bit like pee? was it?
my pussy is always wet and i leak...lol. but is there something wrong wit me? its not like a big puddle or anythin like piss. it just a lil
there's nothin wrong wit u....us guys love that..we want u to do that....we want to lick it till there's no more left
My pussy is always wet, it's like a flood down there, what can I do to stop this? Is this a turn off to men?
A wet pussy is never a turn off to guys, It makes us wanna lick it clean ;)
i like that. keep the cunt cleaned out. a new way of douching.
ok, I had some oral sex with my gf couple times. whenever i stimulate her clit, she about to cum half way But I cant finish her. Same problem when we have sex, did I do anything wrong? Any suggestions, pls help. She really wants me to make her cum.
sup, so have you asked her about this? have you asked her what you could do to her that would make her cum, what feels good, what doesnt that sorta thing...ask her about her fantasies? role play perhaps?
could work...wouldnt hurt to try hehe
i want to be able to do this so bad! my boyfriend has been fingering me and performing oral on me for the last 6 months, but he cant make me orgasm or cum. he asks if he is doing anything wrong, and i dont know what to tell him cuz he is the first guy that ive been this serious with. but he cant find my g-spot and i dont know how to show him. plus when i do it to myself i can only make myself cum a little bit. nothing powerful like i heard it can be. can anyone help us? like give me tips for him when he is fingering me. i dont know. i just dont know what to do anymore. if you have any answers, private message me please. thanks :)
girls do ejaculate. I do, but I can only make myself do it. being a teenager, sex is pushed into the tiniest time frames between parents and siblings being home, so there's never time to work up to it. I think every girl can do it, you just have to get it worked up to it.
Girls do cum! not all girls, but a various amount do. I'm 15, been with my boyfriend for 9 months now, and he can always make me squirt - whilst fingering me AND during sex.
Just remember that NOT ALL GIRLS CUM!
ok so your the only teenager i know that wants to have sex now.actually wait teenagers go up to like 17 so how old are you cus im 13?
I'd like to comment on all the teens that are writing about sex here. There is a big reason that you should wait, or at least use contraception 100% of the time. (Masturbation is another thing.)
In ancient times, and in societies where few people are educated, teens often marry at around age 13. In many of these societies, someone of this age is considered an adult. So why is it so different in Europe, America, etc.? Education.
In developed nations like the U.S., education is essential to earning a good living. Most men & women who finish college have a very good chance of earning a good living. Men & women who finish high school tend to earn much less than those who finished college, but have a shot at a decent living. The majority of high school dropouts, however, will have a hard time getting a good job or getting anywhere in life. Especially if they're trying to raise a child at the same time.
That's why the age of adulthood in the U.S. used to be 21, the usual age when one graduates from college and starts their first real job. At that age it was legal to drink, get married (earlier by parental permission only,) and have sex legally. During the Vietnam War the age of adulthood was lowered to 18, because many people argued that if an 18 year old was considered old enough to die in a war, they should be old enough to be an adult, and allowed to marry & drink.
The point I want to make is that teen pregnancy almost always leads to dropping out of school, and hardship later in life. And it CAN happen to you, as it does to about ONE MILLION teenage girls in the U.S. each year.
Unfortunately, while abstinence is the best policy, it doesn't keep teens from having sex. So if you ARE a teen having sex, make sure he uses a condom EVERY time. Because it only takes one time without protection to get pregnant. If you can make it through high school or college without getting pregnant, you'll go farther in life, and have an easier time of it.
Did you know:
One million teens in the USA will become pregnant over the next twelve months. Ninety-five percent of those pregnancies are unintended. About one third will end in abortion; one third will end in spontaneous miscarriage; and one third will continue their pregnancy to term and keep their baby.
~More than half of them are 17 years old or younger when they have their first pregnancy.
~Approximately 40 percent of young women become pregnant before they reach 20 years old.
~The U.S. has double the adolescent pregnancy and birth rates of any other industrialized country.
~Less than one-third of teens who have babies before the age of 18 finish high school.
~Almost half of all teen mothers end up on welfare.
~The birth rate for teens has been rising in recent years.
Use a condom every time, no matter what. If you're having trouble in school, talk to your guidance counselor. The rest of your life is ahead of you.
I have been with a LOT of women. Sex has always been good. I know that most of the women I have been with (with the exception of my ex wife, with whom sex was terrible for 22 years because she was a selfish idiot) were more than satisfied with me. In fact several of them still give me booty calls today. But none of them squirted. My current girlfriend has enormous orgasms that are undeniable. Female ejaculation is absolutely the hottest sex I have ever been involved with. She has multiple orgasms every time we have sex.... NO LIE... It is FABULOUS!!!!! I LOVE IT!!!
