Threesomes – Guide to

i think the good sex just with wife or gf

My girlfriend last night got really horny together, and we basically said that we could do a 3/4some if we wanted, I'm really up for it tho i am a tad sxard that she's gona get joules after or something like that. To be honest i dont mind if we do a 4some, it sounds kinda hot. So anyone got any stories that would help, or stories in general, me n my girl get off on hot sex stories ;)
Thanks

My girlfriend and i have been together for 3 years and we have been trying to look for a girl for a threesome. We both dont want another male we both just want to do a female. At first i didn't take this subject seriously because i didnt know how she really felt about it but now im for sure that this is something that we both want! It can be hard to find someone at times. Usually the girl just wants to fuck either me or her and not both and neither of us wants that! We have someone in mind but now we are just talking and getting to know each other better! Is there anything that i should know, consider or any advice out there. This would be my first threesome and i am exited however i want to know what i can do to make sure this is an enjoyable experience to have and maybe do a second time!

Me and my husband has been together a lil over a year now and we have been talkin bout havein a threesome for a while now well we hocked up with one of my friends and got together. I fone night....everythang was ok and all I still felt a lil uncomfortable about the whole thang but went along with it u no hopein mayeb it would help spice up or relationship or something...well it keeps going and I was ok during it till he put her were she was eatin me out and he was doin he doggy style and I just couldn't look at him idn just something came over me that I couldn't maybe the fact that I was lettin the one I love fuck another girl yea I was there but still it just wasn't right....but after everythang was over and done with we went to sleep and my friend stayed with me for a couple more days...but now everytime I ask him if he wants to just have sex with him and me he always have a excuse to why he dnt want to or can't but he will text me and her askin if we wanted a threesome again.....idn what to think he will fuck me and another girl and is always up to that and all but when it comes to us he just isn't in the mood anymore and idn what to do bout it....so if anyone can help me wrap my head around that fact on why he won't just fuck me please help me out

My wife really wants a threesome, but even more wants to get gang banged,very sexy! She has had several partners since she and I got together and loves being with other men, while i watch. I really enjoy her having sex when I'm not there , I like knowing she's having sex without me there. Very stimulating her talking about wanting to bang some guy she is talking to, watching her get ready for a date, or just fu**ing some guy then telling me all about it while I fu** her. She likes to take me shopping for lingerie and talk about how this guy is gonna fu** her, or do this to her. She says that is the best part, how aroused I get when she is talking, and our sex after.

how do i get my wife to be to have a ffm threesome
without her getting upst at me?

lol, i was the meat with the two lesbians, they put a strap on on me, on is riding on my shaft, the other one is riding of the strap. but it was boring, i was completely ignored

Several times over the past few years my husband has brought home a man or I suggested a man from our work envirnment or the workout gym and offered to have him come play. After a nice dinner and a few drinks we ventured down stairs to our finished basement with a bedroom, flat screen on the wall and a small library of xxx dvd's. One can always tell when the eyes grow wide & a smile appears that this could be fun.
It's a powerful feeling being the center of attention of two attractive, very sexy well built men. I find myself lost in the moment, lost in the hour, lost in the night. For hours we play until all the energies are spent. Sore, tired & satisfied.
We have a very happy home. I wish to keep it that way!!!

My gf and I have threesomes on a regular. She is bi and really loves the touch of another woman. Bringing in another male has been mentioned. I told her that it is fine but she can't touch a female in one of our ffm threesomes. She says NO WAY because she loves females as much as me. I only say that because I think a threesome should be even for everyone involved. I am straight therefore in a mmf threesome I am not touching the male. I only get her. In a ffm threesome everybody gets everybody. I'm not being selfish. I just think that the playing field should be even. I even mentioned bringing in a couple but she can't touch the female and she said that's not happening. lol. Although we have had a few threesomes they are hard to come about at our age. We are in our early 20's and don't find many trustworthy females our age.

i had one threesome and i was single, so i was the third wheel i guess... The meat!

