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Ben Dover Sex Position

The Ben Dover position is essentially Standing Doggy-Style but with the receiver bending over at the waist. In a venue where lying down is undesirable, this is a great position to practice. It is advised that the receiver place their hands on the floor, or grabs their ankles, to balance themselves; this will allow for a more enjoyable experience, faster thrusting, and less likely-hood of falling over. Bending over pushes the pelvis back against the giver allowing easier and deeper penetration, but is otherwise less intimate than the regular Standing version.

For variation the receiver should try spreading their legs apart or bringing them together. However, the farther you spread your legs the deeper the giver is going to have to squat to gain access; say hello to burning quads. To overcome height differences, the giver should try squatting, or the receiver should be given something to stand on.

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That turned me on

rate this position out of

rate this position out of 10...!!!

i like this position i m

i like this position i m going to do alot with my lovely wife soon

i love this one we can do it

i love this one
we can do it whenever
if im wearin a skirt
it turns him on because i can do anything
while in this


this postion it great in the shower if your man is taller than you. personally i love it.


SO hot! I love bending over and watching my bfs dick go in and out, with his fingers all over my clit, and me playing with his balls, it's so fun.. I've never done it in a shower, I think it's best in front of a mirror.

this one is also wonderful

this one is also wonderful in the shower. i love the water hitting us and the feeling of his dick in my cooter when i'm in this position. and you can also grab their legs and control the speed :)

I only like this position in

I only like this position in the shower. First ever orgasm in this position, in the shower... I fell over. heh. Very fun, but gives you a head rush.

I only like this position in

I only like this position in the shower stall. I get turned on when I watch my boyfriend penetrate from that low of a view.

dont do this if your guy is

dont do this if your guy is sneaky! i ended up with something in my ass

Can you say head rush?

Can you say head rush?


this is real good if you like it rough and your in a shower stall. just don't hit ur head!

iii woulllldd love my bf to

iii woulllldd love my bf to spank me in this position

new kind of ben dover

my wife to be and i love a new way of this pstion its all the same but my stick is in a different place my stick goes between her legs when closed and it makes it a tight spot for my stick to go thro and if you dont like that then have her legs open and f**k her clit from the back and if long enough you and hit that g-spot easily and omg its instint screaming from her along with your ankles wet from her orgasm and you screaming and filling her clit with you cum and wake sure you have a soft floor because both of your knees will give out and trust me you will be so out of your stance you will be falling togather

anal sex

how do i get my gf to let me f**k her in her a**
we have never done it but she says it will hurt and its only an exit but i wanna try it.

i hate when ppl touch my ass

i hate when ppl touch my ass with their finger..i dunno about the sticking your thumb in it advice. anal is fun though and women can cum from it....

the way i got mine to let me

the way i got mine to let me in was i got to fingering her really good, then slipped my thumb in her ass while i was still fingering her pussy really hard, & when i told her why it felt so much better she was more than happy to let me in. FYI it more than likely WILL hurt her the first few times.

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anal sex advice

Good advice from both of the other two posters !
Respect her. She may just plain not want this experience. Don't worry about it and don't change ladies. She may change her mind anytime !

Anonymous (not verified)
anal love

TONNS of lube!
loads of patients (esp for you)!
extreem relaxation(for your gf)
take your time(no forced penetration)!!!
work up to it by (as has already been stated) using fingers
let her know that the pleasure nerves of her vagina are actually closer to the wall of her rectum (therefore it can be pleasurable though probobly won't make her cum with out rubbing her clitoris)

my boyfriend has hinted he wants to try this

But ive been afraid to talk about it. Id like to let him know that i feel much more confortable with him now, that I trust him and that I really want to let him take me this way; but I dont know how to let him know. Any help is greatly appreciated.

dont worry

just star out by asking him how he feels about it. trust me, if hes like most guys, he wont mind

Anonymous (not verified)

fingering her in the a** so it will hurt less, and so might like it. and the first time dont go in all the way just go in like 1 or 2 inches so she can get used to it

Anonymous (not verified)
I love it standing

My lady likes being spanked and this position allows me to smack her bottom while I f**k her.

Anonymous (not verified)
I'm a bit submissive so I

I'm a bit submissive so I love any rear entry position because I feel more vunerable and exposed. I'm usually bent over the bed or the arm of the couch. My boyfriend often f**ks my ass in this position but BE CAREFUL! His cock can hurt me if he gets too wild.

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Love this

This is the best way for us to hit my g-spot. I do have to wear some kind of shoes with some heel though to get the right hieght.