First time I got my girl to squirt it was dripping all down my arms and we both weren't expecting it but she didn't notice til I told her :P from my fingers to my elbow I was soaked (was fingering at the time) :P she was like "sorry" and I was like "what?! I loved it, next time squirt all over my dick!" so she did :D
I have never squirted or anything before because everytime I feel like I have to pee, I stop and go to the bathroom. I just can't make myself let go and let it out. Any suggestions?
I have been with 3 ladies in my life that were able to squirt. 2 of them when they came there muscles inside would force my cock out like it was a torpedo. The third could only get her to let go in the tub. The feeling of a women coming on my cock is the best thing about sex. And its a great way to weed out fakers that say they ejaculated. I know all women don't do it . But it can be learned , just let it flow girls . We can do the sheets and towels later , when we run out . And esme try doing it some place else that you feel comfortable to let the flow go . Relax and you and your lover enjoy yourselves .
First you have to re-train the way you orgasm. The natural reaction for a woman when she cums is to tense her pussy up. If your man doesn't know where your g-spot is show him in a picture if you have to. It is inside a womans pussy and up toward her stomach. It feels a little differnt the walls of her pussy so you should be able to tell the difference. Have him use two fingers, his middle finger and his ring finger and make a motion inside of you as if he were motioning you to come over to him if you were across a room. When you start to orgasm instead of tensing your pussy...push outward when you cum. With a little practice you will be drowning him in female ejaculation...PROMISE!
I always feel the need to use the bathroom as well. However, just wait till after to use the bathroom. I'm pretty sure that even if you feel like you need to go really badly, it won't actually happen. But it's apparently normal and good to use the bathroom after sex.
My gf and I had sex the other night. This is the first time that I have had a lot of time to do what I wanted with her. We were in my bathroom and the counter. First, we did the Butterfly position, then Doggy (standing). When we were in Doggy, I noticed she was going to come. So I slowly pulled my cock out, and looked down. It looked like my dick was in a waterfall.
When I made her come again, I pulled out comepletly, and she squirted everywhere. The ejaculate hit my stomach, then more came spilling out onto the floor. It was clear, and slippery haha. I had to lay a towel down, because I picked her up to move her, and I almost fell on the tile XD.
If any of you actually read this, private msg me if you have any questions.
I really want to be able to do this for my guy. He told me one day he is going to make me, and I'd really like to help that happen.
I'm wondering if its just the intensity of the orgasm? Because I've had a good number of intense ones where my entire body shakes from it, and I will commonly cum 2+ times in a single interaction. Like I said I really want to find the best way to do this for the both of us.
like the other person said, you have to let it build up first, and instead of tensing and tightening ur pussy when u orgasm, especially if you feel like you have to pee, push against it or just release, and it should happen.And always take deep even breathe, u dont orgasm as well if you hold ur breathe.
I do believe it is the intensity of the orgasm. I think that if you take your time and build a big orgasm, your body needs a release, and ejaculating will be what your body does
Ok so i no lie, jus got done masterbating..it was my first time actually commiting to it. becuz other times i got impatient. ne ways.. so i read wat it says above to do earlier, and i listened.. you kno wen you get the feeling like you have to pee? well instead of stopping like i normally do, i let it go.. and im not sure if i came or i peed.. can someone help clarify it for me?? im pretty sure i came. and if i did, then dammit i could have came A LONG time ago
most likely you came, but how did you get yourself to that point? i try to masturbate and stimulate the g spot but i get impatient and also i can't seem to hit it. do you use something like toys?
i always ejaculate. it's like a flood and i hate it. what shld i do?
Girls, girls, girls, squirting is among the most sexy things a girl can do. There's a good chance you will only benefit from your ability. Let it be natural :)
aww, that happens to me too :(
nothin you can do to rlly stop it..jus wear an everyday panty liner so when you cum it gets absorbed :)
y do u hate it?
im a virgin & i've always really wanted to squirt . i have masturbated before but i dont know if im able to .. so can someone who can squirt let me know if it's because im a virgin that i cant do this, am i doing something wrong, any information would be very much appreciated . thank you, candie
try applying more pressure to your g spot, release and then put or pressure onto it with your fingers this helps. dont give up! it can take a while to master the technique! :)
msg me with any more questions!
You just need to use a different stroke when you touch yourself.
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