Well my hubby brought up the idea of me inviting another gal to have fun but i then asked what if i brought a man instead, he looked at me funny and said F*** no. so that was my answer too.
I have no desire to be sexually inimate with two people at the same time especially when i care only about only one of them.
why would i agree to do something i dont want to do in the first place and not get it my way too.
Its not like i havent been with women before, it just isnt anything that interests me.
LISTEN GUYS!
IF YOU WOULD NOT HAVE A THREESOME WITH ANOTHER MAN TO PLEASE YOUR WOMAN DONT PRESSURE HER TO DO IT WITH ANOTHER WOMAN IF SHE DOES NOT WANT TO!
its sad to say but most men are pigs and arent open minded, dont expect everything to go your way.
(ps this isnt for every man, this is only for the chauvinist close minded losers :)

My wife and I had talked about the idea of a threesome for a good couple of years as a form of being additionally aroused in the bedroom, newlyweds lol. We have always been open sexually and decided we would make it happen on a ffm basis as my wife loved the idea of being intimate with another woman. Also she loved the idea of watching me penetrate and perform oral sex on the other party. We decided that a good friend of ours who shared our sexual opinions was an ideal option being single and a trusted friend, we spent a few weeks exploring some simple fooling around and testing limits before we had our first full experience. For us this has turned out to be great, there were no restrictions other than no anal which all three agreed to. We accepted kissing as this makes everything even more erotically charged, try not kissing your partner during sex and you will see what i mean. Now a few months on and we still regularily participate in 3somes. But more surprising is that we both felt more for the 3rd party and now persue an open relationship with her as long as she is comfortable. I love hearing stories from my wife when she stays over at her house or even upstairs when i'm cooking dinner, and vice versa when myself and our new lover get together. Biggest thing right from the start was trust, without completely trusting your partner i would definitely not recommend a 3some but for us it has been a life changing experience. My initial reservations on being able to satisfy 2 women soon passed, you soon learn to keep a lid on yourself while still enjoying every minute. Although its great to let rip and fill whichever hole is occupied or simply go for the cover all option. Ady -X-

i have had many 3some experiences in my younger days (teenager) with mmw,wwm no m 2 m penetration.it is enjoyable.I think that if 3somes is practiced you shouldnt have any feelings for the other person unless you are very open in ure relationship.
always ask ureself,would u like it if it was being done to u..meaning ure partner having another partner with u there
i see alot of posts the female love to have another guy or another woman..where does the male benifit?

...but someone who is dominant? This will not work...if you read her only on her readings...she may do the same thing to you....and call you on it....or believe that you are being judgemental. Afterall...why is a man's best friend a dog?? Cause he can read the emotions in others easily?? NO...because he can also be judgemental...detach himself from his feelings...to which a dominant woman is already doing the same. Then the dominant woman can see him trying to put moves on her....and see him...by making those same shy moods...but then read him as well! Basically...a dominant woman is basically that...DOMINANT...don't tell me women in high power (or even educated women...which typically are the most dominant) ie politics, CEO, that prison warden bitch from Death Race...don't detach themselves from their emotions too! Basically two things you can only do...call her on it...or basically challenging her...or...act nice boys and she'll eat you up. This does not mean sending emails like "hey babe...what's up?" or even the matter of a couple with a dominant women...will judge you! Trust me...easy to see...a typical man way. So then...what do you do...email asking questions will work typically the most (although very dominant women will typically won't mind the hey let's fuck if she thinks your cute and can shut your mouth) to woman always...this shows your true interest in them...like what you like to do for fun? maybe stating some of your own...point is...she doesn't want to see you...or even another couple...thinking with their testosterones...but...after some correspondance...with the similar questions posed...it shows you have emotions and thought!! Your open about sharing...and communication...and typically...if communication runs this way...it won't be long till either she starts telling you her fantasies...or even her most thoughts...or just an email saying she'd love to meet up for coffee.

POINT IS WITH DOMINANT WOMEN:
1. Submit and Challenge her
2. Or communicate with thought and interest...opening communication and comfort

Let's see what other girls and you guys think...post on this post lolz

Just a little advice from MA in Psychology..lol

My boyfriend and I love talking about a WWM threesome - it turns both of us on to imagine it! I have thought about MMW before, with me as the 'meat' in the sandwich, but the idea isn't something my guy can handle... he says annother dick in the room would just make him want to leave. It doesn't surprise me, as he is a very straight kind of guy, but I'm bi-curious and love the idea of sex with a woman! I really want to give WWM a try but there are issues; we are in love and both don't like the idea of him having sex with annother woman... when we talk of a 3some it's always with the idea of me in the middle, as it were. He's good with me having sex with annother woman as this isn't threatening - he knows I'm satisfied by him alone and wouldn't do it without him as for me it's like an 'extra' as part of our relationship. Plus it turns him on which helps! But I'm not sure how a WWM 3some where the guest W only interacted with the other woman would work, is it technically even a 3some if all participants are not all having some kind of sex with each other?

