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Ben Dover Sex Position

The Ben Dover position is essentially Standing Doggy-Style but with the receiver bending over at the waist. In a venue where lying down is undesirable, this is a great position to practice. It is advised that the receiver place their hands on the floor, or grabs their ankles, to balance themselves; this will allow for a more enjoyable experience, faster thrusting, and less likely-hood of falling over. Bending over pushes the pelvis back against the giver allowing easier and deeper penetration, but is otherwise less intimate than the regular Standing version.

For variation the receiver should try spreading their legs apart or bringing them together. However, the farther you spread your legs the deeper the giver is going to have to squat to gain access; say hello to burning quads. To overcome height differences, the giver should try squatting, or the receiver should be given something to stand on.

Youknowit
That turned me on

That turned me on

aryan1722
rate this position out of

rate this position out of 10...!!!

kibristurk
i like this position i m

i like this position i m going to do alot with my lovely wife soon

ohbaby101
i love this one we can do it

i love this one
we can do it whenever
if im wearin a skirt
it turns him on because i can do anything
while in this

krbxx14
shower

this postion it great in the shower if your man is taller than you. personally i love it.

bebebutterfly20
LOVE

SO hot! I love bending over and watching my bfs dick go in and out, with his fingers all over my clit, and me playing with his balls, it's so fun.. I've never done it in a shower, I think it's best in front of a mirror.

AlliM
this one is also wonderful

this one is also wonderful in the shower. i love the water hitting us and the feeling of his dick in my cooter when i'm in this position. and you can also grab their legs and control the speed :)

Cake
I only like this position in

I only like this position in the shower. First ever orgasm in this position, in the shower... I fell over. heh. Very fun, but gives you a head rush.

hystikal
I only like this position in

I only like this position in the shower stall. I get turned on when I watch my boyfriend penetrate from that low of a view.

killermonkattack
dont do this if your guy is

dont do this if your guy is sneaky! i ended up with something in my ass

MyMoonbeam
Can you say head rush?

Can you say head rush?

daffodils07
shower

this is real good if you like it rough and your in a shower stall. just don't hit ur head!

oodaliloop
iii woulllldd love my bf to

iii woulllldd love my bf to spank me in this position

penguinkool
new kind of ben dover

my wife to be and i love a new way of this pstion its all the same but my stick is in a different place my stick goes between her legs when closed and it makes it a tight spot for my stick to go thro and if you dont like that then have her legs open and f**k her clit from the back and if long enough you and hit that g-spot easily and omg its instint screaming from her along with your ankles wet from her orgasm and you screaming and filling her clit with you cum and wake sure you have a soft floor because both of your knees will give out and trust me you will be so out of your stance you will be falling togather

"B"
anal sex

how do i get my gf to let me f**k her in her a**
we have never done it but she says it will hurt and its only an exit but i wanna try it.

glovej
i hate when ppl touch my ass

i hate when ppl touch my ass with their finger..i dunno about the sticking your thumb in it advice. anal is fun though and women can cum from it....

sexaddict101
the way i got mine to let me

the way i got mine to let me in was i got to fingering her really good, then slipped my thumb in her ass while i was still fingering her pussy really hard, & when i told her why it felt so much better she was more than happy to let me in. FYI it more than likely WILL hurt her the first few times.

Anonymous (not verified)
anal sex advice

Good advice from both of the other two posters !
Respect her. She may just plain not want this experience. Don't worry about it and don't change ladies. She may change her mind anytime !
ALR

Anonymous (not verified)
anal love

TONNS of lube!
loads of patients (esp for you)!
extreem relaxation(for your gf)
take your time(no forced penetration)!!!
work up to it by (as has already been stated) using fingers
let her know that the pleasure nerves of her vagina are actually closer to the wall of her rectum (therefore it can be pleasurable though probobly won't make her cum with out rubbing her clitoris)
DO WHATEVER IT TAKES TO WIN HER TRUST!!

abbye2000
my boyfriend has hinted he wants to try this

But ive been afraid to talk about it. Id like to let him know that i feel much more confortable with him now, that I trust him and that I really want to let him take me this way; but I dont know how to let him know. Any help is greatly appreciated.

ynvnh
dont worry

just star out by asking him how he feels about it. trust me, if hes like most guys, he wont mind

Anonymous (not verified)
try

fingering her in the a** so it will hurt less, and so might like it. and the first time dont go in all the way just go in like 1 or 2 inches so she can get used to it

Anonymous (not verified)
I love it standing

My lady likes being spanked and this position allows me to smack her bottom while I f**k her.

Anonymous (not verified)
I'm a bit submissive so I

I'm a bit submissive so I love any rear entry position because I feel more vunerable and exposed. I'm usually bent over the bed or the arm of the couch. My boyfriend often f**ks my ass in this position but BE CAREFUL! His cock can hurt me if he gets too wild.

Anonymous (not verified)
Love this

This is the best way for us to hit my g-spot. I do have to wear some kind of shoes with some heel though to get the right hieght.