i was at a party with my gf and her freind was there and i didnt no they were bi (turns out they r) and they were kissing in the corner and they seen me as i walked to her bedroom to get another drink well wen i turned around they were standing there and it happened so quickly i dont no wat happened apart from it was awsome and now we regularly have it with each other as they really enjoy it they said they like eachother and they also like me so everytime we r at a party i cant say i dont enjoy it but it can go for a long long time thats the only let down

I see alot of people on here wondering if this will mess there relationship up. If you have a doubt or think it might...DONT DO IT! Me and my wife have recently been talking about having 2 threesomes. MMW and WWM. We have decided not to ask any of our friends and the person we do chose will have to go with us to have STD tests done (condoms arent 100%). My advice is use a stranger, but be safe...there are ways of proving you are clean. and after the fact break ALL ties with that person. I also see alot of guys on here talking about a WWM 3some but will not have a MMW threesome. Odds are your girl wants 2 men at once but probably wont say it. Whats good for the goose is good for the gander. Keep that in mind. she has fantasys too :)

This is nasty.............

My husband and I have been talking about having a treesome for a long time now. One with 2f and 1m and one with 2m and 1f. I have a gf who he is also friends with and discovered that she was curious also. After some discussions we decided that we were going to do it together. There was no intercourse with him and her but everything else. I thought that I was going to be fine with it and during it I was fine. But after she had got off she was done and that ruined the mood for him. So then he was done. I felt so aweful. Should I have felt this way? All he is worried about is how she feels.. hasnt asked me once how I was. Am I crazy?

Me and my boyfriend have talked about having a threesome, but we have both voiced that we don't want to share each other. He suggested that if we ever did, he would only do oral and anal with her, but I'm still not sure. I mean, I've always wanted to have a threesome, but with him, I think I would have a hard time, because I really love him, and I don't want to see him doing anything with another girl.

The only thing about 3somes is need to determine the rules ahead of time, especially if you GF is not bi. Personally. I like to use montreal escorts because they establish the guidelines of what they will and wont do so you always know what you are in for.

Threesomes are over rated, guys, think about it, your responsible for giving 2 girls orgasms, thats just too much work for me, 1 on 1 is plenty for me

Well it just took a day and being what I am and to get my wife satisfied and her curiosity aroused, I got around an extra male from a swingers club to join in with our chosen other male to give an alternative to threesome to get 3m 1F sexual encounter. We obviously first had to have a good discussion as to what needs to be done and how far we intend going. I must say that a good educational porn movie beforehand gave us a good insight and when we were ready we set ourselves out comfortably.Now this is not difficult, but psychologicaly to play a part one has to be absolutely sure that it's for fun only and not for emotional reasons.If that hurdle is overcome then it's all well, but remember that the woman (like mine) must never be abused, but volantarily satisfied.
I will just outline what worked fine for us and we stuck to it. Considering sizes and penetration, my wife had to make the decision as to which one she would be able to take in which opening. At length, it was decided that I will anal (as she is use to me there), male 2 with the longer penis was to do vaginal, and male 3 would have been the easiest to oral.
I lay flat on back with my wife lowering her anus onto my cock. . She than bent backwards to lay flat on my chest and male 2 then pushed his cock in from the top.Her head now almost on my face, but facing upwards, male 3 pumped his cock into her mouth. We all moved together is a steady rhythm and as soon one was about to ejaculate, we all stopped. This went on for a while until we all were ready to explode.(my wife included). it all went off with an intense orgasm and we totally cleared out our cum before we stopped.
To all intense an purposes, it was fantastic, alot of cleaning up to do as a lot of semem is ejaculated, but when I asked my wife later if it was ok she said "absolute" but lets have this type of sex only on special occations. A word of advice to those who want to try this. It's taxing if you not experienced and the female must be a 100% willing partner. The chosen males must have had done this type of foursome previouly and the sizes of their penis's must be able to accomodate the woman's openings. If not she can be injured very badly, so choose carefully.As for the cum factor, my woman normally treats is as an extra bonus, so no bar is placed as to it's taste or where it's ejaculated. She enjoys, swallows, licks or sucks it but it may differ with other woman.

an old friend of hers, m, and me. although i said i was ok with it, wasn't really. only true regret in life. However, it did open us to multi penetration sex so now often we have anal and she uses a rabbit vaginally. but, more than likely, never participate in one again, espc with people you know/used to know.

Previously my wife and I had many a threesome's but limited to 2f 1m (me).As anal sex was difficult and not an option we stuck to that option. However it's a few months down the line, My wife and I are into Anal after some advise received, and now we have just tried a threesome, but with 2m 1f (wife). It was fun, especially if us two males moved into a postion of "double penetration" or "a" hole one with oral on the other, similarly vaginal and oral. The main satisfaction obtained in this variant is for the female as she has the advantage of getting in 2 c..ks at 1 time and like my wife (an ardent lover of semen)....some woman are, she has more than enough to content with. My wife wants now a 3m (her thinking is she has 3 holes so why can't they be used all together at the same time...Ha ha..I said i'll consider it.!

i was attending one college and a friend of mine was at another, his spring break was a week before mine, as was his best friend's. He invited me to a small party he was having at his apartment and i spent the night flirting back and forth with both him, a college track runner, and his best friend, a college swimmer. After a little more flirting and drinking, me and the swimmer went into the bathroom for a little fun, well we must have forgotten the lock the door cuz 30 secs later the runner came in and was like "what, r u starting the party with out me?" Needless to say we lock that door that time and next 2 hrs went by like a whirlwind of orgasm and unexplainable pleasure, runner would kiss and caress me as swimmer went down on me, then they switched...next thing i knew i was bent over with swimmer taking me from behind as i sucked the cock of runner...then they switched...over and over and over...until we moved into the shower to clean up before returning to the party...most incredible, spontaneous, sexual, and orgasmic experience of my life!!!

My boyfriend and I have talked about having a threesome but neither one of us wants him to have sex with the other female. He really just wants to watch us have sex and f**k me while he's watching. I've only kissed other woman but I'm really exited about trying this. Does anyone have any suggestions?

I prefer 3f 3somes let the other girls have their way with me

im a bi male and i love all forms of threesomes and many times, they have been with friends - if you agree that its just fun, that its a one nighter, there is never any after problems
i think people should try it if they want, they are fun!

me, my best friend, and my bf love having threesomes! it's a lot of fun and more people should try it :)

I am bi so I have no hang up about threesome. Thus far have not gone beyond the 2F 1M (My BF)as I think I may loose my BF's trust if I change the rules. He enjoys it very much to have 2 woman perform extra ordinary feats on him. The only jealousy I sometimes feel is that at times what actually belongs to me (semen, oral sex ) goes to my GF who boasts about the grand guy I have. Although I am always part of the threesome, you need to give up some pleasure, but I guess being a lesbian as well I can perform some great oral duties on my GF which makes us all feel highly satisfied afterwards.

I HAVE BEEN GOING OUT WITH MY BF FOR ABOUT 9 MONTHS WE LOVE EACH OTHER AND HIS FANSTANY IS HAVE A THREESOME WITH ONE OF MY BEST FRIEND.WELL I AGREED TO IT AND WHEN WE TOLD HER ABOUT IT SHE SEEM LIKE SHE WAS INTO IT. WHAT AM I SUPPOSE TO DO AFTER IT IS OVER CASUE WE JUST WONT TO MAKE IT A EVER NOW AND THEN THING.

My threesome experience was with my GF of 3yrs at the time and a close M friend (finding an extra M was a lot easier then finding a F).
It was M dominant, us using my GF for what we want. But afterwards the whole thing felt bad and my M friend started acting different, like he had something over me.
After sorting out his ego problem a second threesome was arranged. This time my GF in control of us. Afterwards I didn't feel bad at all.
Was this because I preferred my GF in control a that type of situation or was it because I was over the emotional shock of having had my GF have sex with another M?

Me and my boyfriend have talked alot about having a threesome, im bisexual and the idea interests both of us. The only thing is i dont know if i feel comfortable with him having sex with another woman, i dont mind anal as it seems different but am i being mean? We've been together a year now and its definatly love i just dont want to ruin our relationship with jelousy!